Frame Control Reversals ... Misinterpretation ... and Ignoring (Mark Sing's #1 Favorite Strategy to Get Girls)

0:00 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What's up guys? Thank you for joining me on another episode of the UMP. If you've just come into this podcast for the first time, welcome. But if you've been writing with me for the beginning or for quite some time, I do appreciate you. Thank you so much for coming back. The reviews, the comments I'm getting on iTunes and other podcast apps have been overwhelmingly positive.

0:33 Lots of love being shown. And I just want to let you guys know I really, really do appreciate you. I feel like it's because of you that I'm able to satisfy my purpose, which is to help men attempt to become the very best versions of themselves and thus spur the collective awakening of all humanity. That's my purpose and that's what you guys allow me to do. So thank you so much. Before we get started, I want to let you know that I do offer NLP coaching.

1:04 NLP is Neuro Linguistic Programming. I'm an NLP dating coach. What I do is I go into that brain of yours and I reprogram everything so you can act like a natural, behave like a natural and think like a natural. And women are quite literally programmed to pick up on these subtle mannerisms, tone of voice, inflections, and they'll get attracted to you because of it. Also, I'm going to release a program about how to yank girls offline and how to get them to come to your house during this pandemic.

1:38 Don't know what I'm going to name it yet, but I've been laughingly playing around with the title Pandemic Pussy. Of course, I wouldn't name it that, but I've just been kind of joking around with my clients and partners and stuff. But I really want to give you guys some good information where that's concerned because girls are going to be super lonely over the next several months. They're all going to be flocking to the dating websites and it's going to be easier than ever to use the magic of online dating and the magic of my texting strategies to pull them over to your house.

2:07 And hell, you might get more action than you ever have before in your life. This might turn out to be one of the biggest blessings ever. So, without further ado, guys, let's get into what is my favorite, all-time favorite, number one thing about seduction, and that's frame control reversals and misinterpretation. The black arts of frame control, the black magic of frame control. I am so unbelievably pumped to do this podcast. This is my number one favorite thing, so let's jump into it. All right, I was watching this Facebook video the other day, and these guys come walking out of the gym, and this guy goes up to him, and he's a little chubby, this guy.

2:44 He's got a little bit of fat on him, but he goes up to these guys, and he's like, hey, man, hey, come here, come here. Hey, your legs are pretty skinny, dude. Have you been skipping leg day? And to a man, all these guys explain themselves to this guy. They would say things like, oh, yeah, I've been hitting legs, but, you know, my legs are naturally skinny. They just don't build up really quickly. I've been trying, but, yeah, I hit legs. So they explain themselves to him.

3:08 Now, immediately when I saw that video, I realized what I would do, and this is what I'm going to teach you today. I would flip it on his ass. Anybody questions me, particularly a woman, like questions me with somewhat challenging intent, expecting me to explain myself to that person, I flip it on them, and this is how I do it. I want you to get the following words tattooed on your face. The real question is. Okay, that's what you say, all right? So homeboy came up to me.

3:38 He's like, hey, bro, which, by the way, would probably happen because I got some skinny ass legs, man. Just every Thursday, I do nothing but left calf, and that damn calf muscle just refuses to grow. God, I work hard on my legs, but they don't grow. Anyway, he comes up to me, he's like, hey, bro, your legs are pretty skinny. Do you ever do leg day? The real question is, you're looking pretty fat there, brother. You ever do cardio? That's it. Reverse it, flip it all the time.

4:04 I'm flipping, flipping, flipping, and I do this to girls relentlessly, and they freaking get so attracted because of it. Why? Because as we discussed in previous podcasts, which, by the way, if you haven't listened to these, you really should. The first one's called Frame Control, their number one most important thing about seduction, and the other one is called Hilarious Reversals and Epic Jokes for Girls Compliance Tests. And there's another one you should listen to as well, what 99.99% of guys get wrong with girls. Those three podcasts are all about this topic of frame control, but the reason it works is because I'm showing the woman that I have a stronger frame than she does.

4:45 Now, once again, to reiterate, a frame is my interpretation of reality. If I can flip it on her and make her explain herself to me when she was trying to get me to explain myself to her, I've won. I've totally won. And this is why Donald Trump was elected. Donald Trump fascinates me. As you can see, I talk about him kind of a lot on this podcast, I noticed. But he's fascinating because the dude has the strongest frame ever, and he just frame controls people. He flips the tables on him, just like I'm explaining in this episode, and that's why he's elected.

5:17 And dude, that's why he's going to get re-elected. For some of you, that's the best news ever. For others of you, you're super bummed out. But I believe Joe Biden goes against that guy. He's fucked. He's going to frame check him all day long, dude. He's going to flip the tables. He's going to agree and amplify. He's going to misinterpret, which I'm going to talk about next. He's going to control it. And thus, he got elected because we, as human beings, are social, and we understand quite subconsciously who has more power is he who's controlling the frame.

5:50 So when he was going against Hillary, and he was just frame checking her and just controlling it on her, we all subconsciously understood, okay, this guy's more powerful than she is. That's the dude we're going to vote for. Now, women will often say things to challenge you, okay? The typical challenges I get is, is this what you say to all the girls? How many phone numbers did you get tonight? You're a player, aren't you? You just go around talking to all the girls, don't you? You think you're so suave, don't you?

6:18 You think you're just like such a cool guy, huh? You just think you're the shit, right? All these. It works. The real question is. Again, dude, is that tattooed on your face yet? It's not? What the hell is happening? Go and get that tattooed on your face. The real question is, four words, at least tattoo it on your ass. If you don't want it on your face, I'll accept an ass. Send me a picture. All right, so the real question is, now let's go through these.

6:44 You go up to her, and she's like, is this what you say to all the girls? Is this your pickup line? The real question is, is that what you say to all the guys? Is that one of your pickup lines? Is that what they teach you to say in the girly books? Okay, she asks you, why don't you have a girlfriend? The real question is, why don't you have a boyfriend? It's probably because you're a bad kisser, huh? She asks you, how many phone numbers did you get tonight?

7:06 The real question is, how many phone numbers did you get tonight? I see you talking to all those guys. I know what you're up to, Mrs. Casanova. You're just a player, aren't you? You just go around talking to all the girls. The real question is, why have you been watching me so closely? Are you mildly obsessed with me? Are you following me? I know someone's stalking me. Are you the one? Are you stalker, Texas Ranger? Is it you? Admit it. You have a sniper hide outside of my house.

7:31 You're watching me. Come on, admit it. So once again, guys, the big concept is here is make it about them, right? Dude, with your friends, bro, you can just dominate your friends with this shit. Guys are always challenging each other. Hey, bro, I noticed you've been wearing the same thing two days in a row. Don't you have any other clothes? The real question is, why are you watching me so closely, man? Are you like mildly obsessed with me? Why are you paying such close attention to me?

7:56 It's a big one that you can use all the time. Friend questions you. The real question is, why are you paying such close attention to me, man? Kind of obsessed? Why don't you just focus on yourself? I know you're obsessed, but bro, I'm here, dude. I'm here. You don't have to follow me. You don't have to stalk me. I see you on my Facebook page. Relax, bro. I'm right here. Ask me anything. Feel comfortable. So it's always about the other person. And dude, I learned this from that guy I was telling you about that toxic friend who got addicted to drugs.

8:26 This guy would always frame control me. He would always flip it and make it about me. I remember one time I was in the drive-thru with him and he's like, hey, bro, can you buy me some food? I don't have any money. And I was like, nah, man, like get your own food. He's like, dude, why are you being so cheap? And I was like, why are you being so cheap? He's like, relax, man. He's like, look, I know like you're kind of cheap with your money, but dude, like, could you just hook me up this time?

8:51 And I'm like, I'm not cheap. I'm not cheap with my money, dude. Fuck you, man. You're cheap. He's like, dude, relax, man. If you just buy me this, it's cool. I would appreciate it. Would you mind doing that for me, please? Right? So what was demonstrated there, and he totally controlled the frame on me. I got pissed. It was in college. I got pissed. I like got out of the car and like took a taxi home. It was so stupid, like college age male bullshit, right?

9:14 But see, what he did is he flipped it on me and he showed that his interpretation of reality was stronger than mine because he was less affected. The reason he's so good with chicks, I believe, is because he's a sociopath. He has like very minimal feelings when it comes to other people's emotions. So he's always unaffected. I saw this girl. This girl comes up to him at a club and she's like talking to him, totally into him because he just had the strongest frame ever, unaffected, all the right shit, right?

9:45 And she's like, I could slap you right now and like you would be so hurt. He's like, do it. And she fucking slaps him in the face and he just totally doesn't move and he looks at her and he's like, is that all you got? And like, dude, she just starts cracking up and she's super into him because again, he's unaffected by her. He showed in that moment that he has a stronger frame than she does. And by the way, it's a quick little tip. If a girl ever does anything physical to you, like smacks your arm, smacks you upside the head, you know, girls would just play around and do this shit.

10:17 If you show pain and you show you're affected, horrible, horrible, dude. There's almost nothing worse you can do. She hits you in the arm and it's like pretty hard. Like chicks will fucking deck you, dude. Like I, especially in the bars, man, I've been fucking clobbered a couple of times playfully, not because I said anything crude or anything, but like playfully. This chick once decked me like in the ribs. She like fucking hit me right in the ribs. And I was like, Oh my God. But I didn't let it affect me.

10:45 I just looked at her and I'm like, you're going to pay for that. Right? Unaffected. So this frame control reversal is everything. Always make it about them. They're interested in you. They're getting emotional. They're following you. They're paying close attention to your life. Or the real question is da da da da da. Seriously. If you take one thing from all the hours and hours of podcasts that I've put out, let it be these four words, the real question is, all right, now let's move on to misinterpretation.

11:20 Misinterpretation is exactly as it sounds. She says something and you misinterpret its meaning. So she says, Hey, we're not having sex tonight. Like, Whoa, there, buddy. We're not having sex tonight. Now, as you learn, if you buy into it and you try to explain yourself and be like, well, you know, we've been dating for three dates. I really think it's time to have sex. I really think it's time you just lost. Okay. So that's another rule. Never explain yourself to a woman, but you always want to try to get them explain themselves to you.

11:51 I'll cover that in a moment. But if she says, we're not having sex tonight, you misinterpret. You say, look, talking about sex this early in our friendship is a little too fast for me. I need comfort, rapport, and trust first before I can go there. So slow down Casanova. So she basically says, we're not doing it. You agree and amplify in a way, but you also misinterpret what she meant. All you heard was sex. So you say, Oh, Whoa, slow down. Or you say, Hey, you know what?

12:20 I was actually going to say that, but I felt it was a little bit too early. I didn't think the timing was quite right yet, but yeah, absolutely. So it's like, that's also a reframe, isn't it? Because she says it, you say, ah, kind of fucked up a little bit, dude. Like your timing was a little off. But just so you know, I agree. Absolutely. And by the way, that's a big thing about girls with sex. If they say no sex, you fucking agree with it.

12:45 You agree with it, make it your idea. And then almost like accuse them of being socially inept because they brought it up too quickly. Or by talking about sex, they want to have sex with you. Now, as I mentioned in a previous podcast, I have a favorite one, which is why are you wearing that shirt? Misinterpret it. Okay. If she says, why are you wearing that shirt? And you're like, Oh, well, this is a nice shirt. I think it fits me good. I got it, you know, tailored into my body.

13:09 I think it's great. You're making the classic mistake of explaining yourself to her. But if instead you misinterpret, why are you wearing that shirt? And you say, look, I know you're trying to take off my shirt right now, but this isn't the time or the place for that. Relax. You pass that test because you misinterpret it. Okay. Going back to some of the other ones. Why don't you have a girlfriend? Look, I know you're trying to be my girlfriend right now, but we just met. So take it easy.

13:35 You're a player, aren't you? Oh yeah. I play soccer. I play right midfield. I'm so good. I scored a goal once like in 2008. I'm awesome at soccer. You just think you're so cool, don't you? Yeah, I'm a little bit cold right now, but I left my jacket at home. It's cool. I'll deal with it. Right? It's like you misinterpret. She didn't even mean it that way. And then sometimes they'll be like, no, no, no, no. What I meant was. And then if you just ignore it and change the topic, that wins it every single time.

14:02 And that's actually a third one, a bonus one. Ignoring what she says completely. If she says some shit and you ignore it, it's almost like she didn't say it. Right? Just ignore the shit. It's like, you're a player, aren't you? So anyway, how are you guys doing tonight? Where are you guys from? Right? You just blow past it. Ignore it. Because your frame is so strong that you don't understand when people check your frames. It didn't even occur to you. Because you're so ensconced in your own reality.

14:29 When she says something mean to you, it's like, what? Does not register. Does not compute. Moving on to next thing. That is a quintessential strong frame. All right. So in summary, guys, first of all, we have frame control reversal. The real question is, always flip it. Always practice this with your friends. And by the way, you want to witness conversations between two people. As I've discussed previously, the person who is less affected, the person who is more ensconced in their reality, is the one who's going to win.

15:01 And it's absolutely essential that the girl has a lesser frame than you do for her to get attracted to you. Tip number two, misinterpretation. She says something and you misinterpret what she means to mean something else. Tip number three is ignore what she says completely. Because you're so ensconced in your reality, it didn't even occur to you that she was checking your frame. Didn't even realize it, bro. And I want to give you guys a bonus tip as we wrap up this episode here. One of the things I will do pretty often when she's not drinking alcohol is I'll just be talking to her and then I'll grab her drink out of her hand.

15:39 I'll take a sip of it as I'm looking at her in her eyes and then I'll give it back to her. And then however she reacts, I don't react at all. Like no big deal whatsoever. Here's the drink. It's in my hand now. I'm drinking it. I'm looking at you right in the eyes and then I hand it back. That's a very effective frame control technique to show her that you have a stronger frame than she does. All right, guys. I got more for you where that came from and I'm going to drop them in subsequent podcasts.

16:07 But what I think I'm going to start getting into soon is more of like online kind of stuff, texting stuff, online dating. And like I said, I'm going to go ahead and release that program. I think it's going to be a video program of me speaking to you on video so you can kind of have more of a fireside chat with Mark Singh as it were. And I'll tell you, I'm going to give you my absolute best strategies to pull girls off the internet. I have one thing especially that's going to come with this package.

16:35 And by the way, I'm going to make it affordable. But it has one thing in it specifically that is like a nuclear fucking bomb when it comes to pulling girls offline. So I really look forward to sharing that with you. But I'm still going to come with awesome content on this podcast. So please keep listening. I got lots of gold to drop for you moving forward. So please keep checking in. And once again, guys, thank you so much. It's because of you that I'm able to do this.

17:00 I really consider you guys brothers. I consider you guys friends. So if you have any thoughts, concerns, questions, things you want me to talk about, hit me up, coachmarksingh at gmail.com. Or you can check out my website, coachmarksingh.com. All right, guys. Thank you so much for listening. And I'll see you in the next podcast.

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