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Episode 189 · December 11, 2020 · 21 min

NLP Process to Cure ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION (ED) And Make You a Beast in The Bedroom

About this episode

Erectile dysfunction (ED) is usually a psychological issue that happens because of negative beliefs about sex and/or anxiety around the experience. In this episode, Mark Sing will walk you through a powerful NLP visualization to imprint feelings of invincibility around sex so you can be a beast in the bedroom the next time your red helmeted warrior is called to action.

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Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate it. And today we are going to talk about erectile dysfunction, not being able to get it up, not being able to perform when you need to perform the most. Why does this happen? Why do guys who can get fucking hard, just like the Statue of Liberty, struggle when there's a particularly hot girl in their bed?

Well, we're going to go over that today and I'm going to let you know this is so common. I don't want you to feel insecure about it. And we're going to do an NLP process to magically fix your brain so that it never happens to you again. Before we jump into the content, I want to thank you guys yet again for the spectacular, amazing reviews, bro. I'm on the corner of my bed crying in the cannonball position every freaking morning. I get up immediately. I go over to iTunes and I look at those reviews and I say, who was it this time?

And then I just start crying like a schoolgirl because you guys are seriously hooking me up, man. I mean, the podcast has a five out of five rating on iTunes. It's doing awesome on other platforms as well. And some of you guys from other countries, you're like, dude, I can't believe your podcast is so small. Like nobody listens to it. I'm like, well, in the United States, it's actually pretty big. But in your country, it might look small because each iTunes is individualized based on the country.

So I know in Canada, Great Britain, Australia, there's like, I don't know, a couple reviews. But here in the United States, there's over 200. So even though you are in an international country and it looks small, well, then help me out, man. Give me some reviews. Let's build it up in that specific country. And by the way, I am able to see the reviews from all countries, at least the ones posted to iTunes. But I haven't found out how to see them on Stitcher. Right now, Spotify doesn't allow for it as well as the other podcast apps.

But bro, like if you just give me a review, that helps me a lot. No matter what the platform is, whether it's Stitcher or Spotify or iTunes, it doesn't matter. It helps me. And the reason I always ask for reviews after, of course, you've gone through the episodes and make sure they make the cut for a five-star glowing review. The reason I ask for them is because that's the quickest way for me to grow this podcast. And my mission is to give value to this world.

My mission is to reach one million men. And today, my mission is to help you keep that boner through the duration of your sexual experiences. So that's what we're going to talk about today. And I have a really cool NLP process I'm going to take you through that's going to get you in the right mindset. It's going to get you in the right mentality. It's going to set everything up for you perfectly so that when you go into your next sexual experience, you're going to perform just fine, man.

And I want to let you know, brother, like this happens to so many guys. Obviously, not a lot of guys admit it because it's embarrassing, but it shouldn't be. It's just a psychological thing. And it can happen once and then never happen again. Now, here's something embarrassing. It's happened to me. Yes, it's happened to me. And the reason this befell me was because I was with a girl who was so ridiculously hot. Like, if I close my eyes, I can imagine the scene right now. It's seared into my memory.

It's kind of like that bittersweet kind of experience where it was such a fucking hot girl, but I blew it and I couldn't get it up. And she's like doing the old like, it's okay. Don't worry about God. It was embarrassing. Fortunately, my tongue was a fucking champion in battle that night, slayed the enemy, gave her smashing orgasms. And then the next time I hooked up with her, I did just fine. And the reason I didn't get it up is because I thought she was too good for me.

And this happens a lot to dudes, right? So basically, it's metaprogramming in your head where you don't feel like you're enough for this level of a hot girl. And so what happens is, is that your body shuts down and makes it so that you can't copulate or procreate or sexually impregnate her because you don't feel like you're enough. So I remember, bro, like I was in the bed. The whole room was dark. There was a light on in the hallway and she goes to the bathroom and she comes back and we're like about to do it.

I kind of had like a half boner. And so I'm sitting there laying on my back and this is embarrassing, dude, but I'm sharing it with you guys because you're my boys and I trust you just like you trust me. And I got over it just like you're going to get over it. But she goes in the doorway and like, you know how like when the room is dark and there's a light behind her, you can just kind of see her like she's a shadow, like she's black.

Well, dude, she starts doing this like dance thing in the doorway. The door was open and she's using like the doorway, the wood, the wood, the wood in the doorway. You know what I mean? Like she's holding on to it and she's like she's like shaking her ass and like you can see her tits and like, bro, this was a 10, dude. She was so hot, bro. So I'm sitting there watching her and I'm like, oh, my hell, I'm about to hit that. Like this chick is fucking perfect.

Hot as fuck. Just banging in every way possible. And she's doing this dance. And dude, my fucking Spartan, bro, he just starts going. I'm like, no, brother, get up. Rise to your feet. Never out of the fight. Come on, get back into the war zone. Let's go. Homeboy would just not get up, dude. So she comes into bed. We start making out. I'm like, please, God, in the sky above, please come back. But nope, he was out of commission, that fucker. But trust me, several days later, he's back in the fight.

And why was he back in the fight? Because I worked on this with my own NLP coach. And I'm going to do to you today what he did to me. Now, I'm going to be honest with you. This is a very powerful visualization. But many times there needs to be more NLP done on top of it to really get this problem fixed once and for all. Once I did this process, as well as several other processes, which I'll explain in a second, I never had erectile dysfunction again, particularly with really hot girls.

See, a lot of us, we can bang out a seven because we feel a seven for the most of us is either equal to us or lesser than us. So we're not like intimidated. We don't feel like she's too good for us. We're not afraid of failing in that kind of situation. It's usually with the girls who are super hot. And, and here's the big point, when you have belief systems about sex, that sex is wrong. So a lot of us come from Christian-based families. And that's absolutely fine.

There's no problem with religion. But one of the things religion tells us is that sex before marriage is wrong. Sex is dirty. Sex is shameful. Your desire for a woman should be held back. It's not right to want to have sex. Now, not only is this true in Christianity, but it's also true in other religions. I know for a lot of different cultures, that's true as well. Or maybe perhaps your mom or dad shamed you for being sexual, caught you with some magazines, caught you watching porn, made fun of you for liking a girl, made fun of you for bringing a date home.

And that was embedded in your mind. And that was embedded in your mind that sex, your sexuality, et cetera, is shameful. And because of that, when the act of sex comes upon you, you get limp because your body is basically confirming the belief system, sex is wrong. So you're not going to have sex. You're not going to have sex, dude. It's fucking wrong. So I'm going to prevent you from doing it. You also get nervous. You focus on what can go wrong. You're totally in your head.

Your blood is all rushing to your head, not to your penis. And so you're not able to get it up. Another issue is performance anxiety. If you feel you're not going to be good in the sack, then your body is going to do what it has to to prevent you from having sex. And finally, the final reason is because you feel like you're the second wolf. And actually, this is more responsible for premature ejaculation, to which I'll do an NLP process in the months ahead. But when you feel that you're beta, when you feel that you're not alpha, you're either not going to be able to get it up or you're going to come too quickly to get it over with.

Now, this is really interesting with premature ejaculation because when having sex with a woman, oftentimes in like a tribal kind of community, a lot of the times beta males would be able to have sex with a woman who was the alpha male's girl. Now, why that girl would go have sex with a beta male, maybe she's trying to get some different genes. Maybe she's just attracted to him, whatever the reason, but he would often come super quickly as a way to avoid getting caught by the alpha male.

And this is called second wolf syndrome. So the reason for premature ejaculation is you don't feel like you're enough. You feel like you're beta. You don't feel like you're alpha. And if she's hotter than you feel you are out of your league, as it were, you may come more quickly or you might not be able to get it up. So these are the reasons for that. They're all psychological. Rarely is it a, you know, physical problem. If it is, then you just go see a doctor.

But if you can get it up when you masturbate, then there should be no reason why you can't get it up when you're with a girl. And after I did today's process, as well as addressing the belief systems that I just explained, bro, I've never had a problem with it, man. That Spartan, that red helmeted warrior is ready for battle at the drop of a hat. Anytime, any place, let's do it. So that's the point I want to get to you guys at. Listen, if you do have problems with this and you think it is psychological, as I explained, if while I was talking about this, you had some aha moments.

I actually do offer NLP coaching. And yes, I do work with dudes who struggle with this as well as struggle with other things with women. Feeling like they're not enough. You shouldn't inconvenience women with your approach. Sex is wrong. A myriad of different belief systems, traumas, schemas, metaprograms that I specifically remove from my clients. And trust me, it gets amazing results. So in today's podcast, we are actually going to do a visualization. Now, for some of you guys who don't have problems with premature ejaculation, I still suggest you do this.

Because this is going to help you knock it out like an absolute Spartan the next time you have sex. We are going to instill massive confidence into you. We are going to see the scene unfolding with clarity and with success. And after you go through the visualization, you're going to imprint that onto your next sexual experience. Your mind and your body is going to go back to that feeling. And you're going to get a boner the size of the Eiffel Tower. So to begin this process, I want you guys to be in a quiet place with no distractions.

Certainly don't do this if you're driving. If, as a lot of you do, you're doing something else right now. Driving your car, working out, taking a walk. That's cool. You can listen to it. Try it out. See what's up. And then if you want to come back to it some other time, you can certainly do that when you're not distracted. But obviously, if you're going to do this visualization, please make sure that you're not operating any heavy machinery. Nathan, my helicopter pilot client, don't be flying the copter.

Chip and Kale, my two aircraft pilots, don't be operating those. And to Mike, my motorcycle riding champion client, don't be doing wheelies down the street while doing this visualization. All right, so we're going to kind of slow down a little bit, guys. And what I want you to do is I want you to imagine that you're watching a movie. And on this movie, you see your own room or perhaps her room or any place you think you're going to have your next sexual experience. So as you visualize the room, you see your bed, you see your furniture, you see everything that's in the room and you see her laying in your bed naked.

She looks so good. She's so ready to have sex. She's super turned on. And I want you to see the look on her face as you hover above her with your arms on the bed in the push-up position, hovering above her just about to put it in. And you see the look on her face. She's so excited. Her eyes are like saucers. She's super horny. Her legs are spread. She's wet and ready to take you inside of her. And you look at yourself and you notice that you are in full color while she is in black and white.

And as you're in full color, you see the sweat glistening off your body. You see your muscular arms. And as you pan down, that's right, you see a boner the size of the Statue of Liberty. The thing is throbbing. The thing is hard. And it's even glowing with a certain kind of power. Let's put a color to it. What color do you see glowing around you? What is your power color? For me, it's blue. I see myself emanating blue. And as I look at myself, I notice I'm even bigger than I first thought.

Whoa, I'm twice as big. I'm three times as big. I'm gigantic. And her eyes are even getting bigger. And my dick is even getting bigger. Everything in the scene is becoming more vibrant when it comes to me. And she is in black and white. And now I want you to see yourself putting it inside of her. And in the background, you hear music. You can even smell her perfume right now. And you just see yourself just pounding it out. And her absolutely into it. Watch her face contort.

Hear the noises she makes. See you in there just like a fucking Spartan in battle. Like an absolute champion knocking it out. So hard, in fact, that it's the hardest penis she's ever felt. Harder than you've ever been before. Blood flowing into it with health, vitality, and masculine energy. And now as you're pumping it out, she's starting to scream. She's starting to look like that demon that just got hit with the tornado. Now I want you to switch positions. And as you pull it out, you bring her over to the side of your bed.

She gets into the doggy style position on the corner of your bed. You stand off the edge of it. You lube it up and you stick it back in. And as you see yourself going in and out of her, you see it throbbing. You see how hard it is. You see everything that represents you absolutely knocking it out like a champion. So into this girl just devouring her like you devour a steak after fasting for two weeks. Now what I want you to do is rewind that movie back to the very beginning when you're hovering over her.

And now I want you to float out of your seat in the movie theater and float into the screen. Get into the first person perspective. Close your eyes and imagine you over her right now. That's right. You're over her. You're in the push-up position. She's on her back. Legs are spread. I want you to see her now in full color. See her face. See her saucer eyes so excited. See her licking her lips. Holding her vagina open for you. Getting herself wet. And now you look down and you see your own red-helmeted warrior ready for battle throbbing hard.

You grab that thing and you stick it inside of her. And then you start pumping it. She starts squealing. She starts moving. She starts breathing hard. You can smell her. You kiss her neck. You kiss her mouth. Everything is going perfect as your rock-hard dick slides in and out of her pussy. And then you get up. You take her over to the side of the bed. She leans over and there's that perfect ass. And you put it right into her pussy. And you're so hard. And as you look down between her ass and you, you see your throbbing dick.

You even see that vein going through it because it's so hard. There's so much blood in it. And you're just pumping it out. And now you come all over her back. And now what I want you to do is float back into the seat as you are in the movie theater. Look back at that screen and see the best part that you liked in that video I just explained going right in front of you. And now what you're going to do is you're going to reach out, grab that movie screen, shrink it down to the size of a postage stamp, and eat it.

And as you chew that screen, and as you chew that screen, you swallow it, and millions of little screens start dissipating throughout your body. They go down to the cellular level and absorb into your cells. They go down into your DNA and rewrite in your DNA. You are not a guy who loses erections. You are a guy with a rock-hard, steady erection. And that message is now echoing within your body. It is sending the message to your penis right now that that thing is going to be absolutely rock-hard from this day forward no matter what sexual experience you get into.

No matter what she looks like, no matter how drunk you are, no matter fill-in-the-blank, you are going to get rock-hard because you love women, you're attracted to them, you love sex, sex is right, sex feels good, sex is fun, sex is beautiful. And your rock-hard package is a testament to what a champion you are, how masculine you are, how alpha you are. Give that to her. This is what she wants. And now as all these little movie screens start to play inside your body like a Las Vegas casino security room or Best Buy with all the TVs on the side, you see them all playing that same scene inside your body of you just crushing it like a champion.

See yourself again from all these movie screens absolutely slamming it with a rock-hard erection that lasts exactly as long as you want it to. And as we wrap up this visualization, you can be confident that this new programming is installed, just like a car part fits seamlessly into a car engine. It is installed now in every single message of your DNA. It is installed in every fiber of your being. And now when you have your next sexual experience, you are going to absolutely get a boner.

You are absolutely going to rock it out. She is going to be absolutely satisfied and she's going to be begging you for more, which you'll be able to deliver to her because you were always hard and ready to go. All right, guys, that ends this NLP process for erectile dysfunction. Do that visualization several times, both now as well as before you have your next sexual experience and just watch what happens. If you feel like you need even more intrusive NLP on some of your belief systems, on your feelings that maybe you are subconsciously believing that you're a beta cuck, on anything else that has to do with sex, hit me up.

You can find more about my NLP coaching at marksingcoaching.com. Once again, that's marksingcoaching.com. You can click the link in the description below. As I've stated, I use NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming, to rewrite the programs in your head. I also teach the tactical aspects of attracting women so you can get that super sexy naked girl on your bed and smash it like the champion you know you are without ever fearing again that you're going to lose your erection. Losing your erection is a thing of the past now that you know why it happened and now that you have this tool in your back pocket.

You're going to be absolutely fine, so go enjoy it. You worked hard for it. Go slam it up. Jump the canyon and be a fucking champion because that's who you were born to be and that's who you will be the next time you get that girl on your bed. All right, brothers, thanks again for listening. I have an awesome one coming up on Monday, so stay tuned for that and I will see you in the next episode. I have an awesome one coming up on Monday, so stay tuned for this episode.

I have an awesome one coming up on Monday, so stay tuned for this episode.

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