Let Me Show You How to Get 526% More Freebies and Hookups in Life

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate it. Today, I'm going to show you how to get 500% more value out of life. That's right. And I honestly feel I'm going to over-deliver in this episode because you guys probably aren't doing this one simple thing that, for me, has completely changed my life.

0:38 I cannot even explain the results this has gotten me, and it's super simple. But why don't most people do it? Because they're fucking cowards. And I know that you have the heart of a warrior. You are not afraid. You move into your fears willingly. And once you do this simple thing that, at first, may feel very fearful to you, you'll realize that you were scared of nothing. Why the hell were you scared in the first place? And then you're going to keep doing this for the rest of your life, and you are going to get so much more out of life because of this one simple thing.

1:08 Before I jump into the content, I want to read yet another testimonial for my three-month coaching program, teaching you how to have an abundance of women, choose rather than be chosen, have hot girls in your bed consistently, and then pick the absolutely best woman for you. I'll tell you what. One of the most important decisions you ever make is the woman who you decide to dedicate your life to. If she's the wrong woman, it's like putting your money into an investment that just absolutely tanks. If she's the right woman, it's like putting your money into an investment that goes 1,000x over your lifetime.

1:42 One of the most important decisions you ever make is the woman who you choose to settle down with. And how can you find the absolute best woman? It's from having abundance, brother. The ability to attract women at will, anytime, any girl, anywhere. If you have the ability to attract her, then your chances of getting a woman who's not only super goddamn sexy and the sex with her is absolutely phenomenal, but also a woman with a good heart in her chest and a good head on her shoulders.

2:10 The only way you're going to get her is not by being chosen because of scarcity, and you meet her off of Tinder or Bumble or Hinge, and you think she's just hot enough, and you're like, well, this girl's pretty good. I think I'll rock with her. No, no, no, no, no. It's from abundance. It's from building the skill set to get that girl because if you want a 10, then you have to make yourself into a 10 as well so that you can keep her attracted and build that life with her.

2:34 All right, here's what John says. Mark, so grateful to be a part of your program, brother. When I was looking for a solid coach that was overflowing with knowledge and experience, I knew you were hands down one of the best out there. You really helped me push out of my comfort zone and challenged me in ways that I wouldn't have done if I tried it all by myself. Before the program, I had only approached women a handful of times and would get a ton of anxiety beforehand, but now I rarely get approach anxiety and know exactly how I want to lead an interaction from start to finish.

3:04 I've been dating more women than ever before since your program, and now more than ever, I am the chooser rather than the chosen with the women that I meet. You are a true champion, brother. Thank you. Signed, John E. John, thank you very much for trusting in me. And brothers, if you want to get on a free one-on-one breakthrough session with me and my team, click the link in the description below. Fill in the quick application, and we will get on that free session to see if you are a good fit for us.

3:31 But most importantly, if we can give you the same results that we do for client after client after client. Sign the dude up, feed him into the front of the life-changing experience, and then he pops out the back of the life-changing experience, and the dude has completely changed a girl magnet. It's like I have a girl magnet production facility, and guys just walk in. There's a big line wrapped around the building of dudes who are lining up in World War II where they're just wearing white shorts.

3:57 And then they go in, and it's like, and then they pop out the other side with like three nines around them, dressed like an absolute fucking gangster, and they walk off just as an absolute girl magnet. There's like girl magnets stamped on their forehead. That's like the production line that I've put out with this system that I've created that works so unbelievably well. I really feel, and you guys may roll your eyes at me, but honestly, I don't care if you do. I really feel like this is a once in a generation kind of program that uses both the tactical aspects as well as the internal game aspects, NLP, to reprogram the brains of my clients.

4:32 That's getting result after result after results. How many more reviews do I have to fucking read you, bro, before you're going to come sign up? If you want to look at more reviews, go check out the 200 plus reviews on my website. I just added a bunch more. We literally needed to have two pages worth because this program is so fucking effective. So what's the thing that you aren't doing, which is preventing you from getting 500% more value from life? Brother, you're not asking for things. You don't have the balls.

5:00 You don't have the courage. You don't have the frame. You don't have the masculinity to just fucking ask for things. Just like I asked you to come sign up. A lot of coaches, and I listen to their podcasts myself, are too cowardly to ask for people to sign up because they don't believe in themselves. They don't believe that they're worth enough. And I'll tell you what, if you ever hire a coach, make sure that fucker believes in himself and is willing to ask you not only to come meet with him and his team, but when he's sure he can help you to also ask for the investment required to join such an effective program as this one.

5:32 Look, I'm not afraid to ask for shit. It's gotten me so much in my life. Whether it's I go to Qdoba and I ask for extra meat, whether I'm buying a car and I ask for a rebate, whether I'm at the supermarket and I ask for XYZ thing for free, ask people to cut in line, ask people to sit down, ask people to get up on a train so that my girl can sit down. Whatever it is, wherever I am, I am asking for shit. You guys have no idea how much free shit you can get, how many discounts you can get, how many hookups you can get if you just ask.

6:07 And this is actually a challenge that I issue to my clients when they come into the coaching program, because asking for stuff puts what? It puts social pressure on you. Social pressure is the exact same thing that makes people have approach anxiety, just like John E. had before he joined the program. But through NLP, neuro-linguistic programming, as well as day-to-day tasks, simple tasks, easy tasks that I make my clients do that they systematically overachieve over the three months. They come in as that skinny recruit in World War II, and then they leave the production facility as that absolute girl magnet with it stamped on their forehead, looking like an absolute gangster, because we systematically put social pressure on ourselves.

6:53 I know it's scary, brother, for you to ask for rebates. I know it's scary to ask to cut in line, to get shit for free, to get free tickets, to get free hookups, to get a free parking space. But I'm telling you, the more you start asking, you'll realize two things. First of all, you realize that the person you're asking is probably more afraid of the social pressure that you're putting on the situation, that they'll just give you what you want for free. Secondly, you'll realize that you can get a ton of free shit.

7:22 You can get a ton of hookups. You get a ton of upgrades. Next time you're in the drive-thru, order yourself a small drink. And then when you get to the window, simply say this, hey, brother, would it be too much to ask to upgrade that small drink to a large drink? I'd really appreciate it. When you say, would it be too much to ask, it's actually harder for the person to say no than it is if you just ask straight up, like, hey, could I please get a large drink?

7:47 The reason that is, is because it's physically harder for people to say yes than it is to say no. And look at the way I'm phrasing that statement. Would it be too much to ask? So when I say, would it be too much to ask, the easy answer is no, it wouldn't be too much to ask. It's easier for people to say no, as far as your question is concerned, than it is for them to say yes. Plus it puts the social pressure on you and you develop as a man because now you're not afraid of social pressure.

8:16 You're not afraid of embarrassment. So when you see a cute girl, it's the same thing. What you're doing when you approach a strange girl is you're basically asking her for something. You're asking her for her time. And that's one of the biggest things that you guys struggle with. You have approach anxiety, yes, because you don't want to get rejected, but you also don't want to quote unquote inconvenience people. You don't want to take her time because you're so not used to taking things. You're not used to expecting something from that person, asking something from that person.

8:47 So you make excuses, you see a super hot girl, you don't approach her, and then you spend the rest of your day kicking yourself because you know if you just had the skill set, belief systems, and experience of putting yourself under social pressure, you could have gotten that girl. Yes, that last girl who you didn't approach, you could have her. I swear to you up and down on my father's grave, and I only do that when I'm very serious about a promise, you could have had that girl if you just would have worked on yourself.

9:17 Now, part of working on yourself, for those of you who won't come into my program, why you wouldn't is beyond me. But for those of you who won't, this is what I want you to do this week. Every day, ask for something. Every day, try to get something from somebody, whether it's a rebate, a hookup, have them help you out, have them give you their seat, have them save a parking spot for you. Everywhere I go, I'm always getting in. I'm getting to the front of the line.

9:42 I'm getting the best parking. I'm getting the best seats because I simply ask. Once you guys start asking, not only will you get 500% more value out of life, but you'll also learn to endure that social pressure, which as I just spoke about, you feel when you talk to a hot girl. Once you get used to feeling that social pressure, she no longer intimidates you. You literally don't care. And you don't feel so much that you're taking something from her. You don't feel you're taking her time, taking her away from doing something better.

10:12 No, no, no, no. You feel that you're valuable and you feel completely justified to ask. And this really is what separates guys who have that approach anxiety versus those who don't. There's nothing to be anxious about. I'm literally giving this girl a good experience as if I'm going up to her and giving her $100. And I'm not afraid to take a little bit of her time because I feel that the time she's going to invest in the interaction with me is going to be more valuable than if she didn't invest that time with me.

10:41 And why is that? It's because I'm used to asking for shit. I'm not afraid. And here's the second point of this episode. I'm not afraid to receive. A lot of you guys have such low self-worth that you don't want to receive anything. You don't want to receive gifts. You don't want to receive compliments. You don't want to receive hookups. You don't want to receive anything because you feel that you're not worth it. And that too comes down to an inner belief system, which is why NLP works so goddamn effectively on my clients is because it removes belief systems and replaces them.

11:14 So on some level, when you have a trouble receiving something, it's because you don't feel like you're enough. When people try to give me something, I just had a dude hit me up. Jeremy, what is up, brother? Hit me up on Instagram. He said, hey, man, I own a video production company. I would love to start doing videos for you for free. Now, I'm not going to make the dude do consistent videos for me for free. But I was like, yeah, man, I would love for you to do a video for me.

11:39 We're about to launch a VSL and a VSL is a video sales letter on Facebook. How would you feel about editing that for me? I'd love you to make it look a lot better. Have the words go up below. It's going to be about three to five minutes. How would you feel about that? He's like, totally, man. I'm really excited to help you out. You've helped me so much in this podcast. All I want to do is give value back to you. And I was like, perfect, bro.

12:00 I'll send it to you when I'm done. Get ready for it. It's going to come next week. So if I didn't feel worthy of receiving something, I wouldn't have taken that. Here's the way I look at it. And this is a really cool analogy. Think about a rainstorm raining down on everybody. Okay. God, mother nature, whatever it is that you believe gives sunlight to us, rainfall to us, oxygen to us. It gives both to the rich man and the moral man as it does to the poor man and the man who is amoral.

12:30 But the difference is who is willing to accept it. So here's a practice that I want you to do all the time. And whenever I tell my clients this, they get really fired up. What I basically want you to say to the universe, to God, to even yourself is this. For all the women that guys feel too insecure to approach and try to date, send them to me because I am willing to receive them. And here's another one you guys are really going to like. And this really applies.

12:57 For all the money that people don't feel they're worthy of, that people don't want, that people push away from themselves by using terminology like filthy lucre, filthy rich, dirty money, send it to me, baby. My coffers are open and ready to receive them. That rainstorm analogy that I was talking about, it rains on all of us. The difference is who's willing to drink it in and accept it and take that abundance in and who's afraid of it and avoids it. Same thing goes with the sunshine.

13:27 The sun shines on all of us. Who's willing to accept it? The universe is trying to give to you, brother, consistently. And part of the reason a lot of you guys live in scarcity, not making enough money, not getting enough girls, is because you have a belief system that there's not enough, that I don't deserve to have this abundance. I don't deserve to receive it. And God know will I ever fucking ask for anything because when you ask, when you take, when you receive, you're being selfish.

13:56 Bullshit. Who gave you that belief system? There are a lot of religions. There are a lot of belief systems. There are a lot of dogmas in today's society that tell us it's wrong to receive. It's wrong to have abundance. It means that you're getting lots of girls, getting lots of money, means that you're bad in some kind of way. Bullshit. Whoever sold you that lie was probably getting lots of money and a lot of girls and didn't want you to take from them because they too, on some respect, had a scarcity mentality.

14:24 I'm here to tell you, brother, as a guy who gets lots of girls, as a guy who gets lots of money, as a guy who gets lots of love and has utmost abundance in his world, come join me at the top of the bottomless supply of abundance that the universe, God, source energy is trying to give to you. Don't be afraid to ask for things. Don't be afraid to feel like you deserve certain things. Ask for discounts. Ask for a raise. A lot of you listening.

14:51 Yes, you, brother, listening. Ask for that fucking raise. You deserve it. Ask for that parking spot. Ask for that rebate. When you go to buy something from somebody, ask for a discount. Ask somebody to sit down where you want to sit down. The more I'm thinking about this, I'm like, wow, every day I do something like this. Or I'm like, hey, man, do you mind if I just jump on in there? Or hey, man, would it be too much to ask if X, Y, Z? Here's another strategy when asking for a discount.

15:17 You go up and you say, hey, do you guys have the Mark discount? And she's going to say, what's the Mark discount? You say, my name's Mark. And I'm wondering if you guys have the Mark discount as you smile at her. You guys would be amazed at how many discounts you can get. Yes, even places like Walmart, Target, Qdoba, McDonald's, Jamba Juice, Starbucks, wherever you happen to go, just ask. That's my challenge to you. So here is the two things I want you to take from this episode.

15:43 I want you to take that, brother, you deserve to receive. You do not often let yourself receive because you feel selfish or you feel undeserving. You feel fundamentally insecure and unworthy. I, Mark Singh, want to tell you that you are worthy and you do deserve that. So ask for it. And what's the worst that can happen? Somebody says no. Listen, if you ask me for certain things, I'm totally okay to say no to you. And that's another aspect of social pressure. I just won't do it.

16:11 I'm just going to say no. But what's the big deal about asking? And by the way, I'm not trying to encourage you to email me asking for shit. Here's what I have to give you guys. I have three programs to give you. If you leave me a review, write me a review, send me a screenshot of it if you want to. I will send you three awesome programs as well as three videos, smack you upside the head and get your name tattooed right on my girlfriend's face.

16:33 Other than that, I don't give anything out for free other than this podcast, thousands of hours worth of content. And if that's not enough for you, I'm sorry. I can't help you with that. But as you go through your life in different avenues, be okay to ask for shit. Be okay to receive. Feel that you're worth it. You deserve it because the universe is trying to give it to you. And it's actually bummed out for those of us who don't accept it. Remember that guy I told you guys about three months ago?

16:58 Some of you may not know this, but some guy hit me up and he said, hey, man, I want to send you some money because I'm getting so much out of your podcast. And I'll get that from time to time. And every single time I'll be like, hey, man, I appreciate it. Here's my PayPal. Go ahead and blast in however much you feel you want to. I really appreciate that. And I do. I really appreciate it. And no, I'm not trying to convince you guys to send me money.

17:18 But listen to this story. So this guy, Mr. Fox, hits me with $4,200. I wake up one morning. I get a notification from PayPal. I'm like, what the hell happened here? I don't even know where this money came from. It came from him and I received it. I said, thank you. And I did send him some shit as a thank you. I gave him basically my program as a thank you because I wanted to reciprocate that kindness. I took his money and I got a new bumper for my 4Runner.

17:45 I got a light bar. I got some fog lights. I got some new headlights and some new taillights. The thing is fucking dope. And every time I look at it, I know that I received graciously from him and I have appreciation because of it. So when you receive and you have utmost appreciation for it, you're actually allowing that person the feeling of abundance to give, which is a gift that you're giving that person. So I don't want you to think that taking something from somebody in the right way.

18:13 Now, on the contrary, you know, some people are takers and they do it too much. But for the majority of you guys, if you take it in the right way, you are giving that person the gift to express their own abundance to give to you. It feels good to the chick at Qdoba to give you a 10% discount with a smile and she feels good hooking you up. And this is the beauty of making monthly donations. Every month I give 5% of my earnings to charity and that feels really good for me to give.

18:41 Charities don't have a problem receiving. Jesus Christ, man. And St. Jude, man, they are like on the verge of being greedy. They email me so much. They're like, give us more. Give us more. I'm like, bro, I just gave you a ton of money last month. Everybody relax. So there's always a balance. But a lot of you guys are erring too much on not asking for enough. So go ask for those things. That's the challenge I want to give you this week. And when you receive it, receive it graciously.

19:05 Somebody compliments you, for example. You don't have to compliment them back. You can just receive it and say thank you. Somebody says, hey, I love your new haircut, man. You say, thanks, bro. I appreciate that. And that's it. A lot of times we're like, oh, I don't deserve this. I feel uncomfortable. So let me compliment them back. No, no, no, no, no. I want you to get comfortable receiving. I want you to get comfortable asking. So go out there. Ask for rebates. Ask for freebies. Ask to get hooked up.

19:29 And I swear to you, this is going to give you 500% more value in life. It's going to show you how to endure social pressure so that when you go speak to women, you're more effectively calm speaking to them. And it's also going to do the all-important thing of giving other people the opportunity to give to you. Because one of the biggest joys of being alive is to give value to other people, which is part of the reason I do this podcast. I have given you guys thousands of hours worth of free content.

19:59 That's a joy for me. But at the same time, I'm not afraid to ask you guys to leave me reviews, to come sign up with my program, to buy my products, to support me because I understand that give versus take balance. And that's what I want you guys to get into in the days and weeks ahead. Gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. If you found value in this podcast, that's right. Give me a five-star review and email me at coachmarksingh at gmail.com. And I will give you three awesome programs, three videos, get your name tattooed on my neck and get a life-size statue of you in my backyard with Le Champion chiseled in the granite beneath your feet.

20:36 Also, if you want to get on a free one-on-one breakthrough session with us, you know what to do. Click the link in the description below, fill in the quick haste, you slap in the biscuit, and we will get on that free breakthrough session. I do appreciate you listening and I will see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode.

This transcript was made automatically, so a few words may be off.