NLP Visualization: The 7 Core Beliefs of an Attractive Man

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. And today, we are going to do an NLP visualization to give you the seven core beliefs of an alpha male. Now, for those of you who don't know much about me or even those who do, I am an NLP dating coach. NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming.

0:38 And what we use are what's called NLP processes. Now, these processes both remove and install new belief systems, new files, new meta programs, as we call them, in order to make you become more attractive to women. So many of the times when gentlemen hire me, they have belief systems such as I am not enough. Hot girls are too attractive for me. Sex is wrong. You shouldn't disturb people. I don't know what to say. I'm not interesting. I'm too short, fat. I look like a chicken McNugget with tits.

1:09 I am a sea donkey and my nose whistles when I breathe. These kinds of self-deprecating belief systems are horrible for attracting women because women's attraction for you is based on what's going on inside your head and thus it's translated into your body language and tonality. So the big thing that I do, that unique selling proposition that I include in my coaching is a 12-week fully customized NLP protocol specifically for you based on your meta programs, your belief systems, your traumas, your schemas, your archetypes, and everything that's going on inside your head that gives you that phenomenon of having one foot on the gas, one foot on the brake.

1:52 While you may not feel completely that you're not enough, I'm sure on some level, for the most of you, you probably believe you're not enough and that's why you don't want to go approach women. That's why you make excuses as to why you shouldn't approach that girl. It has nothing to do with the fact that you don't know what to say. It's because you don't feel like you're enough and you're afraid of being rejected by her because you are externally validated rather than internally validated, all of which we deal with in my program.

2:20 So in today's episode, we are going to install seven core belief systems that all alpha males have. And this is a really cool meditation. And being it, that this is a guided visualization, obviously I don't want you guys driving, operating heavy machinery, playing golf, surfing, and or having sex with a woman. Although I would be flattered if my podcast is so good, you even have it on when you're getting it in. That would really be a great compliment, but you can't do it, bro. You got to turn everything off and just focus on this.

2:50 If you are driving, walking, working out, and you just like to listen to my podcast, that's cool. You can go through it right now, check it out. But obviously to really do this, I'd suggest you come back to it, get in a quiet place, put on some headphones. There's going to be some meditation music behind this and really go through this visualization and install these belief systems. Another thing I want to say is in my three month coaching program, what I do is I actually remove belief systems before I install these new ones.

3:19 So I don't do it on the podcast because this is really premium shit. And I'll tell you every single client I've ever worked with literally cannot feel the way they felt after going through this process I use called the timeline process that removes certain belief systems. So when they hire me, they usually have belief I'm not enough, sex is wrong, whatever it is. And I have them feel it on some level and tell me what the associated feeling is that is associated with that belief system.

3:47 There's always a kinesthetic feeling with it. After they do the process, they literally cannot feel it anymore. They cannot believe it. It feels like a lie. It feels like somebody else's bullshit. And it is somebody else's bullshit. Your dads, your moms, your uncles, your babysitters, whoever it was who gave you that BS belief system. It's just their garbage and you drop it. And then we do processes like this one in order to install it. So while this won't be a completely cure all for all you guys, it is something good.

4:16 It is a good step to take. But obviously the most powerful thing would be to join my program, become my client so I can really go in there and intrinsically remove the belief system first and then we install these new ones. But check this out. You know, this is partially what NLP is about. This is a really cool guided meditation that's super relaxing. And it will have some effect on you guys who, you know, just want to listen to the podcast and take that information and see what it's like.

4:44 But if you do want to get on a call with me and talk about getting into my three month coaching program, where again, there's three months of intensive NLP and I have lots of cool processes like these that really remap your entire programming, all your files. We throw out the bad ones, put in the good ones so that you don't become a little Mark Singh, but instead you become the original self-esteem that you were born with before other people came and screwed you up. So if you're interested in that, you could click the link in the description below, or you can go to my website, click on coaching, read all about it, check out the numerous testimonials I have, a lot of which talk about the NLP and see what I do actually works.

5:21 And in my opinion, this is the closest thing to a black hole shortcut you're ever going to get. So if you're interested to get on a phone call with me, it's free. You and I chat, see if you're a good fit for the program, hit me up, submit your application and you and I will get on that one-on-one call together. All right, gentlemen, we're going to start this with a little bit of music. To start this process, we are going to do what's called box breathing.

5:47 Now box breathing is just like it sounds. It's a box, meaning that every breath in is equal to the breath that you hold and then also exhale. So the way it works is you inhale for four seconds, hold it for four seconds, exhale for four seconds, hold again for four seconds, inhale for four seconds, hold for four seconds, exhale for four seconds and on and on. So we're going to do three rotations of this just to get yourself in a mild state of relaxation. So just follow what I say.

6:20 All right, let's go ahead and start with the in breath for three to one. Now hold it for three to one. Exhale for three to one. Hold it for three to one. inhale for three to one. Hold for three to one. Hold for three to one. Hold for three to one. three to one. Hold for three to one. Hold for three to one. Hold for three to one. Hold for three to one. hold for three to one. Hold for three to one. Hold for three to one.

7:17 Hold for three to one. Now I want you to breathe normally. And I want you to visualize that the soul part of you, the spirit part of you is now lifting up out of your body. There you go. Just let him lift up out of your body. And I want you, the soul part of you to float up to the ceiling, turn around and look down at yourself. Notice what you're wearing. Notice the room around you. Notice the walls, the carpet, maybe the lights, whatever you see in your room.

7:50 And just take a moment to notice everything in that room as well as yourself in that disassociated state. Now what I want you to do is float up out of your home or your car or wherever you happen to be. And I want you to float up 500 feet above your city. I want you to look around, look at the streets, look at the cars, the trees, the mountains, or the ocean in the distance. Wherever you are, just do a panoramic view and see your entire city spread out for miles and miles.

8:23 Now what I want you to do is start floating up. I want you to float one mile up, two miles up, three miles up. And as you float up, you can feel that feeling of weightlessness in your chest. You can feel the wind going through your hair and you're zooming upward like Superman. Now you're five miles up, six miles up, seven. And in an instance, I want you to suddenly arrive in the middle of space. Now there you are in the middle of space and you're just floating there completely weightless, completely comfortable.

8:54 There's no gravity on you. You feel light, at ease, at peace, and an immense sense of joy in your heart. And now as you turn to the right, you notice the most beautiful thing you've ever seen. And that's a waterfall. But unlike a normal waterfall, this is a waterfall of stars. The stars are all dropping down the waterfall. This bright twinkling sense of energy dropping down from this waterfall immediately in front of you. And as you float in the middle of space, the waterfall starts getting closer and closer and closer until it's falling right on your feet.

9:30 And out from underneath the waterfall, almost like there's a cave behind the waterfall, you see this glowing red color. The red gets brighter and brighter and brighter. And it comes closer and closer to those stars, that river of stars falling down the waterfall. And it penetrates that river of stars and comes out. It almost looks like a brick that's bright red shining forth with energy, positivity, and a glow unlike you've ever seen before. As you sit there floating, completely at ease, completely trusting, completely letting go, that brick starts to float towards you.

10:16 And as it floats towards you closer and closer and closer, it finally arrives about four inches below your navel. And it starts to enter your body. It starts to enter your body just above your private area. And as it enters your body, you feel the message that that it carries that it carries that I am safe. I am safe to approach women. I am safe to put myself out there. I am safe to be genuine. And as this red glowing brick enters your body, your entire body illuminates the same red color from the tip of your head to the tip of your toes down to the tips of your fingers.

11:00 Every single cell inside your ears. Every single cell inside your body reverberates with this red cleansing energy of safety. And an echoing of I am safe to approach women. And as this belief system takes hold, the scrolls of your DNA are rewritten that approaching women is safe. You are safe to put yourself out there. You are safe to be genuine. You are safe to approach women, to let women know that you're attracted to them, to go into this part of your life and get it fixed once and for all, knowing that doing so with a courageous heart is not only going to make you happier, but it's also in line with your purpose.

11:30 Your purpose of life, which is to become the best version of life, which is to become the best version of yourself possible. Your purpose of life is to become the best version of life, which is to become the best version of life. Your purpose is to become the best version of life. Your purpose is to become the best version of life. Your purpose is to become the best version of life. Your purpose is to become the best version of life. Your purpose is to become the best version of life.

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12:06 When this brick approaches you, you notice that it's aiming for just an inch below your navel. And there it goes. It begins entering into your body, just like the previous brick. And as it enters your body, you get a sense that your sexuality is okay. You are okay to be sexual. You were born a man who's attracted to women. You were born with testosterone and a need to procreate. It's okay to be sexual. It's okay to be sexually attracted to women. It's okay to have sex.

12:39 It's not a sin. It's not wrong. It's not bad to masturbate. It's completely normal. And every single guy does it. And as this brick enters your inner energy field, your entire body glows the same orange. It echoes from the tip of your head to the tip of your toes to your fingers. And it saturates every cell of your body. The scrolls of your DNA are rewritten with the new belief system. My sexuality is okay. And that belief system is echoed and sang like a chorus from all the trillions of DNA inside your body.

13:14 And now this reprogramming, this new file is installed. My sexuality is okay. My sexuality is healthy. I am okay to be attracted to women. I am okay to want to have sex with them. It is healthy to want to procreate and to be sexually attracted to women. And now as you look at the waterfall, you notice a new color. And this color is yellow. Yellow like 10,000 suns on a spring day. And here comes this brick. It comes out from underneath the waterfall. And you can look directly into it, even though for all intents and purposes, it should be blinding you.

13:51 And now as it comes closer to you, it enters just two inches above your navel. And as it enters your body, a new belief system is installed. And that belief system is self-esteem. It is I believe in myself. And I want you to say that right now. I believe in myself. I trust in myself. I am self-validated. I love myself. And as that orange reverberates throughout your body, echoing from the tip of your toes to the top of your head to the tips of your fingers, permeating through every cell and rewriting the DNA inside of you.

14:25 That you believe in yourself. That you trust yourself. That you are internally validated. The only person whose acceptance you need is your own acceptance. And you accept yourself. That orange color illuminates you like you are the sun himself. And now the new belief of I believe in myself has been installed. And now from underneath that waterfall, you see a brilliant emerald green shine. And there comes another brick floating horizontally towards you straight at your heart. And as it enters your solar plexus right where your heart is in your body, you feel this immense self-love.

15:07 And that's the only message of this brick is I love myself. And I want you to say that to yourself right now. I love myself. I love myself. I love myself. I love myself. And brother, you are loved. Not only by yourself to yourself, but other people love you and you are love itself. And this green represents that echoing, reverberating throughout your entire body from the tips of your toes to the top of your head to the tips of your fingers. Going down to every cell of your body, reverberating and echoing and rewriting the DNA inside of you.

15:44 I love myself. This new file is installed. Any criticism and self-loathing because you haven't achieved what you want to achieve is replaced with acceptance, compassion, and most importantly, love. Love of self. Say it again. I love myself. I love myself. And now from behind the waterfall, you notice this brilliant light blue color, this robin eggs blue, reverberating and coming through the falling stars of that waterfall is this brilliant light blue brick. And it heads straight for your throat. As it enters your throat, you notice that the smoke of being stifled, of not knowing what to say, of being a bad communicator, of saying things that shoot yourself in the foot, all this smoke dissipates out through your throat, is cleansed and replaced with a new belief system.

16:38 I speak confidently and clearly to women. I speak confidently, clearly to women. And as this belief system enters your body, it echoes from the tips of your toes to the top of your head, down to the tips of your fingers, saturating every cell with this brilliant robin eggs blue color, this neon light blue, going down to the DNA level, echoing throughout your entire spirit that I communicate effectively. My throat is clear. I say those things that come from this deeper knowledge of intuition. I let my true genuine self shine.

17:18 I don't stutter. I don't go into screensaver mode. I let my genuine self communicate clearly with an attractive tone, with a cadence that women can tell I am an alpha male, because I speak confidently and clearly to women. And now you see this dark, beautiful, bright blue come out from underneath the waterfall. And that brick starts to come right towards your head and it enters between your two eyes. And as it enters your eyes, your intuitive sense about women is cleansed. You now know when a woman is not good for you.

17:55 You trust your intuition. You trust that internal knowing of what's best for you when it comes to women. When you meet a woman immediately, you can intuitively sense her energy. And that dark blue knowing echoes throughout your entire body from the tips of your toes to the top of your head to the tips of your fingers, saturating every cell and echoing, reverberating throughout all your DNA. I trust my intuition when it comes to women, say it with me, I trust my intuition when it comes to women.

18:29 And now finally, the final installation, this brilliant purple shines forth from behind that waterfall. And out comes the biggest brick of all, twice the size of all the other bricks floating towards your head. And it arrives just at the tip of your head, absorbing into your entire body with the new belief system. I am becoming the best version of myself. And thus, I am attractive to women. I am becoming the best version of myself. And thus, I am attractive to women. This is the most important belief of the alpha male that by working on yourself, by doing visualizations like this one, by investing yourself, trying to improve, trying to improve, doing what's hard so that you can become the best version of yourself, you become immensely more attractive to women.

19:21 And as that purple enters your body, it spans out from the tip of your head all the way down to the tips of your toes, bouncing back and forth to the tips of your fingers, saturating every cell of your body, going down to the DNA level and echoing the same belief 10 trillion times. I am becoming the best version of myself. And thus, I am attractive to women. And as you turn away from the waterfall, and the waterfall disappears from behind you, the only thing you can see in front of you, behind you and all around you is black.

19:59 And now you're looking at yourself from a further disassociated state. You're seeing your soul floating there in this empty space of black, no stars, no nothing. But what you do see is that purple, bright, brilliant halo shining right at the top of your head. And now you look down a little further and between your eyes, there's a halo of dark blue. And now down to your neck, there's a halo of light blue. And in your chest, you see that bright, brilliant green almost moving with the exaltation of self-love and pure personal power.

20:35 A little below that, just a few inches above your belly button is that yellow, that shining yellow sun. And just a few inches below your belly button is that orange. And finally, a few inches below that is that red. The red represents I am safe to approach women. Orange represents my sexuality is healthy. Yellow represents I believe in myself. I have a healthy self-esteem. Green represents I love myself. Light blue represents I speak confidently and clearly to women. Dark blue represents I trust my intuition when it comes to women.

21:12 And purple represents I am becoming the best version of myself. Thus, I am attractive to women. And now I want that soul part of you to begin falling towards Earth, falling down 18 miles up, 17 miles up, 16. And it goes faster and faster, almost like a satellite reentering orbit. You're 15 miles up, 14, 13, 12, 11, 10. And as you fall down, you can see yourself, your body laying there or sitting there all the way down on Earth. And you're approaching it at warp speed. You are eight miles up, seven, six. And when I hit zero, you are going to go back into your body.

21:54 And that will complete the process. Five miles up, four, three, two, one. One, you are back. And now as your spirit enters your body, so does the seven core beliefs. These seven files get installed into who you are and what you are right now in this moment. So repeat after me these seven beliefs one more time. I am safe to approach women. My sexuality is healthy. I believe in myself. I love myself. I speak confidently and clearly to women. I trust my intuition when it comes to women.

22:40 I am becoming the best version of myself and thus I am attractive to women. All right, my friend. This ends this NLP visualization to get the seven core beliefs of the alpha male. For those of you who didn't know, all those colors are actually associated with your chakras. And this is probably the most airy fairy thing I'll ever do on this podcast. But each of those chakras does associate with safety, sexuality, self-love, communication, intuition, and of course, self-development, the purple one. So in case you didn't pick up on that, that's what we did.

23:21 It was basically a chakra clearing visualization. This has been one of the many things that I've done both to myself and to my clients. One of the most airy fairy things I've ever done for sure. But it's one of the things I do include in my coaching after, of course, I remove the negative beliefs that prevent my clients from getting the success they want. So if that isn't too airy fairy for you, and I'm sure it is for a lot of you guys. But if you have an open mind, if you enjoyed that meditation and you want to learn more about what I do, once again, that's pretty much the farthest left I ever go.

23:55 And then, of course, if you guys listen to my other podcast, the furthest right I ever go is about choking people out and becoming a fucking man without making any apologies for it. I think there needs to be balance. So that is part of what I do, brother. So if you're interested in meeting with me, hit me up. Once again, CoachMarkSingh.com will get on a free one-on-one breakthrough session together to see if you're a good fit for this kind of stuff. Not only this kind of stuff, but of course, also, I teach the tactical aspects of approaching women.

24:23 And if you've listened to any of my episodes, you'll know I'm pretty damn good at what I do. So hit me up if you're interested, brother. I hope you enjoyed this NLP visualization. I hope it was relaxing for you. And I hope it installed those new belief systems or at least put a seed into the ground that can spring up later and get you the results that you're looking for with women. All right, gentlemen. I thank you so much for listening. I dropped podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays.

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