Attraction Building Technique MEGA MEGA: The Human Body is a Lie Detector!

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate it. And today, we are going to talk about this awesome attraction building technique called the Human Body is a Lie Detector. And not only is it an attraction building technique, but it's also a way to line up the first kiss. So I'm going to teach you exactly how to do that, how to tell this story, how to explain it to her, how to make this so that you interact with her, you guys are touching each other.

0:45 And then if you want to, you can deploy the first kiss with this awesome technique. So a lot of you guys come up to me and you ask me, what do I talk about with women, right? I always go into interview mode. I always talk about boring things and they get bored and then they don't get attracted to me. So this is specifically for you guys who struggle with that. This is going to be added into your repertoire so that you have something more rich to speak about with women.

1:10 Now, as a disclaimer to this, I want to let you know that this is a little bit on the hokey side, right? It's a little bit on the spiritual kind of like metaphysical side. So if you don't like that stuff, that's absolutely fine. You can click away right now. Listen, there will be no hard feelings. But the simple truth is this spiritual kind of metaphysical kind of stuff really does get good attraction with women, especially the way I'm going to explain it to you on how to do it.

1:35 I mean, I've done this to probably like thousands of different girls and they always love it. They love this kind of crap. So sometimes as men, we have to open our mind and say, okay, while I may not necessarily believe the quote unquote science or I should say pseudoscience behind this, maybe there is something to it as far as like attracting a woman. And you can even base it as some people say that, right? If you're really not feeling good about this, which I'm kind of the jury's out as far as I'm concerned as to whether or not this really works.

2:06 I do have some evidence as to the fact that it does work and I'm going to share that with you. But, you know, you don't have to like buy into it completely in order to use it. I don't know if you guys listen to my other podcast, Messages in Water. You know, it's the same kind of thing as that. It's stuff that happens in our environment that's really interesting to women and it would behoove you to open your mind to this because when you bring this up in conversation, women get really attracted.

2:31 It's much better than you talking about the weather, talking about where she's from, or you talking about your favorite football team, right? We want to create conversations that actually get attraction and this is how to do it. One more warning for you guys. I am going to tell a little story about something that happened in my own life, but this is a good example of how I would actually tell a girl this whole thing. And this is a good 10, 15, 20 minutes of content right here that really gets excellent attraction.

2:58 So I'm going to kind of take you through it, how exactly I do it, and then end it with how to land the first kiss. Before I jump into it, I want to let you guys know that my Instagram is growing. Although it is moving slower than pond water, it is growing. And one of the things that I do on my Instagram, actually the exclusive thing that I do, is I give you things to say to women that get them attracted to you. So I'm giving one-liners, I'm giving techniques and tips, good things that you can text to girls, say to girls to get them attracted to you.

3:26 So jump on over to Instagram and follow me. It's Coach Mark Singh. Once again, that's Coach Mark Singh. And you can also just click the link in the description below, which will also take you over to my coaching offer if you're interested in doing some work with me. I'm giving away a free program called The Approach Formula, how to approach a woman and walk away with their phone number, as well as my contact email. If you want to leave me a review, email me and I'll send you some shit.

3:51 So basically, anything you want to do, bro, just go down there, click on the links in the description, and it'll take you there. But if you can follow me on Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it. All right. So I'm going to start this thing with a little story. Okay, so I have this doctor up here in northern Colorado that isn't a traditional doctor. She's more like an Eastern medicine Ayurvedic, Ayurveda. I don't know what it's called. It's like the Indian-based kind of stuff. And she does some kind of hokey things, right?

4:18 But, man, she's really helped me through the years. Actually, she's the one who told me to get off all my gluten and get more onto a paleo-type diet. And, bro, like when I started working with her, my headaches cleared up. My congestion cleared up. I lost all my body fat. I'm 43 years old, and I have a six-pack. And I mainly attributed it to her because she showed me that I was actually allergic to gluten. But not only that, but the vast amount of sugar and carbohydrates that we eat in our diet is what causes us to get fat on our body.

4:49 And I feel a million times better from having worked with her. So I believe in her. But one of the things she does is she has you lay down on your back, and she does what's called muscle testing. Have you guys ever heard of this? So basically the theory is this is when you're exposed to something that isn't really good for your body or your body doesn't like it, your body doesn't need it, it's actually going to get weaker when it's exposed to that thing. Now, this goes into the human body as a lie detector gambit that I'm going to explain here momentarily, which is this.

5:19 When you have a lie in your head, your muscles actually get weaker. Okay, so that's the theory. Now, what you do basically is you hold up your arm. So she has me lay on my back, hold up my arm, and then she simply puts kind of pressure on my arm, tries to pull my arm down. And she holds different things over my heart. Okay, so she has this whole, like, pan of different supplements, I guess, or different things that one might be allergic to or one might need.

5:46 And she holds it over your heart, pushes your arm down, sees how your body reacts to it, and then from that she can tell a bunch of different things. Now, at first, I'm like, what? This is bullshit, dude. This is hokey stuff. But over the years, man, she keeps calling me out on things that I don't know how the hell she knows. Okay, so first example of this is this. Last Saturday, I had an epic cheat day, man. I went hard in the paint on the shitty food.

6:13 And I literally ate an entire loaf of bread. Now, don't judge, bro. It was over the entire day. And for two weeks, my diet was absolutely pinned because I was cutting. But I was like, look, I'm going to reward myself at the end of these two weeks and give myself my favorite thing in the world, which is Sarah Lee cinnamon raisin bread. And I ate it throughout the day, you know, toast some in the morning, eat it, and it ended up I ate the entire loaf of bread, which was pretty crazy.

6:39 But anyway, so she's doing the muscle testing on me. And she's like, you've eaten bread recently, haven't you? And this was like two days later. I'm like, uh, yeah. She's like, how much did you eat? And I was like, a loaf? And she's just like, oh, my God, Mark, a loaf? And I was like, it's my cheat day. And I did it throughout the whole day. It was like 15 hours of time, relax. But it was crazy to me because she, like, tested gluten on me, and my body got super weak.

7:04 And she could tell through that that, you know, I was eating bread. And it's not like I knew at that moment she was testing gluten on me. She was just running through her tests, and she usually does, like, 25 to 30 different things. And I just got my eyes closed. I'm just holding my arm up. And then she immediately found that. So, you know, I think there is probably some truth to what she's doing. Again, for me, the jury's out. But it's the same thing when you're lying.

7:31 Is when you have a lying thought in your head, your arm actually gets weaker. So I'm going to get into that in a minute and how we're going to do this with women. So a couple months ago, I was having really bad muscle cramps in my legs. So I'd be sleeping at night. I'd be in the G spot, sawing toothpicks completely out, dreaming about cinnamon rolls and ATVs and going on some epic elk hunts. And then out of nowhere, man, my fucking leg would just seize up.

7:59 It would be like, and I'd get up, and I'd be like, and I'd have to walk around in my room. Now, I've never been drunk before a day in my life. Some of you guys know I've never drunk. I don't drink. So when I got out of my bed, I ran into a wall, and then I bounced off that wall and hit another wall. And I guess that's probably the closest I've ever been drunk. But this was really debilitating because almost like twice or three times a night, I get these insane leg cramps.

8:25 And my entire calf muscle would seize up or like the muscles, the little muscles in my feet would just like really seize up hard. And the only thing I could do was walk around to get rid of it. And one time, me and my buddy were out elk hunting, and I had it happen to me in the middle of the night. Fuck, dude, this is the most painful experience I've ever had. And I get up out of my sleeping bag, and I'm like, And my buddy the next morning is like, Dude, what were you doing last night?

8:54 Were you like beaten off? And I was like, No, man, I got a fucking leg cramp. And we were laughing about that. I'm like, Trust me, bro. I'm not going to be beaten off fucking in the middle of the night when you're 10 feet away in your tent. Relax. I got this leg cramp. And it was so painful. Have you guys ever seen that episode of Family Guy where Peter like hurts his hand and he's like, Anyway, that's what I was doing. And it would happen to me like every night.

9:21 So she's doing the muscle testing on me. And she's like, Okay, you're having leg cramps. Have you been out in the forest a lot? Now, I did not tell her that I was out in the forest. And I was like, Yeah, why? And she's like, Did you get bit by a lot of mosquitoes? And I was like, Yeah, pretty much eaten alive. And she's like, That's why you're getting the muscle cramps. And I was like, What? And she's like, Well, the mosquitoes have like parasites in them and certain bacteria that cause paralysis in your muscles.

9:46 So you have a mild infection going on to which we're going to cure it with her hippy dippy supplements. And I was like, What the hell? And she says it's the same way malaria works. When you get bit by the mosquito and you get malaria, you get the paralysis in your muscles. And that's been happening to me. So I swear, man, she put me on like oregano. I don't know what the hell it is. But all these like weird biscuits that she's having me take. And the muscle cramping is gone.

10:11 She freaking cured it. So to me, this is evidence that like, Okay, whatever she's doing, man, like this hokey pokey shit. I don't care. It's fucking working. So she says the muscle testing works. Then I'm going to buy into it. All right. So I would literally tell that whole story to a girl. Now, this is interesting, right? Like, it's probably mildly entertaining to you guys. You listen to it. There were some slightly funny parts. Well, this is what you want to do with women. You want to tell stories.

10:36 And better yet, when you do a gambit, it's better to ease into it with a story about yourself. So you tell an interesting story. You get her laughing. You know, the part about my buddy thinking I was jacking off in the middle of the night. That's kind of funny. It's got some substance. And it would get some attraction because I'm showing personality. I'm showing charisma. And I'm laying the foundation for what I'm going to talk about to her about the muscle testing to which is going to lead into the first kiss.

11:03 Okay. So I tell her that whole story. And then I'll be like, yeah, you know, you could even go to the supermarket. And you guys should try this. Go to the supermarket and get some really shitty food, right? Pick up a little Debbie's honey bun. And what you do is you kind of like hold it to your heart. Or you can kind of hold it in your armpit, I guess. And then put your arm out straight and pull down on your arm. And you literally feel, again, I don't know if this is just pseudoscience, if it's a placebo thing, but your arm will be weak.

11:32 Like you can pull down your arm very easily. And it kind of clicks out of place. Like if you hold your arm straight out right now and pull down on it, you can keep it there. But if you were to hold some crappy food or even some lie in your head, apparently it kind of unclicks. And you can't resist it in that way. So this is what's called muscle testing. So I explain this whole thing to girls. And then I say, yeah, you know, when you have a lie in your head, your arm actually gets weak.

11:58 Here, let's try it. Okay, so put out your arm. Now she's going to put out her arm. And this is a great way for you to touch her, right? So this is a good way to ease into you guys physically interacting with each other. If you're one of those guys that isn't good at physically escalating, here's a great way to get your foot in the door. So she puts out her arm. And at first, you want to make her tell the truth. So what I usually do is just ask her name.

12:20 So I'm like, okay, Kelly, I'm going to ask what your name is. And I want you to tell me the truth. And then I'm going to pull down your arm. And we're going to see that it stays exactly where it is. It's strong. Now, you may be asking, how hard do I pull down on her arm? I don't know, like 10 pounds of pressure. You don't want to fucking rip her arm down. But just lean on it a little bit with your hand. Okay, so she puts out her arm.

12:41 You say, what's your name? She says, Kelly. Then you pull down her arm a little bit. You see that it's pretty strong. It stays there. Now you tell her, okay, now I want you to lie to me. When I ask your name, give me a lie. So you say, what's your name? She says, Sarah. And then you pull down her arm. And you'll notice it's considerably weaker. And I've done this again. I've done this so many times. And it works, man. Like, girls' arms get weaker.

13:05 Okay, so you run her through a bunch of funny different things, right? Have you ever been committed of a crime to where you suitcased five pounds of cocaine into the California penal system and distributed it throughout the jail so that everybody got high? And she laughs and she's like, no. And then you pull on her arm and it's very strong. By the way, suitcasing. Do you guys know what that is? It's where you bring things into prison in your butthole. Suitcasing. I always thought that was funny.

13:33 So I would always joke with her about that. See how we're working substance into this? Okay, so you're joking with her and then you can have her do some things to you too. Now, what I always like to do is slowly make it more sexual, right? So I may ask her, the first time you saw me, Kelly, when I walked into that club shining like a Spartan warrior, all bronzed up, muscular, the striations down my arm, completely got you attracted. Imagining what it would be like if I just popped my shirt off and there would be a six-pack glistening in the Spartan summer sun.

14:08 Were you attracted to me? And she'll be like, no. And then her arm will go down, right? So you can get really clever with this and then she's going to do it back to you. Okay, Kelly, try one on me. And she's like, well, when you saw me, were you attracted to me? And you'd be like, hell no. And then your arm just goes down. Okay, now you guys are flirting. You're being attracted to each other. Okay, so you continue doing this and then on a high note, you guys are going to guess what I'm going to do.

14:33 You say, do you want to kiss me? Okay, so you'd be like, all right, Kelly, put out your arm. Here comes the big one. You ready? And she's like, yeah, I'm ready. Now, of course, you only want to do this when the vibe is up. If it's like ho-hum, you know, she's kind of into it. She kind of isn't. She's laughing a little bit. You got to read her. That's the thing that's kind of hard to teach as a coach is being socially savvy. But I can teach you signs of attraction, right?

14:55 She's leaning in. She's laughing. Her face is blushing a little bit. She's playing with her hair. She's getting close to you. She's touching you. She probably wants to be kissed. When you get enough experience with this, you can tell, okay, this chick wants to kiss me. You say, all right, put out your arm. You ready for the big one? She's like, yes, I'm ready. Be like, do you want to kiss me? She says no. And then her arm goes down. Boom. You reach in and kiss her.

15:19 This is such an awesome gambit. I've done it so many times. I'd say next to my slide and kiss maneuver, which I don't know if you guys have heard, but I did it probably four months ago. If you want to look into my physically escalating with women, I think is what it's called. No, it's called Sex and Physical Escalations. It's a series I did. It's probably like five episodes. Back maybe like five months ago, I did that, and that teaches my slide and kiss method. But this method is also powerful.

15:46 All right, so take this for what it is. Once again, your belief in it isn't required for it to be effective. You just have to think outside the box and maybe talk a little bit less about football, computers, and video games, and maybe open your mind to this kind of stuff because this is what gets girls really attracted. So that's the attraction building technique, guys. And, you know, the next time you're at the supermarket, go ahead and go over and grab yourself some ho-hos and ding-dongs and wham-whams and put them up to your heart and see if, indeed, you can feel something.

16:16 See, for me, I really believe that I can actually feel something. When I put it up to my heart, it just kind of feels weird, or when I put something healthy up to my heart like an orange or a banana, it feels good. And maybe you want to try that, or you can do some muscle testing, kind of hold it in your armpit, as it were, put out your arm, and kind of see, just pull down on your arm and see how strong it is. I think the stuff works.

16:39 So check it out. Tell this to women, and you will definitely get some attraction because of it. All right, that's it for me in this podcast. Once again, if you could slide on over to Instagram and follow me, I'd very much appreciate it. You can also grab your free program, The Approach Formula, on my website by clicking the link in the description below. And if you are interested in coaching, check out my coaching page. Tons of testimonials on there. And finally, if you want to leave me a review, email me, and I will send you a ton of cool shit.

17:09 Once again, thanks for listening. I got a really good one coming up on Wednesday, so please stay tuned, and I will see you in the next episode. I'll see you next time. Thank you.

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