5 HIDDEN Ways Girls Show They're Attracted to YOU

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. Man, what's up, everybody? This is Mark Sing up in this motherfucker. I'm rocking with y'all and y'all rocking with me. And today, we are going to talk about how to tell when a shorty, a thick, thick shorty, is attracted to you, man. We're going to talk about how to break that shit off, how to get that girl's number, and how to tell when she wants your dipstick.

0:41 I don't even know what that was about. Brothers, what is up? Mark Sing here, guys. For those of you who first started listening, you're like, what the fuck did I click on? Well, that's not really how I talk, and I don't even know if my impersonation was any good, but I've been watching jail videos lately. Guys who just got out of that penitentiary, just got out of the joint, and they talk all like that. Actually, that's a shout-out to 1090 Jake. You guys should check out his YouTube video.

1:06 And I also like the show Lockdown 23 and 1. I don't know why, man. I'm just fascinated with prison talk and everything that goes on. And that guy, 1090 Jake, he's like, what's up, everybody? I'm rocking with y'all, and y'all rocking with me. I think it's so funny. But respect, bro. No disrespect to that guy. He is a fucking champion. He's actually a really, really good speaker. I actually really admire him for his ability to speak. And Lockdown 23 and 1, that guy is super funny. I try to emulate some of his comedy sometimes.

1:36 So big nod to those two guys, but wanted to start out this podcast a little differently. So today, it's a pretty simple one. We're going to talk about the five hidden signs that women are attracted to you. These are things that women do unconsciously that kind of lets you decipher whether or not she's attracted to you. And as I always say, you should kind of adjust your initial approach based on her attraction. So this is what we're going to talk about today. Before I jump into the content, I want to thank you guys yet again for the awesome, spectacular reviews.

2:07 Man, they just keep getting more thorough. They keep getting more intelligent. They're really well written. And you know who you are if you've left me a review. I really do appreciate it. Also want to let you guys know that as we move into June, things are opening up, brothers. Things are really starting to pop off. I've been going out to the nightclubs again. At least here in Colorado, the mask mandate is basically lifted. They prefer for you to have a vaccine, but it's like, what are they going to do?

2:30 Check. So, I mean, people are starting to go out. Girls are starting to date. This is the time to get this part of your life solved. This is the time to really leverage the summer, the party that's about to come. And when you're in my coaching program, which does last three months, we actually get girls into your life now. So, what I do is NLP, and I know you guys have heard this, but as an entrepreneur, bro, you got to give me the chance to market my shit.

2:58 This is the only way you get signups. Like, listen, you guys have to hear this sometimes three, four, five, six, seven, even ten times before you'd ever sign up with me. So, let me flex up a little bit, bro. Let me do what I have to do to feed my family. So, I'll do it real quick. I'm an NLP dating coach. NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Program. I teach all the tactical aspects that other dating coaches teach. Frankly, I think I do it better. Like, my master class on frame control in week two is levels upon levels.

3:28 But the real thing I do differently is NLP. I work on your mind, reprogram it. So, all the shit that's preventing you from getting success with women, that one foot on the gas, one foot on the brake phenomenon that a lot of you guys experience, we remove that shit because it's just a belief system. It's BS inside your head. Belief system that was given to you by somebody else before you could defend yourself from it, and now it's just reprinting the same results over and over again.

3:55 I talk to guys every day. It's always the same thing. I don't feel attractive enough. I've had traumas in my past. I feel like hot girls are too good for me. I don't know what to say. What if I get rejected in front of other people? And most importantly, Mark, I want to become a better man first, and women will be a side benefit of that. And that's the kind of guys I like to work with. So, if that sounds like you, sign up for your free one-on-one breakthrough session with me where we get on a Zoom call together.

4:21 We hang out as homies. Sally's in the pen together with nothing to do but to talk about how to pull girls. And I'm going to tell you honestly, if I think I can help you, honestly, how long I think it'd take for you to get your results with women. And sometimes it just feels good to speak to somebody who really understands you, has heard your problems thousands of times. And I know, like, you feel unique. You're like, no, no, no, no. Nobody has my problems. And I get that.

4:45 You are unique. You do have your own set of problems. But it's like 99.99% of the time, I've worked and, most importantly, helped a guy just like you in the past. So, when I meet with people, they're like, damn, bro, you're like super insightful. I feel like you really understand me. That's because I've been doing this for a long time. So, if you're interested in meeting with me, hit me up. Click the link in the description below. It says get a free coaching session with me or go to my website, CoachMarkSingh.com.

5:12 And do your due diligence. Read about me. Read the reviews. Make sure you feel good about it. And if you do, I'd love to meet you. All right. So, let's go ahead and jump right into the content. All right, boys. So, this one is more tailored towards you haven't met the girl yet, right? So, you see her at a venue. You see her at a nightclub. Maybe you see her at a restaurant or anywhere else. And she's kind of done some things that you don't really know whether or not she's giving you signals that she's attracted to you.

5:39 So, these are five hidden signals that women do quite unconsciously. They don't even know that they're doing it. And it always gives away to me that they're attracted to me. Now, the reason I'm talking about this is because this weekend, we went out to the bars and the nightclubs and absolutely killed it. I went out with six different girls and one of my other guy friends, lucky guy friend. And because we had all those girls with us and they're all nines and above, it was just fucking over, bro.

6:05 Like, the second I walked in, the pre-selection was in place and I was seeing these signs all over the court. And listen, it doesn't matter so much what I look like. You know, obviously, I was dressed nicely. I always try to put effort into that. But the fact that I had these hot girls with me, that, like, did it for me. I can look like a dweeb sleeve. It doesn't fucking matter. The fact that I had these hot girls with me, that really got my foot in the door and then spit game on top of it.

6:31 It's over, bro. And it was such a good night. I'm so happy COVID is finally over here in the United States. And Marissa and I were talking about it tonight. We're like, damn, you know, in the U.S., we got to get over COVID pretty quickly. It only took a year before we got a decent handle on it. Just think about other countries like India, Africa, places like that, where they're not going to have the vaccine as quick as we did. And they're going to have to suffer with COVID for several more years, probably.

6:57 It's kind of sad, man. And it's kind of another thing to be appreciative for that you live probably in the United States, Australia, Great Britain, or other affluent countries. And those of you who don't live in affluent countries, bro, my heart goes out to you because I know you guys are suffering way worse than we did with COVID. And especially, you know, in the years ahead, it's going to be really hard. So if you guys are fortunate enough to be in the U.S., it's just another thing to be thankful for.

7:24 Just another thing to be thankful for. And really take advantage because, again, the women are going to come out. So we're in the nightclubs. I was getting all kinds of these signs. So we're going to go over them. All right. First one, she looks at you and she looks down. Okay. So one of the things I always tell my clients is when you want to see if a girl is attracted to you, what you can do, one of the things you can do among many is just kind of stare at her.

7:49 Now, when I say stare at her, I don't mean leer at her. I don't mean be creepy. Just look at her and just hold it for a few moments, especially when you can tell she's going to make eye contact with you any moment. Now, if she makes eye contact, the first thing you want to look for, and I guess this takes decent vision or at least decent experience, you want to look for signs of pupil dilation. So when you're attracted to somebody, and this especially happens with guys, I actually watch this happen in nightclubs.

8:16 I see like I'll walk in with my girls and I'll look at dudes' faces and I can just see what happens is their eyes, their pupils dilate really quickly. It's kind of like whoop like that. They go open a little bit more because they're taking in as much information as they can in the shortest amount of time they can to like assess her beauty. So when I rolled in with those hot girls, it was like all the dudes, I could see them sweating them. And it's the same thing with chicks, although chicks are a lot better at hiding it.

8:46 They're a lot more subtle about it. Guys are like super obvious, right? So I noticed when girls were looking at me, first of all, when I make eye contact with them, that's the first thing I look for is that unconscious pupil dilation. Okay, next thing I look for is whether or not they look down or to the side. Now, the science on this is kind of out. I don't completely buy into it. But for the sake of my own experience, I found this to be generally true, which is when they're attracted, they tend to look down.

9:16 Okay, because looking down is a submissive action. Now, with that being said, brother, you have to win the staring contest because many times girls will stare at you for a number of seconds, five seconds, sometimes even 10 seconds. I've had girls hold it for like 15 seconds. And one little secret you could do is just kind of look between their eyes, like where their unibrow would be. If they had a unibrow, just stare at that. You absolutely have to win the staring contest. So if you make eye contact with the girl and she stares at you for a while, hold it, hold it, hold it, boom, she looks down, bro, like in my experience, she's attracted.

9:54 It's a huge hidden sign. One quick thing. I always challenge girls to staring contest. This is a great way to ramp up attraction. And the reason I learned this is because when I was in Japan, I was actually a model at this like fake wedding company. It was like a wedding exhibit. It was like fake weddings so that Japanese couples could see what the weddings were like. Well, I was the groom and I was always put with this really hot Japanese bride, right? Just like a fake bride.

10:20 And we would have to sit there staring in each other's eyes. I'm talking 20 minutes straight while people walked in, while they took pictures of us, et cetera. And I would always get those girls attracted to me. So that's one thing about eye contact is eye contact creates a ton of attraction. So when you have the chance to stare at a girl, you should do it. And this leads into a gambit that I do where I say, hey, are you good at like staring at people's eyes?

10:47 Do you have good eye contact? Like she says, yes, then you say, cool, I challenge you to a staring contest. You guys are staring at each other, staring at each other. And right when you feel like you might break it off and bro, I'm talking, you need to like stick in there for 30 seconds, a minute, two minutes. If you have to, you must win. You absolutely must win. You could say something funny. That's going to give her the excuse to look away. And what I'd always say is, you know what?

11:11 You look really good with your unibrow. Why'd you shave it off anyway? And then she laughs. She looks away. Boom, you win the staring contest. But going back to the hidden sign, she's going to make eye contact with you. Hold it, hold it, hold it. She looks down. That's a hidden sign that she's attracted. One thing I'd do too is I'd stare at girls across the bar and actually did it this weekend. They make eye contact with me. Boom, they look down. Okay, they're attracted. I keep looking at them.

11:38 And then when they look over again, I'll smile and maybe wave. And not like a douchey wave like, hey, how you doing over there? Kind of like a, hey, what's up? What's going on? See how she reacts. Get a positive reaction out of that. Then you can go open her. So that's a really good strategy. All right. Another one that I noticed, which is something guys always do and girls do it too, is what I call the mega scan. Okay. So let's say you're to the right of a girl and she's like doing her thing and she looks at you and you catch her looking.

12:08 And we've all been in this situation where we catch somebody looking at us. What she'll likely do is exaggerate her scan, like look even further to the right than all the way, look to the left or like pretend like she's stretching and do like a mega scan, like scan the whole room so that it justifies her looking at you. And she pretends that she was just like scanning the whole room and you happen to look at her when she was looking at you, but it's bullshit.

12:36 She's just doing it to try to convince you that she wasn't staring at you. So I call that the mega scan. So if like she does some big scan after you catch her looking, guaranteed, bro, she was checking you out. We call it winning, winning. So you just want off that girl. All right. Proximity is a massive, massive sign of attraction. When I was a bouncer and even this weekend when I had all these girls with me, all the other girls would move in close to where I was.

13:02 And a lot of the times what they do is they put their back to you. So you'd just be standing there talking to somebody and then suddenly this group of girls just like fucking migrates over like super stealth like, right? They're like moving their toes at a million miles per hour and they're like ducks on water where you can't see them moving. But it's like they're just right there next to you. Always, bro. Every time the girl puts her back to you. So that is a huge sign of attraction.

13:27 And listen, this is what guys do too. So if you're the kind of guy that's in the nightclub, in the bars, or even, you know, in day game, whatever, and you want to go get close to a girl because you hope that something's going to happen where you just happen to talk to her like she spills her drink and it lands on your shoe and you're like, oh, oh, why don't we talk now? It doesn't work, bro. Just go fucking open her. Now, when girls do this, I personally find it's really cute.

13:53 It happened tons over the weekend again because I had fucking six nines with me. So it's like, of course, these chicks are going to come migrate. And I did get into some conversations. Actually, one thing I did is I tapped this one girl on the shoulder. Like these chicks were moving like closer and closer and closer. This girl was like two feet away from me. I was like, oh my hell, could you make it any more obvious? So I tapped her on the shoulder and I was like, hey, I just had to let you know, you are so unbelievably in my way.

14:23 Would you mind moving, please? And she just busted up laughing. I'm like, I'm just fucking with you. What's up? What's your name? Boom. I was in. Now, again, bro, I had the power of the six nines with me. That's why I was winning so much. And, you know, on top of that, I was able to spit some game. Then the other girls see that I made this chick totally laugh because the other chicks are also stealing glances at you when you're the attractive guy. They're like, broop, broop, broop, broop.

14:49 You just see it all over the room. And especially, guys, when you're talking to a girl, you do a quick scan of the surrounding area. All these eyes are like, like looking at you, you're like, oh my God. So obvious. So there's another bonus hidden sign. When a girl's sweating you, when you're talking to some other girl, that's definitely a good sign. All right. Emotional outbursts, particularly loud laughter. So girls want to call attention to themselves when they're attracted to you and they'll like laugh really loud or talk really loud or be like, oh my God, Kelly, and like hug their friend.

15:24 They're trying to call attention to themselves. And by the way, guys do this too. Especially like really overbearing, douchey kind of guys will get like super loud to try to call attention to themselves. I mean, this is all human psychology and it's interesting because it's anthropological. You can even see some of this and like gorilla tribes, right? Like the really loud gorilla. I mean, that's basically the Chad dude who like does steroids and goes to the bar and like wants all the girls to be attracted to him.

15:51 He's just like a big silverback gorilla. Now we as unapologetic silverback alpha males, we don't need to be obnoxious. We just need to hold the frame, be champions, have good body language. And of course that all starts with good belief systems, which is exactly what I do in my three month coaching program. I give you those belief systems with NLP. All right, another point on this vein of emotional outbursts is smiling a lot, just being like extremely happy. And this too is what guys do. A lot of times I'll see guys talking to a cute girl.

16:23 There's actually a dude who was like talking to one of my friends, one of my hot friends. And I was just watching this guy and it was like all his Christmases came on the same day and all his birthdays. And he just realized that heaven is real. And there's a Lamborghini and 43 virgins waiting for him in heaven. This is the level of smiling. I mean, ear to ear smile, the best thing that ever happened to this guy. And what does that communicate to the girl? And I actually talked to Ashley about this.

16:49 I was like, Ashley, tell me about that dude. And she's like, oh, no way. I was like, why? Well, she was like, I don't know. I just wasn't attracted. And I'm like, I'll tell you why you weren't attracted. Because it was like, he was so happy to be talking to you. And she's like, yeah, yeah. That's why. You know, women, they don't know why they're not attracted. They just aren't. But what does that show? It shows, Ashley, that this guy doesn't often talk to attractive girls.

17:12 He's so happy to be talking to her that it shows he's low value. He doesn't get this experience a lot. So he's unattractive. Well, women do the same thing. When they're really into you, they like laugh at shit that isn't even funny. There's this woman at Sprouts that's really attracted to me. And I've been doing a campaign on her Sprouts, by the way, is a grocery store that I go to. And I've been doing a campaign on her, making her laugh and like just to play with it.

17:37 Right. And what was it the other day that I said, I was like, I was like, hey, aren't you vaccinated? Didn't you tell me you're vaccinated? She's like, yeah. And I'm like, why don't you take off your mask? If you're vaccinated, you don't have to have your mask on. And she's like, I don't know. And I was like, it's because you have like a jacked up gorilla, like a horrible, you got like a big bean on your tooth. And she's just like, like laughing so hard.

17:56 And I was like, it wasn't that funny. It was like mildly entertaining, but relax, chick. Drop it down a gear. It wasn't that funny. So like when they smile a lot, they're like doing emotional outbursts. And then even when they're talking to you, they laugh at shit that isn't funny. Huge sign of attraction. All right. The next one is really interesting. It's lower body movements. OK, so typically when women are sitting down and they're attracted to you and you're in their proximity, what they'll do is they'll fold their legs a lot back and forth because you can see the legs as long kind of like pendulums.

18:31 Right. And they make like a lot of movement. And we as humans are designed to look at something when we see movement out of the corner of our eye. That's why you when you're in jungle warfare and the Viet Cong are coming down the trail, you got to stay completely still, bro, because if you move, they're going to see that shit and you're going to get all shot up. So you got to stay still, don't move, just become one with the foliage as it were. Well, it's the same thing with women, right?

18:57 If they make movement, particularly with their lower body, because their lower body is very long, you can see it easily out of the corner of your eye. It gets your attention and it gets you to look over at them. So if they're like swinging their legs back and forth and all over the court, right, throwing their leg up on your shoulder, it's a pretty good sign that, you know, they're attracted to you. They're trying to like get your attention. All right. The fifth and final one.

19:24 Actually, this is more like number eight or nine. Probably I always over deliver in this podcast is that she tries to help somebody in front of you. Years ago, I was fortunate enough to learn about this psychological experiment where they had a woman in a waiting room and a guy who was really attractive and had game came in. Not you, bro. It was somebody else. And spat game at this chick and got her really attracted to him. Then what happened is as she was walking out, she ran into him outside and they had an actor come by, an old lady who needed help with some boxes.

19:59 Well, when the woman was attracted and they had like a control group when she wasn't attracted, she was much more likely to help the old woman. So long story short, women want to help other people in front of you when they're attracted to you. Isn't this interesting? I find this fascinating. God, I love female psychology. I love attraction psychology and even male psychology. This shit just fucking fascinates me. So the reason they do this is because when she proves to you in her own mind, we as men don't really give a shit about this, or maybe we do.

20:30 Maybe this does make a difference to us. But in her mind, when she helps somebody in front of you, that shows that she can take care of a baby. Isn't that fascinating? Fuck, dude, that fascinates me. So what women will do when they're attracted to you is they'll try to be super helpful, either to you or to somebody in front of you to prove to you that they're able to take care of another person. God, I think that's cool. And I've seen this happen many times when I've been dating women.

20:59 They'll just be like super helpful wanting to help either myself or my friends. They'll like offer to do crazy shit, offer to help me, I don't know, move, help me pick up a car, break me out of the joint after I've done 10 years with 23 and one, 23 hours in the shoe, man, segregated housing unit in just one hour outside. And then they had me in a fucking cage where all I could do was shoot hoops, man. It was hard time, brothers, hard time. Anyway, women really want to help you when they're attracted to you.

21:28 So look out for that. All right. So to reiterate, guys, I'm going to go through these real quick one more time. When you make eye contact with her, she looks down. She does a mega scan. When you catch her looking, she has proximity, particularly when they get super close and put their back to you. 100% attracted when they do that. Loud laughter, emotional outbursts, smiling a lot. Lower body movements in order to catch your eye, helping someone in front of you. And the other bonus ones I talked about as well.

21:57 Those are some good hidden signs to detect whether or not a woman is attracted to you. And oh, yeah, the one I like the most, the one that kind of makes me the happiest when I see it is like the quick dilating pupils. I just think it's so cute. I think it's so funny when they do that. And I'll purposely look for that. It's the first thing I look for. So pay attention to that, boys, because when you know she's attracted to you, you can adjust your opening a little bit.

22:21 You can adjust your game a little bit to accommodate for that initial attraction. It's too much to talk about in this podcast episode, but I'll definitely do it. Like how to get a girl attracted to you, who you've already won with, something like that. I'll probably put a better title than that. But something along those lines, I think would be a great episode because it's important. You need to tweak shit slightly to go more into a qualifying kind of approach where you make her work for you.

22:46 So that's it for this one, gentlemen. I do appreciate you listening. If, again, you want to get on that free one-on-one breakthrough session with me, chat about what your issues are. Chat about how I can help you achieve your goals with women and, frankly, help you achieve more happiness, confidence, and honestly, more success in all areas of your life with NLP. I believe in the shit. I just see it do so much in the lives of my clients. It's absolutely incredible. I believe in it so wholeheartedly to rewrite the bullshit in your head.

23:14 So if it's like you keep getting the same results over and over for years, just the same fucking shit, the same level of girls, the same failures, the same sticking points, the same excuses that you've been making to yourself. It's all programming, man. It's all programming. When you reprogram that, not only are you able to behave differently, but you actually feel differently. You get different results. You're a different human being. In my opinion, you become more yourself than you ever have been before because that guy who's getting the shitty results, it's not you, bro.

23:45 It's the result of other people's BS, belief systems that's causing these issues, that's causing these results. So if you want to get through those quickly, we do a three-month coaching program. For three months, I do a custom NLP protocol on your brain. This is why I got the reviews I do, boys. Go check those out at coachmarksing.com. Click on coaching. You can also click the link in the description below. Check that out. And if you're interested, let's jump on that free one-on-one breakthrough session together.

24:14 All right, boys. I dropped podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays. I got another awesome one dropping in the next few days. So stay tuned for that. And I will see you in the next episode. I got another awesome one-on-one breakthrough session. I got another awesome one-on-one breakthrough session.

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