Destroying "Toxic Masculinity" with Artur from Menprovement

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, money, women, and being a fucking man without making any apologies for it. I'm your host, Mark Sing, and today we have a very special guest. We have Artur from menprovement.com. Artur is one of the big names in the seduction niche, and his purpose is basically to improve himself and to help men attract women. So Artur, I wanted to welcome you, man. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. What's up? Nice to have you.

0:34 You know, before we started talking, Artur and I were going on and on about soy boy America and what I like to call the mass pussification of the American male, and we're like, well, what should we talk about today? And we're like, well, let's just jump right back into that because that's a gigantic theme lately, and I understand you live in Thailand now, correct? Yes, I live in Thailand right now. So I'm not basically exposed to the mass pussification, but what I'm seeing in YouTube and all those other platforms seems to be quite concerning.

1:10 So that's why we started talking about it. Yeah, you know, I was visiting my old college campus. I went to UC Santa Cruz in California, and I was visiting up there, and I walked past a building, and it said, when you enter this building, you are in a safe place. If you hear any trigger words, just let us know because we want you to be safe and to feel totally at ease when you're in this building. And I was like, oh, my God. I almost took a picture of it and posted it on my website because it's just so ridiculous.

1:43 So you guys don't have that over there in Thailand, huh? No, no, no. Actually, I was here with a girl like maybe two days ago, and I was talking to her about this whole situation. And she is Thai, right? So it's like, you know, in America, they have all those people, and they're, like, constantly being triggered about nothing. And she's like, what? What do you mean? And then I saw her a video of just a girl being pissed off because the Lyft driver, he had a hula dancer from Hawaii.

2:16 You know which one I'm talking about? Yeah. Yeah. And the lady was like, oh, I'm going to record this, and you're going to be in so much trouble. So I would like you to take this hula dancer off because it's so offensive. You don't know anything about Hawaii. And she was just being hilarious, right? I mean, it was just – she was triggered because hula dancer apparently is, like, super offensive to, I don't know, being a female or something. And eventually this girl was like, oh, fuck?

2:51 Like, what's the girl's problem? Like, she did not understand. Where is it coming from? Because girls here are totally fine being, like, feminine. I mean, Thailand has their own set of problems and weirdnesses. Weirdness. But this kind of thing just doesn't click in this girl's reality. And, yeah, just looking outside of this whole situation with the pacification being triggered, the feminists, the Me Too movement, I don't really know enough about it to be, like, really opinionated. But, you know, the feminists started something, like, I guess, positive.

3:26 And then they kind of got empowered and they maybe get power hungry. And, yeah, and now it is what it is. But, yeah. Yeah, so what it's doing, what I found it's doing, and for my clients, I work with a lot of clients. I do one-on-one coaching, as you do, too, right? You do one-on-one coaching, don't you? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm kind of getting into it right now. Yeah, it's good stuff. I love working with guys individually because you get to really spearhead their individual problems, learn about, you know, the things that they struggle with.

3:58 And what it's been doing is it's been feminizing men and making them afraid for being males. And, you know, as I was explaining to you before we started this podcast, the whole reason John and I started this podcast is because we're unapologetic about being men. We are masculine. We are going to approach women. And we are going to be just fine doing that. And there's a big movement, you know, to basically feminize men, to make them feel bad for approaching women. And it's becoming a giant problem.

4:29 And it's becoming such a problem that I even talk to girls who are like, you know, it's really hard just to meet a man these days because so many men are, you know, very feminine. And basically what I always tell my clients is you want to be about 80% masculine and 20% feminine. You want to lead the way, lead women to where they want to be led, you know, but also be respectful at the same time, which is a feminine quality. But when you go into it feeling bad about approaching women, feeling guilty, think you're inconveniencing them, I mean, this could be a gigantic problem that could have really bad ramifications in the future.

5:08 If we have a generation of men who are afraid to approach women, who are afraid to show their sexual intent, I mean, this is really scary. And it's a really scary movement that's happening, starting here in America, and I mean, hopefully dying here in America, too, because it's just, you know, it's for millennium. We, this is how it's worked. And now suddenly there's this big movement telling us it's wrong. It's really terrifying. Yeah. I mean, this seems to be pretty ridiculous in a way, because like, okay, even if we take the Gillette commercial, like just to measure how big this whole thing got and out of proportion, you get the Gillette commercial and showing, man can do better than that.

5:53 Like a guy tries to approach a girl in there. Yeah. And the dude's like, no, no, no, dude, it's not cool. It's not cool. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's the part. Yeah, dude. Oh, yeah, I saw that. And I was pointing out to my girlfriend. I was like, dude, that's not cool. That's not cool that they're telling boys, don't approach girls. Are you fucking kidding me? Yes, approach girls. That's what we're meant to do is our masculine purpose. Yeah, I totally relate to what you're saying. Yeah.

6:17 So, yeah, I think approaching girls is fine. And I don't really know what triggered this whole idea that it's not okay. Maybe there was a lot of men who got, you know, they were approaching in a way that it was like really disrespectful and girls go like, oh, you're trying to rape me, you know, things like that or like catcalling. And there is like a dark side to approaching a girl where you're completely misunderstanding and not understanding the word no and you're being pushy and she's feeling like violated in the club when you're like slapping her ass or stuff like that.

6:52 And this is like, here's what's the problem I think is basically the masses of people cannot understand the nuances, right? And we have the nuances and the nuance of the situation is that it's cool to approach a girl in a way that you're coming from, you know, like once you educate yourself on the pickup and game, then you understand how to do it in a way that is actually tactful. But what happens when you get all those guys who are like approaching girls and they don't understand, you know, where she's at emotionally and all that kind of more advanced level understanding, then she can actually feel like, ew, like this guy is actually, you know, not really doing it properly.

7:39 And she can feel a little bit insulted in some cases. So I think what's better solution would be to educate men how to do this thing properly. And then girls are going to be happy because they get masculine guys that they would actually enjoy the company of. And then guys are happy because they get to be who they were meant to be in the first place. But we have to go through that phase where the truth of that is being obstructed by the giant sort of, yeah, lie that's been blowing up.

8:16 Yeah, I mean, I agree 100%. And it's really important what you said is that it takes experience to get your calibration right. But many of my clients come to me and they say, you know, I don't want to approach women because I don't want to inconvenience them. I don't want to feel like I'm slimy or taking something from them, being selfish because I'm taking up their time. And what I work on my clients with to do is to basically reframe it in their mind. I say, well, listen, no single girl wakes up in the morning and says, gee, I hope I don't meet an amazing guy today.

8:52 No girl doesn't want to be approached by a great guy. The thing is, is that she wants to be approached in the right way. Now, like you said, that takes calibration. It takes experience. But initially, if you're starting out in this and you want to approach women, what I always tell my clients is to be a go-giver. Go give good energy. Maybe you can even go give her a compliment coming from the right frame, which is, you know, God, I just got to tell you real quick.

9:20 I got to go right now, but I just want to let you know. I think your outfit is so freaking adorable. High five. And then she gives you a high five. She feels amazing. And then you abort mission. This is a good way to build up. We get good with approaching women with just a good vibe. And literally, women can pick up on the vibe that you're emanating. Women, it's the law of state transference. They feel what you feel. Now, if you go up to her and you feel like shit and all you want to do is get in her underwear and get her phone number.

9:48 Oh, okay. That's slimy. That's creepy. But when you go up and you give value, you give good energy, maybe even give a compliment. Again, the key word is give. Then you're actually enhancing her day. So you're not taking anything from her. You're giving to her. You're making her day better. So when you can reframe it in your mind that's, hey, I'm going to go give this girl value and she's going to have a better day because of me, then that really eliminates approach anxiety because you're like, shit, who wouldn't want to hear from me today?

10:17 I'm going to brighten everybody's day. And that's really the philosophy. I think that's really a manly thing is to give, to give, to give. It's almost like our anatomy is the same concept. We give our seed. We give energy, right? Like men are masculine. Masculinity gives. Femininity receives. That's why it's like the vagina. It receives energy. So if you expect women to approach you, well, honestly, approaching somebody is very masculine. And when women approach me in the bar, it kind of turns me off because it's like she's being the dude and I'm like receiving it.

10:51 No, I like to go approach women, give, give, give, have no expectation. I don't care what happens. I'm just there for my own entertainment. And that's masculine. And if you tell me that's toxic masculinity, I could not disagree more. That is masculinity in its essence. And women freaking love it. You just have to do it in the right way. Wouldn't you agree, Arthur? Absolutely. Yes, definitely. 100%. And this is the nuance that we basically, that is basically so hard to communicate through, through, you know, mass media communication, I guess.

11:27 And then the idea that maybe it's not okay, it kind of starts to spread and then people would never even, would never even try to do it the correct way. But then, you know, I think that on the other hand, on the more positive note, you get all those clients that are trying to figure this thing out. And there's probably going to be more and more people like that as well. So, yeah, actually, I, the last girl I was, I was here with, I asked her because she told me, you know, I, I didn't really sleep with anyone for like two years.

12:02 Now, remember that this is Thai culture. So, it's not that normal for girls to like go home with guys. Oh, okay. Right. But they do get approached, of course. And there's this whole other thing called like the Asian fever, where there's a lot of like Westerners coming here to like bang Asian girls. Yeah, yellow fever. Isn't it called yellow fever? Yes, that's right. Sorry, yellow fever. Yeah, I had that because I lived in Japan for four years and I had it. And then, dude, like I'm completely over it.

12:33 I'm not attracted to Asian girls anymore. I think they're beautiful. I think they're fine, but like I don't want anything to do with them because I like overdosed on them when I was in Japan. But anyway, go on with your story. Right, right. Cool. So, yeah. So, basically, she's like, oh, I didn't sleep with anyone for two years. And then I was like, what made you like change your mind when I said hi to you? And she's like, yeah, I don't know. I just felt like I can trust you.

13:00 And I was like, what is that? Why is that? Because like, and I think she couldn't really put it into words, but it's a feeling for girls. It's like a feeling, right? And for guys, that's, I was trying to put logic into it. And this is basically the crux of it. When the, where you have this, and the idea of the calibration. So, basically, you go, you talk to a girl. And if she feels that, like, in your eyes, she looks into your eyes. And then she can tell that this, that you want to have sex with her, you're attracted.

13:32 But then, on the other hand, you pretend like you're not. And she's like, what the fuck? This incongruence in energy that the guy gives basically makes her go like, I have to go to a toilet right now. I'll see you later, you know? And that, that incongruence between what you're presenting with your body and what you're presenting with your, with what you're saying can become very creepy. And a lot of times, it's also like the shame that maybe guys feel that they're approaching a girl. They're really attracted to them and they never, like, took control over that intention.

14:14 It's like, do I really want to go and, like, do I feel like I want to fuck this girl right now? And they're really, like, the guy's pretending like he doesn't. But you can, honestly, like, once you've done a couple of times, you can be like, oh, I'm just going to go there, offer a good time, good energy, see what this girl's about. Then we can, like, transition to the next level if she likes me, I like her. And it's, like, no big deal. But because of this massive validation hunt and the guys just basically not knowing what they're doing within that sphere, which, by the way, should be, like, the number one understanding anyone should possess, like, pretty early in life.

14:52 But then I don't know how society would turn out. Like, everyone would be, like, an alpha male. Yeah. Yeah, I couldn't, I couldn't agree more, man. Yeah, but basically, you know, you know what I'm saying, right? Like, you, you, there's all those little, small little nuances that the guys have to kind of dial in. And once this is in, then, then the thing with, like, looks don't matter as much, or at least as much, or, like, money doesn't matter as much. Those things become much more true once this kind of paradigm shift happens.

15:25 Because before that, I think, like, the, one of the major things in America is, like, you have to have looks and money. And it's, obviously, there's some, some, some truth to it. But it's not, like, you can't even go. And every girl is just going to be, like, ew, get away from me if you're not, like, super model looking. And, I don't know, you're not, like, Dan Bilzerian rich, you know? It's, like, girl's still going to talk to you. Like, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's, that's the ironic thing about, about this game is that validation seeking, right?

15:59 That, that's a very feminine energy. We're talking about, you know, polarities and masculinity and femininity. Well, looking for validation from a girl is a very feminine energy. And when you go up to a woman and you expect her to validate you, to make you feel good about yourself and to give you attention, well, you're telegraphing that in your body language, your tone of voice, and your actions. And that's actually going to turn her off because it's a feminine energy. Well, once you realize that, and, and most of the times, it takes experience to have these realizations.

16:32 So, you can listen to podcasts all day, I could tell you, you know, 24 hours straight, all these concepts, but it's until you actually go out and implement that you'll learn it for yourself. But, once you start to get state from within yourself, to actually believe what you tell yourself, that I'm a champion, I'm a good guy, and all the state comes from within, that's a very, very masculine energy. And when you have that, and you go up to a girl, and you're simply speaking to her really for your own entertainment, then it doesn't matter to you whether or not she validates you.

17:07 And because of that, she will validate you. It's like the second you don't give a shit about it anymore, that's when it comes to you. And, and really, that's kind of the way life works all together. Yeah, like with money, with, with everything, when you let it go, and you're like, you know what, it doesn't matter, I don't need to feel this to feel good about myself, then it comes to you. And the only way to get there is through practice, through experience. So, you know, when you're looking for a certain technique, which we can certainly give you, and we can give you some tips and stuff, really, there's a balance between learning this stuff, and then actually going out and deploying it.

17:45 If you study all the time in your room, you're never going to get good. And then if you just go out and deploy it the whole time, you're never going to get good, because you don't understand the concept. So, like, if you're listening to this podcast right now, you're 18 minutes in, what I urge for you to do is take these concepts of giving value without expecting anything in return, and then go out and practice it. Because it's with the practice that you're going to get to the point where you're detached from outcome, which is true masculine energy.

18:14 Correct. Yeah, it's the paradox is basically, you want to have the intention of getting something, or, okay, so there's, like, obviously, the giving part, where you basically feel like you're a full cup. You're a full cup. Yeah. You're giving from the overflow of positivity, good energy, and you're not trying to acquire anything from anyone. So, you're not, like, let's say there's a girl, a really beautiful girl, and, like, hey, how are you? And then she's, like, expected to, like, entertain you in a way. It's, like, in a very subtle way, right?

18:51 But when you go there and just, like, start shooting the shit, you don't really even care. And on one level, you don't even care if she responds. And if she responds well or bad, it doesn't even matter. Like, you know, at a very deep core, and this, again, comes with a lot of experience, but you're, like, really cool. And she's kind of almost, like, lucky to be talking to you. Yeah, yeah, totally, yeah. And then she can get pissed off. It just basically runs by you.

19:21 You're not getting affected emotionally by her emotions. And then she's kind of, like, whoa, this guy is actually cool because he can stand his ground. He can remain centered no matter what the external circumstances presents itself to be. And that actually creates massive attraction in a lot of girls when they're, like, bitchy to you. And this is, again, this is not 100% because I don't want to set an expectation, like, this is, like, the ultimate technique, right? But the point is that there's a way of being that maximizes the results in a way.

19:53 But then you're not supposed to do it for the results because once you do it for the results, then it becomes a technique and then it stops working. So that's the part of it, right? Because you're supposed to be detached from the results. So you're going there to entertain yourself, to have a great time, to be a man, to celebrate your masculinity, and then give, give, give, and then present your intention as a masculine guy. And then some girls will love it, some girls will hate it.

20:22 It doesn't really affect you on a deep identity level. And, yeah, and that's how you basically do it, by taking a lot of action and being really cool and positive and showing your intention. But then the intention is, girls are, here's the thing, because I think the toxic, coming back to the toxic masculinity aspect, then you're, yeah. Like, no matter what happens, you're being you. And let's say you're being rejected, but then that doesn't really matter. Like, you understand that this is not going to affect you in the long term anyway.

21:02 So you can continue to be you. And sometimes rejections can even actually empower you to be you even more. Because you're like, oh, I've endured this, I didn't die, so I can actually, now I'm free to do whatever I want. And that's the worst case scenario already happened. Like, this was as bad as it gets. And if that's the worst, I mean, my ancestors, like, were in wars, they died, you know, like, people were killed for millennia of existence of mankind. And there was some girl that's like, fuck you, I don't even know you, but I'm having a bad day, get out of here.

21:48 That's like the worst, right? I guess the worst of the worst would be the fight. But then, like, as you pick those social skills, you learn to diffuse those things really fast. Yeah, and continuing forward, what I always suggest to my clients is that for thousands of years, their fathers and grandfathers and great-grandfathers approached women. And for them to stop now because they're afraid is almost like a slap in the face of their… Ancestors and their grandparents and everybody else who had the balls to approach women.

22:26 That's the way we were designed. That's what masculinity is. Masculinity goes and gets. Masculinity puts out into the world from its own internal state. So to think that masculinity is toxic, okay, I understand, like, rapists and guys who put women down and perhaps even catcall them and stuff like that. But I just don't like the term toxic masculinity because it's implying that masculinity is the thing that is toxic. But that's not masculinity to catcall and to put women down. As a matter of fact, I would say it's probably femininity because it's an emotion.

23:04 It's a way to try to make other people feel bad and make yourself feel good, and it comes from ego. Masculinity, in its true essence, is not ego-bound. It's an accepting protector, provider energy. So when you have Gillette come out with this commercial, which, by the way, I'm almost glad that that commercial came out because it showed a lot of people just the problems that we are experiencing. And it's really called a lot of attention to this, you know, third-wave feminism. So I'm almost glad for that because of the backlash that it's experienced.

23:37 But a lot of the message in there is that, like, just like you said, there's a guy approaching a girl, and the other guy's like, not cool, dude. And then there's, like, two kids roughhousing in the park. And then the dad's like, hey, hey, we don't do this. It's like, what do we want boys to be? And can women be attracted to them? And this is scary for women, too, because, dude, women are seriously attracted to masculine men. It's that opposite energy polarity. The tighter it is, the further away both polarities are, masculinity and femininity, the tighter the string and the more palpable the sexual tension.

24:13 When you have guys who are very close to the feminine spectrum, there's no tension there. So women are like, dude, there's no frickin' men anymore because men are afraid to be men largely because of this, like, third-wave feminism movement. You know what I'm saying? It's a backlash. Yeah. Yeah, man. I actually was testing this whole idea. Like, you know, some girls I was dating, and I'm like, yo, a lot of girls just read you by just, on a basic moment-to-moment level, they read your level of masculinity by just looking at your body language, right?

24:49 Yeah. Like, you're not constantly, like, trying to be macho, but just as you're trying to be a natural person, just expressing yourself, we tend to have, like, more masculine mannerisms and the tone of voice that kind of goes down at the end. Right, right, right, yes. And I would intentionally change it to sound like a girl for, like, a little bit. So, like, hey, what are you doing, right? Like, you know, and, like, every girl here, like, at least in Indonesia and Thailand, was like, ew, oh, my God, I'm losing my feeling for you.

25:20 What's happening? Oh, no. I'm like, yeah, it's okay, babe. I'm just joking, you know? Like, yeah, I mean, they knew on one level that it's just a joke, but it had, like, an emotional impact on them that they were like, whoa, there's, like, something, like, very core missing right now. Yeah. Yeah. And that's a good point for guys who are listening. When you're speaking to a girl, you want to have a slight authoritative tone to your voice. And when I say authoritative, what I often like to do is pretend like I'm speaking to an 11-year-old girl.

25:55 Now, that can come off as very condescending if you do it incorrectly, but to me, it's very, very, very subtle. I just tone my intonation just slightly to communicate that I'm the authority, I'm the man, I'm the one controlling the frame. And she's just a little girl and not to worry because I'm going to take care of her. Masculinity is to protect women. Masculinity is to lead women to where they want to be led. Believe me, femininity has its place, too. Femininity is caring. It's creative.

26:29 It's loving. It's what heals us. There's so many different energies with femininity that are not only necessary, but in my opinion, they're beautiful and required. But as the man, she wants you to come up to her. She wants you to lead the conversation and take her into an emotional experience so she can get attracted to you. And I'll tell you what. Nowadays, I actually have women thank me when I approach them in the correct way, take them on this masculine-feminine journey, take the polarity and make it so strong tight that you could just flick it.

27:02 You know, it'll sound like a guitar string, like, you know, because there's so much sexual tension there. And women will actually be like, Mark, there are so many pussies that approach me every single night. Thank you for this experience. Please call me. And I'll be like, eh, maybe I will, maybe I won't, you know, whatever it is. But when you bring this masculine energy to women, when you really drum up that polarity, it's amazing what the results are. So in a way, too, it's good that this mass pussification is happening because, dude, it makes it easy for guys like us, like literally easy, because so many guys are just falling into the trap of being pussies.

27:41 Now, on the same note, that scares me because our world is becoming weaker, and specifically for the United States, I sometimes worry because we're becoming so weak. I wonder if we can defend ourselves. But that's kind of a side note for guys like you who are listening to this podcast. Dude, when you mask up your – when you ramp up your masculinity, the results are absolutely phenomenal. Absolutely, yeah. Yeah, so I guess another note, like a side note on this whole thing, there's a lot of like toxic behaviors that guys engage in other than the mindsets that are being sort of uploaded to the society's hive mind.

28:25 There's a lot of stuff that's really like actively destroying masculinity. You know, there's things like – things you eat sometimes, like drinking too much beer or not going to the gym or like not having some sort of masculine activity that pushes your comfort zone. Yes. Because we can talk concepts all day long, and obviously this is a great start, but then once you kind of internalize this, you're like, yo, I got to have something that keeps my masculine edge on point that is not necessarily related to women.

29:02 Right. But it's basically like a masculine activity. Like imagine you're a saw, and you need to basically every now and then make sure that the saw is sharp, and you keep sharpening the saw, like in the book, Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Right. So, and one thing that I feel is literally destroying the saw is masturbation, like excessive masturbation to porn, especially. It became so like accepted and normal, and like you can just talk about it. In a way, it's cool, because now it becomes like really open sexually as a society.

29:44 But on the other hand, when this becomes like a crutch, this really can destroy your motivation to even talk to girls or do something slightly uncomfortable, because it really promotes the mindset of just pleasuring yourself, and then like kind of tired, and you don't really feel like doing it. And I was there for years. Like, I know I'm speaking from experience. It's not that I watched a bunch of videos, and now I'm like all knowledgeable, is that I've been that guy for a long time. I didn't know what's going on with me.

30:19 I wish someone told me this earlier, and I wish I listened to him. But obviously, finally, I did get out of this self-induced porn fapping haze, and that was the very start. So this is where the reality started to like shape itself once I gave that smokescreen of sexual abundance, because that's what it sort of mimics it to be. And when you confront the real reality, it's obviously far from that. Yeah, and actually, I was just looking at your website. Again, it's menprovement.com, M-E-N-P-R-O-V-E, menprovement.com, menprovement.com.

31:09 And you have some really good articles about nofap is what it's called, not masturbating. And this was introduced to me by my partner, John. And man, the results have been amazing. You know, I've been way more sexual. I've had way more energy. My gym sessions have been a million times better. And, you know, I think it's a really powerful thing to practice, because it does definitely increase your masculinity. There's other strategies as well to increase your masculinity. And again, going back to John, he has a product called Seven Strategies to Develop Your Masculinity.

31:45 And you can grab that at masculinedevelopment.com. That book is absolutely amazing. It gives you seven really key ways to become more masculine and, in consequence, become much more attractive to women. I think that book is absolutely brilliant. And I think we need more products like that in today's world, and especially during this wave of, you know, male bathing and toxic masculinity and these Gillette commercials and shit. We really need content like this to fight the battle and to fight for men, because you men who are listening, like, we're fighting for you, man.

32:20 Like, we don't want you to become a little pussy who's basically feminized and can't be attractive to women. We need to hold masculinity, and we need to save it, and we need to honor it, and we need to know that it's necessary for the success of our society and for women to be attracted to us. Yeah, well, we need it for so many different reasons, right? I mean, the success of society being, like, the highest tier. Then you have the just success as a person. Then feeling good about yourself, because you could be living that lie.

32:55 Let's say you're, at your core, a masculine guy, and then you've been told that all those things that you're secretly like. Like, obviously, you like girls. I don't think that would be a secret, but let's say just taking masculine action with them or just being a man in their presence somehow becomes wrong. Then that obviously becomes a problem, because all your life, you live with those blinders on. It's just like a wasted sort of life. You know, when you die with your song in your heart playing and not really ever putting it out.

33:36 I like that, dude. I like that. Well, I think that's a great note for us to go ahead and wrap this up. And again, guys, I think the overall message is to, rather than run away from masculinity, rather than to buy into all this BS that the media and, you know, the super left liberals are telling us to, you know, feminize men. I think you should run into masculinity. It's going to improve your life. It's going to make you feel amazing. It's going to get you tons of girls, and it's going to get you success in life, because the man, the masculine energy is the one who goes out and conquers and builds businesses and, you know, gets girls and accomplishes riches and really helps society, man.

34:19 Like a real man is a protector. He's a sheepdog. He protects the sheep from the wolves. And that's what we want you guys to be. So, once again, Artur, why don't you tell him a little bit about your website and any coaching that you're doing and anything else you want our audience to know about you? Yeah, just, yeah. So, just to close that thread, basically, guys, if you're still on the sidelines, but obviously, if you're listening to this, you at least want to sneak peek on the other side of this culturally tabooed subject of masculinity.

34:55 Then, yeah, if you don't take it, this is a pivotal moment in history, and if you're not going to take action on that right now, guys like you, Mark, or me, we're going to fuck all your girls, and you're going to be crying in the corner and masturbating. So, it's about to do it. Yeah, just to put it in the cross terms, but that's basically what it is. Anyway, so about me, my name is Artur Kott, and I have a website called menprovement.com. It's like improvement for men, menprovement.

35:30 And, yeah, we have a lot of cool articles on dating, sex, improving yourself, becoming your best version, so to speak. And always, you know, being on the trajectory of never-ending sort of self-improvement and becoming more attractive as a guy, and then, you know, everything starts to fall into place. Once you embark on the journey, girls become more attracted to you. You're more in love with yourself as well. So, this is the philosophy that we promote. And, yeah, I personally currently am a coach as well in self-improvement and dating sphere.

36:08 So, if you go to my website, you are basically going to see everything you need to know about that if you're interested. Yeah, other than that, thanks a lot for having me, man. It was great. Yeah, hey, no worries, man. It was fun, and I'm glad you came on. I'm glad you made the time for this. I obviously really respect you, really respect what you do. I visit your website often, and I love your article. So, guys, I would definitely check him out. And if you do want coaching with me, you can find it at MarkSingCoaching, M-A-R-K-S-I-N-G, coaching.com.

36:40 And what's different about me is I use Neuro Linguistic Programming, that's NLP, to help you blast through some of your sticking points. And I use NLP processes to help guys become more attractive to women. And I also teach you some tactical stuff about what to do, how to approach, how to get numbers, texting, first date, all that good stuff. So, check that out. If you have any questions, my contact information is on there. And also, while you're at it, check out Masculinedevelopment.com. You're familiar with my partner, John, who isn't on this podcast, but he'll be obviously on future ones.

37:11 And we thank you guys for listening, and we will see you in the next episode. Bye-bye.

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