3 Awesome Techniques to Instantly Get The Mentality of a GIRL MAGNET

0:00 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP Happy Monday. As stated in my previous podcast, if you listen to it, I am no longer doing podcasts on Monday, Wednesdays, and Fridays, but instead I'm doing them on just Mondays and Thursdays, which is still better than many people because many people just do them once a week.

0:38 So just want to give you a heads up if you do follow it, but you didn't listen to my previous podcast. I've reduced to twice a week. I want to give more attention to my clients, want to give more attention to advertising my podcast on different avenues to bring more people into it. I feel like 250 episodes is a pretty damn good catalog of podcasts, so now it's all about growing it and getting new guys in the door to check it out. So that's what I'm going to be focusing on for the next few months, and I may come back to those three a week, but we'll see how it goes.

1:10 So today, we're going to talk about three secrets that I've used and I teach my clients to use to feel like a natural girl magnet. These methods are not only extremely effective, but they're also really, really fun to do, and I'll tell you the final one that I'm going to give you. God, I wish I brought this up earlier, but I guess it's good that I waited. This shit is so good, and you guys are going to really love it. It's a lot of fun to do, and it completely changes your perspective because I know exactly how you guys think when you see a hot girl, at least the most of you, and definitely those of you who aren't getting success with women.

1:49 I know what you think. You think she's out of my league. She's too good for me. Oh, if I could just have a girl like that, but have you ever flipped it? Have you ever flipped it? And the final one, I'm going to show you how to flip it in a very fun way. You're going to totally love this. I most certainly did. I probably have done it, I don't know, dozens if not hundreds of times, and when I tell you what it is, you're going to be pretty stoked.

2:11 So let's start with the basic ones first, and then we'll go from there. So first and foremost, what you need to do is you need to act like and think that every single girl is attracted to you. Every single one you see all the time, it doesn't matter how she acts around you. It doesn't matter if there's no sign whatsoever that she's attracted to you. You need to assume the clothes. Assume attraction at all times. Act as if every single woman is attracted to you. When you're walking through the gym, all the girls on the Stairmaster, bro, they're all checking you out.

2:47 They're all looking at your butt, at your biceps, at your arms, and even if you don't have a good body, you just assume it. And I know in the beginning it's difficult, but you just have to act as if every single girl wants you bad, like really wants you. How would your body language be? How would you behave? How would you walk? If every single chick was just completely in love with you, think about Justin Bieber's reality when he's playing a concert. When he walks onto that stage, look at the swagger he has.

3:17 Look at the confidence he has because every single chick in that audience wants him. I'll tell you, when I was a bouncer, some of you guys know I was a bouncer for five years. When I put on that white cowboy hat, which was like part of my uniform, it was a white cowboy hat and a red shirt that said staff on it, Levi's jeans and boots, right? When I put on that cowboy hat, I just went into a different state altogether, and I knew the second that hat went on, the second I walked out into that bar, every single girl wanted me.

3:46 And I got very familiar with that feeling, and what happened? It was true. Like literally, I was the alpha top dog in the club, not trying to brag. It was just the way it was, and every girl wanted me, but it wasn't only because of the fact that I was a bouncer or because of the white hat. It was because I assumed it, right? I expected every single girl to want me because like I guess the first night I was like, damn, I look good in this hat and this shirt, man.

4:11 I'm going to kill it. And then it was just a snowball effect. So you need to start thinking, and you need to start behaving as if. This is a huge NLP secret that you act the way that you want to be, and then you will become that way. It goes back to another podcast I did about be, do, have. So first you have to be it before you can have it. So first you need to be a girl magnet before you can get girls, and you need to believe that in your own head.

4:41 Because going back to frame control, which as a lot of you guys know, I discuss all the time. It's my favorite thing about seduction. Girls want to be led, right, in frame control. You need to control the conversation, lead them to where they want to be led. Well, when you believe that you're the shit, you're leading her to believe that you're the shit, and she's going to believe you're the shit too. If you don't believe you're the shit, if you don't believe she wants you, if you don't believe you're a champion, God's gift to women, if you don't walk like that BG song.

5:11 You can tell by the way I use my walk. I'm a woman's man. No time to talk. I literally think that in my head sometimes when I'm walking through crowds or like through the weight section when there's tons of girls in the gym or walking through the bar. I'm a ladies man, bro. Like all the girls want me. I'm a fucking girl magnet is what I say to myself all the time. We're going to get into that in a second. But you need to assume, bro, every single girl who you see out in public is attracted to you.

5:37 Even the grandmas are attracted to you. And yes, it is delusional, but as I discuss also in this podcast, there's certain things where you kind of need to be delusional about. There's certain things where you need to have just this like almost narcissistic kind of viewpoint on it. And I don't like narcissism, obviously, but it's kind of the best way to explain it for lack of a better explanation. But it's almost like you need to have that lie inside your head, and then what happens? It becomes true.

6:05 That's the crazy thing is, once again, when you believe it enough, it just happens in your reality. It's the law of attraction. It just happens. So what are you going to do from now on? From now on, no matter what happens, every single girl in the supermarket, every single girl in the gym, every single girl at Starbucks, the girl you see across the street who's pumping gas at the gas station, every single chick you see wants you. They want you. They're attracted to you. You are a girl magnet.

6:33 And that goes into my second point, is the way that you talk to yourself. A big component of my coaching program is twofold. First of which, we use NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programming, to remove false belief systems. A lot of you guys don't believe you're enough. In fact, if you're listening to this podcast, I could almost guarantee you, if you haven't worked on yourself, there's a program running in the background where you think, I'm not enough. And that's why you have the phenomenon of having one foot on the gas, one foot on the brake.

7:04 I want to go up in that girl. I feel like I'm a girl magnet. I feel good about myself. But there's something inside that makes me not feel good about myself. So it's kind of like part of you does and part of you doesn't. Well, one of the ways to get rid of that, in my opinion, the best way to get rid of it is with NLP. It's a guided visualization. I put you in a mild state of hypnosis and we literally go in and remove that belief, I'm not enough, like a splinter from your brain.

7:30 And then we replace it with the belief, I am enough. Now, for you guys who won't become my clients, I understand probably a lot of you won't, which is crazy to me, but I understand not everyone's a buyer. So if you're not going to become my client, the second or third best way to replace some of these belief systems, I'm not enough, is to simply hammer home the opposite belief system. Now, this takes hell of a lot more work, takes hell of a lot more energy, takes an insane amount of perseverance to finally get this new belief system to hold.

8:03 With NLP, it's the fucking quick, dude. Like that quick, we remove it, boom, put the new one in, it's done. But again, if you don't want to work with me, I understand, I'm not being pushy, so I understand. But if you're not down to do that, then what you have to do is repeat to yourself over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again, the belief system that you want to have. Here are the belief systems I suggest you put into your head.

8:28 First and foremost, you have to use the phrase, I am, okay? I am has been proven scientifically to have the strongest pull when it comes to both the law of attraction as well as creating new belief systems. So I am a girl magnet, okay? That is the one I want you to say over and over again. Brother, I say that shit in my head all the time. And as I joked about in a previous podcast, part of the reason I had a daughter, I knew I was going to have a daughter, was because I've been telling myself I'm a girl magnet for 15 years.

8:59 So what happens? I'm freaking always surrounded by girls. I have a daughter, I have Marissa, the lady who cleans my house, my assistant, Daisy, tons of girlfriends, my hairdresser, the girl who cleans my car. There's a girl now that details my car, the girl who cooks my food, and tons of women that I'm just surrounded with all the time. And it really manifests in your reality when you tell yourself something over and over again. So I believe that I am a girl magnet. I believe that I am attractive.

9:27 I believe I am a champion. I believe I am a money magnet. That's something else you should be saying to yourself. If you have issues with money, if you believe money is scarce and hard to get, bro, you need to stop thinking that immediately. Because as I've said in other episodes, the universe is nothing but a big mirror. It gives back to you what you say to it. So if you're like, dude, money's hard to get. I don't have enough. It's like, yep, money's hard to get.

9:51 You don't have enough. Boom. There's a reality. Enjoy. But if you're like, man, I'm a money magnet. Money comes easily and frequently. I'm a girl magnet. Girls are everywhere. There's hot girls everywhere. They all want me. I'm a champion. I'm a legend. A girl would be lucky to be with a guy like me. These are the new thoughts that you need to just hammer home again over and over and over again until finally they start to stick. Now, I understand at first it's going to feel like a lie.

10:17 It happened to me. It happens to my clients. Well, after they do NLP, it doesn't happen. But it happens to guys who don't have the fortune to go through NLP where it feels like a lie, right? It's like, no, I'm not a girl magnet. Like I don't feel like a fucking champion, a woman's man when I'm walking in front of the Stairmasters and all the chicks are looking at me. I feel like a fucking dweeb sleeve. I understand that, bro. But as you hammer it, and I'm saying it could take months.

10:42 It could take you a year. It could take you two years. For some of you guys who are really hard cases like I was, it could take that long. But if you just keep saying it and even if you want to start at a point where it's something more believable, okay? So maybe I'm a girl magnet is like way outside your realm. You're like, brother, there's no way I'd ever believe that. My subconscious mind would be like, bro, stop lying to yourself. Come on, come on, stop putting me on.

11:07 This is bullshit. And then you'll lose motivation. So if you're really in a hard place like I was, start what's realistic. Say I'm a nice guy. I could offer a girl a lot. I try really hard. I'm trying to improve myself. Therefore, I'm a champion, right? So you can kind of rationalize it to yourself. And then once that's accepted, then you go to the next step. So let's start with I'm working really hard on myself. I'm listening to podcasts. Therefore, I have the possibility of being a champion.

11:37 I could do this. I think I'm a champion. Then it becomes I am a champion. Then from there, we go to I am a girl magnet. Girl would be lucky to be with me. As I always say, she's an idiot unless she realizes the championhood that she beholds in front of her, right? That's the point we want to get to. And guys, I literally feel that way. When I talk to a girl and she rejects me, I'm like shaking my head, like confused. Like, are you are you fucking stupid?

12:04 Are you serious right now? Like, what the fuck? I don't say that to her, but that's what I think in my head. I literally think her filter system, her IQ is literally that of a freaking wombat, dude. She's as smart as my bird, Jack, who the second that fucker comes out of the cage, he lets the biggest dump ever, bro. Like you take him out of the cage, all over the place and it like squirts out like a goddamn water gun. So I've taught that little fucker how to poop on command.

12:32 I tell him, which is in Japanese shit right now, like, hey, go ahead and shit. And I hold him over the trash can and he shits on command. Why did, why did they even bring that up? Oh, because he's an idiot. He's a complete idiot. Like these girls who reject you and that's the way you need to think of them. So we systematically begin to talk to ourselves in a better way. Any negative thoughts come up, any at all, you need to erase that. Just say to yourself, erase that.

12:58 No, no, no, erase that. Back up, back up. I'm going to replace it with a better thought. So if you're like, dude, I'm an idiot. I'm a fool. Girls don't want me. You say, no, no, no, erase that. I'm working on myself. Therefore, I'm becoming the man that women want. Okay. So that's something you can start with. Then you work up and eventually I want you to get to girl magnet. And bro, I want you saying it to yourself over and over again. You guys who have been working on yourself for a while, who can adopt these more hardcore belief systems.

13:26 Like literally, man, I just want you hammering this every time. Think about it. Like you're filling up a bucket with pennies. And by the time the bucket is completely full with pennies, you will be a girl magnet. Well, each time you say, I'm a girl magnet, you put one penny in and say it again. I'm a girl magnet, two pennies. I'm a girl magnet, three pennies. You say it a hundred times in one day, you've just inched up in the bucket that much closer to getting to the point where it's going to manifest in your reality.

13:55 Repetition is the mother of all mastery. And it happens with the law of attraction and your belief systems as well. Of course, I strongly believe in my own coaching program. It's a three-month program where we do NLP on you to quickly give you these belief systems. But again, if you're not down to sign up, I understand. And what you can do is just with repetition, eventually you're going to hammer it in, kind of like trying to hammer a nail into a concrete wall. It's going to take a lot of hits.

14:21 It's going to take a lot of work, a lot of perseverance. But once it's in there, it's in there. It's in there. So what do you do? You repeat to yourself all the time. I'm a girl magnet. I'm a champion. I'm a legend. I'm a catch. I'm a great guy. I'm God's gift to women. Whatever resonates with you in that moment. And then you also assume that every single girl is attracted to you. Every single one, even the grandmas, even the mountain trolls, even the canyon buzzards, the Nebraska cows, and of course, the New York rump roast.

14:50 They all want you, bro. They all want you. All right. And now my final one. Woo! I love this one, boys. This one's a lot of fun. Guarantee 90% of you guys are going to do this right after you get off this podcast. And don't do it now. Don't do it now. You got to wait till the podcast is over or I say episode. You got to wait till that point. But here's what you do. Go to YouTube. Type in Miami cheerleaders. Told you I'd like this.

15:15 Told you. Miami cheerleaders call me maybe. Miami cheerleaders call me maybe. Okay. So this is a video that the Miami cheerleaders did. I don't know. Maybe like eight to 10 years ago where they're basically singing the song by Carly Rae. I think it is. It's called call me maybe. Now you don't have to like the song. Everybody be calm. I know it's a girly song. Just relax, bro. But here's what you do. You watch that video and you pretend they're all singing to you. They all want you.

15:48 The song is written in song for you. You're the guy who they want to call them. You're the guy who they're obsessing over. You're the champion who all these beautiful Miami cheerleaders want. And it's such a great song, man. It's such a great little video. These girls, these hot girls are like singing at you. And like, I don't know. I like it a lot. I've watched it all the time. And I would always watch it before I go out to the nightclubs. And you get all these hot girls singing at you.

16:14 And you have to pretend like these chicks want me. See, the problem is, is a lot of you guys will watch a video like that. And you think, oh, they're talking about some other dude. They're talking about Mark Singh. They're talking about some other alpha guy who's like really attractive. And he's like an alpha dude. But dude, I want you to think it's you who they're talking to. Every single one of those chicks wants you. And look at the way they're behaving and how like sexy they are and how feminine they are.

16:40 And they want you, bro. They want you. So that's your homework, man. Just watch that video. Some of you guys, some of you guys are going to really watch that video a lot, man. I bet we just made the views number go through the ceiling. But that's all good. I'll give them exposure. Those Miami cheerleaders, man. Some cute girls in there, brothers. Some cute girls. So watch that video. Again, it's Miami cheerleaders. Call me, maybe. They did another one from Taylor Swift, 22. I don't know about you, but I'm feeling 22.

17:09 God, they used to play that in the fucking bars, dude. I love that song. I love that song. I admit it. I admit it. Judge me if you want. I don't give a fuck. I like that song because all the girls go crazy. We all dance together. And then I get lascivious out on the dance floor and try my best when there's three girls grinding on me not to get a boner the size of the Statue of Liberty when they're all on my leg, leaving a snail trail right down the side of my leg.

17:33 It's hard not to flex up with that fucking boner, bro. You know exactly what I'm talking about. But anyway, there's another one on there called 22. And then like the Russian cheerleaders did a call me maybe interpretation. Not very good, but you can't go wrong with the Russian cheerleaders, can you? And then, dude, stay away from the military. Like a bunch of U.S. military guys did an impersonation of it. Stay away from that, bro. It's gross. Of course, if you want to have a grinder date after, go ahead and check it out.

18:02 But not my style. I respect the military. Love those guys. But don't want to see a bunch of dudes with their shirt offs dancing to that song. I'd rather watch the Miami cheerleaders, which is what I suggest you guys do. So go do that right now. I do appreciate you listening. If you want to get a free one-on-one consultation with me, Mark Singh, go to my website, CoachMarkSingh.com. Click on coaching, fill in the goddamn slap in the biscuit. And you and I will get on a free consultation together to discuss how we can get you into my three-month coaching program, discuss what NLP can do for you.

18:34 And I actually just signed up three really cool guys. Zach, Bradley, Chris, you guys are champions, dude. I had three awesome breakthrough sessions right in a row. And each of these guys, man, they were just absolutely awesome. I can't wait for you guys to join the brotherhood. Each of you guys is absolutely going to kill it. And, you know, each of them has their own issues. And I feel confident that I can help them with those issues. And I'll tell you what, it's probably very similar to what you're going through, brother.

18:59 And if you want to meet with me to discuss, I'm sure you and I will hit it off just as well as I did with Chris, Zach, and Bradley. Brothers, can't wait till you start the program. All right, guys, that's it for me in this episode. Once again, I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays now. So make sure to stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode.

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