Did You Know That Girls WAY Overrate Their Hotness? Here's How to Respond…

0:00 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, you champions? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the Uniform Mike Papa. I really do appreciate you. And today, we are going to talk about how women significantly, significantly overestimate their hotness. We have chicks walking around thinking like they're God's gift to men, and we just have to stop this madness because a lot of us are perpetuating it.

0:40 A lot of us fall into what are called thirst traps. A lot of us are needy. We give the girl the frame. We give them way too much attention. And it's not only that, but it's also the dating apps. The dating apps are so ridiculously skewed in the favor of women that it makes women feel like walking goddesses. I mean, you have fat chicks, and I hate to be condescending towards fat chicks, but they're not attractive when they're fat. They think they're like God's gift to men.

1:03 And you're like, seriously, dude? You're not that hot. You think you're hot because you have all these dudes who are getting rejected by the hot chicks who are like, fuck it. I'll screw a fat chick at this point. I'm so horny. I'd fuck a snake if I could hold it straight, who are hitting you up, giving you this inflated sense of self that is completely and utterly unjustified. Now, I know a lot of you guys are nodding your heads right now because you are fucking with the dating apps, and you're like, dude, this is ridiculous, bro.

1:31 This is completely skewed in the favor of women. It's completely, seemingly against men, although a lot of you guys are kind of doing it incorrectly, and you can't get results with it. But because we have this phenomenon where women think they're much harder than they are, and I'm going to tell you about a little survey, a little personal survey that I did, we need to flip the tables on them. We need to become the prize. And that starts with you simply believing that you're the prize, believing that you're the hot chick, believing that you're the one who is accepting the application, not submitting it.

2:05 How many of you guys are in that mentality where it's like, chick, you're submitting the application? Now, here's the good news, boys, and this is really good news, and I want you to consider it. Most guys don't know what the hell they're doing when it comes to attracting women. So in my opinion, by you just clicking into a podcast like this one, you're already a hundred steps, a thousand steps, a million steps ahead of most guys who just go it alone, don't know what the hell they're doing, throw bait out there and hope somebody bites on it.

2:34 Meanwhile, they're like throwing it into a lake with no fish. That's the strategy of most dudes. And I know this is true because not only do I work with guys who have previously struggled with women, but I too have been that thirst trap seeker who would fall into every goddamn thirst trap pitfall there was placed before me. And I too was going after fat chicks because I'd fuck a snake if I could hold it straight. Like, it didn't matter. As long as it was a woman, I was going for her.

2:59 And that's why a lot of guys get put in the non-power position is because they're going after girls who are not even up to their levels, but also putting those girls who are on their level or above their level, which doesn't exist, by the way, on a pedestal. So we have all these factors contributing. But as I mentioned, the thing that you have an advantage, which is almost an advantage even above a hot girl, is that you're getting the knowledge. And in today's age, brothers, you have to get this knowledge.

3:26 You absolutely have to. If you want to be successful with women, you have to be the dude that's part of the 20%. Here's a stat you may not know. 20% of the guys get 80% of the women. I want to say that again because it's so important. 20% of the guys get 80% of the women. Who are those 20%? They're the guys who have frame and game. Frame, meaning frame control, obviously. I talk about it all the time. But also game, how to spit game, what to say, what to do, when to do it.

3:54 And all those things that make her attracted to you, most guys don't have that. So while, yes, a lot of girls overrate their hotness, I'm going to tell you how to deal with that in a second, how to kind of get them down to their realistic level. While that's happening, you have to understand that most dudes, 99%, I'd say, seriously, 99% of dudes don't know what the literal fuck they're doing. I have a lot of girlfriends and I talk to them all the time. And here's the analogy that they constantly use when it comes to dudes.

4:23 It's like going to a baseball game and all you want is some French fries. But you don't want any old French fries. You want the hot kind that are out of the fryer, salt on them, just delicious, fresh, tier one level French fries, right? We all know, dude. And I'll tell you what, if you go to fast food, I strongly suggest you simply ask them, hey, can I get some fresh French fries? I'll wait. Don't take the cold shit. Wait for it. Ask for it. Be a man and freaking ask for it.

4:49 And those fries are so much better. So woman goes to a ballpark. All she wants is some fresh French fries. So she looks around and there's French fries everywhere, but they're the cold, limp, soggy kind that you don't want to fuck with. So that's women's reality where there's dudes everywhere, but they're mostly dudes who don't have game. They definitely don't have frame. And it's the kind of guys that women don't want to mess with. So being it that that's their reality, even if they're overestimating their hotness, if you come with frame and game, you can yank those girls and you can yank those girls easily, particularly, and here's the whole point of this episode.

5:26 If you're unaffected by their hotness and you don't give them so much credit, if, and I always say this, you don't compliment them in the first conversation until they start complimenting you, you don't blow smoke up their ass, you don't kiss their ass, and you don't put the fucking pussy on a pedestal, as they say in the 40-year-old virgin, which is so true. Most guys go into conversations and blow smoke up her ass, tell her she's an angel that's come from heaven, compliment her looks, try to hang out with her, try to chase her, and that gets them blown out.

5:56 That's 99% of guys. Do you do that? I suspect if you're listening to this episode, which frankly isn't that clickable, so I believe that you came to this episode because you've listened to other material that I've put out there, you don't do that. And you shouldn't do that. So we have this phenomenon that women think they're hotter than they actually are, and it's perpetuated mostly by the dating apps and Instagram. So they get on Instagram, and they put a picture of their badonkadonk butt that looks like some ravine on Mars, and all these guys are like, oh, that's so beautiful because they want to get in with this chick, and the chick's ego is inflated to unrealistic levels.

6:34 So then she goes out, and she's out at the nightclubs, and she's like rejecting all these dudes that frankly are as good-looking as she is or even better out of her league, and she wonders why she can't get a good guy. Then she starts insulting men. Why? Because her ego is overinflated. She thinks she's way hotter than she is, and she thinks men can't cope with her hotness. She's fucking delusional. So the thing that you need to do is don't give them any credit whatsoever. Now, here's how I know that chicks overrate their hotness.

7:05 I have so many female friends, and for you, my brother, I have gone out over the last three, four, five months and just asked chicks, how hot do you think you are? Just during a conversation with them, I'll be like, what would you rate yourself on a score of one to 10? They always overrate themselves. Occasionally, you'll get some that underrate themselves, and frankly, those girls are usually insecure, and they have other underlying issues going on, but very rarely will I get a girl who's a seven who says she's a seven.

7:33 Seven say they're eights. Eight say they're nines. I've had a freaking six say she was a 10, and what did I say? I'm like, that's interesting, and she's like, why? And I say, because I'm doing a little experiment where I ask girls how hot they think they are to see if it's accurate, and she's like, well, do you think it's accurate? And I'm like, no comment. I'm not going to tell you what I think, but by saying that, she knows I don't agree with it, and that's the move.

7:55 So while speaking to them, if you feel like this chick thinks she's hotter than she actually is, that's the line that you should use. This is literally a gambit that I want you guys to steal from me. So, hey, I've been asking my girlfriends, and by the way, that's really attractive too, gentlemen, because you're showing you have pre-selection, you have girlfriends in your life. You say, hey, I've been asking all my girlfriends how attractive they think they are, because I'm doing a little thought experiment to see if it's accurate.

8:18 So how attractive do you think you are? And she's going to say, oh, I don't know. I give myself like an eight, and she's actually like a seven. You'd be like, huh, that's interesting. And she'll be like, why? What do you think I am? You'd be like, oh, don't worry about it. Who cares what I think? It doesn't matter. So you think you're an eight, and what do you feel most guys are that come up to you? And she'll be like, I don't know, like sixes and sevens, and you're going to start getting information out of her, and she's going to start wondering, well, what does he think of me?

8:45 When you get a woman into the what does he think of me mindset, who has the power now? You do. Who's controlling the frame now? You do. Who's the one that's the hot chick now? You are. You're the prize. You're the one who's accepting her application, and that's the frame we need to flip. So whenever I get that, like, I'm so hot, I'm untouchable, my shit don't stink, that's the question I ask them. And through that question, they realize that I'm actually the decider, and I'm one out of a hundred of dudes who actually has game.

9:17 Now she's supplicating to me. Now she wants to get my attention. She wants to get my approval. So when we go into interactions with women, guys, don't buy into their hotness. Even if they are a fucking 10, I don't want you giving them any credit whatsoever for being a quote-unquote 10. What is a 10? It's a girl who has looks and personality. So how can you deduce that by talking to her or seeing her for three seconds? We automatically see a hot girl and we're like, oh, she's a 10, bro.

9:47 I want to get her phone number. I want to date her. Really? You don't know the first thing about her. You don't know if she's a horrible person. You don't know if she has bad breath, stinky B.O. She freaking farts like a goddamn hippo, or she's a horrible kisser. You don't know anything about that. So don't give them so much credit. And if they're giving themselves credit, knock them down a little bit. Just be like, how hot do you think you are? Huh, that's interesting.

10:09 And that's all you say, huh, that's interesting. See what I did there? Like that generates so much curiosity. And now I'm not demeaning to women and saying that hot girls are less than us or ugly girls think that they're hot, so they're pieces of shit. I'm just saying that in today's society, it's so ridiculously skewed because of dating apps. Now, this is also part of the reason that I suggest you get good at cold approach. Dating apps suck. And I'm going to be the one pickup artist coach that admits that to you.

10:39 There are actually coaches out there that only do dating apps. I'm only going to teach you to get girls off the dating apps. Brothers, dating apps will get you minimal results with chicks who are fucking sea donkeys and mountain trolls for the most part. Occasionally, once in a blue moon, you'll get a girl who's actually high quality who, and this is rare, has the humility to know what she really is, 7, 8, 9, or 10. But most of the time, these chicks are whack jobs who completely overestimate their hotness.

11:07 Put a picture of their fucking floppy-ass National Geographic titty on Instagram and get tens of thousands of likes and think they're hot. It's like, come the fuck on. It's a thirst trap for dudes who are horny. And do not, under any circumstance, brothers, be the dude who likes pictures of chicks that are posted on Instagram. You are done liking that shit. You are done commenting like, oh, so beautiful. You're an angel. You are done doing shit like putting on your profile on Instagram, which I see all the time, and it fucking bums me out so much.

11:39 I'm single. I live alone. And I'm just looking for a good girl. Do not announce that you're fucking thirsty. Do not give these chicks credit where credit is not due. And do not, for the sake of God, underestimate yourself. Because, brother, you are listening to a podcast like this one. You are improving yourself. You're trying to get to that next level. And for those guys who come into my program, those dudes can't even be touched by other dudes. And that's what I tell guys all the time.

12:05 I'm like, look, you making the commitment to join a program like this one, a dating program, to improve your success with women, that alone should give you the confidence to know that you're above all those other dudes that you used to fear. You're above those chicks who overestimate their hotness when most of them haven't worked on themselves. Most of them aren't investing in themselves the way you guys are. Even just you listening to this podcast, how many chicks out there are listening to like a podcast to better themselves?

12:32 NLP or cognitive behavioral therapy to get themselves to the next level. How many chicks are like slaving it out in the gym to try to get the best body they can, trying to be an entrepreneur and get to that highest level in their career? Very, very, very few. So chicks overestimate their hotness. And this is information that's important for you to know. Not only because you know that she thinks she's hotter than she actually is, but that you need to flip the tables on her and show her that you are the prize.

13:03 This is you, in my opinion. And I swear to God, this is how I think of you. You are like the hottest fucking chick on an island of goddamn lepers. On an island of lepers. And what I mean is this, is that you're like this super radically hot chick because you're working on yourself and you're trying to improve yourself. And for that, I respect you. And you're walking among a bunch of people who are like all fucked up and ugly. And I'm not like trying to hate on lepers.

13:30 It's just an analogy. Everybody be calm. But who are like all fucked up. And you're sitting there thinking that you're one of them. That's the way I think of you, brother. Yes, you listening. Yes, you listening. I need to reiterate you, not the other guy, not the hundreds of thousands of other dudes who are listening to this. You are a fucking hot chick that you don't even know how hot you are because you're working on yourself. You're listening to this. You're trying to improve yourself. You're learning game.

13:57 You, who have come into my program, you guys are like goddesses that come down from heaven who are like, oh, I wonder if I'm worth it enough for this girl who was born pretty. She was born pretty. And even those that weren't born pretty think they're pretty. There's like this mass delusional hypnosis going on perpetuated by Instagram, Facebook, and the dating apps that has all these chicks thinking they're hot when they're not. They just aren't. And the second you don't buy into it, they stop feeling like they're hot.

14:27 They stop feeling like they're the hot shit because they know subconsciously what they really are. They get all this attention from dudes who are basically thirsty and who are beta cucks. Then when an alpha like you comes along who doesn't buy into that bullshit, it immediately goes out the window. Besides, how powerful is a belief system that's based on external validation? I want to say that again because it's so important. How powerful is a belief system that's based on external validation? What other people say? It's not.

14:56 It's weak. It's a house of cards. And it'll crumble immediately. So by knowing that chicks think they're hotter than they actually are, and by knowing that you are rare and you are an alpha silverback because you're trying to work on yourself, I want you to know that the whole thing is smoke and mirrors. And you're actually the one with the advantage. You're actually the hot chick. She's the one who's pying after you. And you have to walk into every nightclub, Walmart, supermarket, gas station, party, or wherever the hell you're going, knowing that you are the hot chick, or I should say the hot guy.

15:30 I say hot chick because it's like a good analogy to get you to think that way, but you're the hot dude. You're that smoking hot alpha fucking champion that every girl wants to be with. And in a way, I want you to be as delusional about that. And when I say delusional, I use air quotes as women are about their looks. Because with you, the more you tell yourself internally, not relying on outside feedback like women do, but the more you tell yourself internally that you are attractive, you're the hottest guy in the United States, whatever it is you want to say to yourself, the more it becomes real.

16:05 Because the way you think inside your head is the way women are going to think about you too. And that is a major secret, a major secret. Here's the disadvantage that women have. They're born with how they look, okay? They come into the world. Yeah, they get some advantages because of the dating apps, but every year their looks are going down and down and down. Here's the advantage of being a man. When you tell yourself something enough times, you begin to believe it. When you believe it, you begin to behave that way.

16:34 And when you behave that way, everybody else accepts it as well. So whatever you continue to tell yourself, like I'm the sexiest man in Colorado, like my buddy Paul Bauer always says to himself, once you say that enough times, you begin to believe it. Once you internally believe it, then you act that way and women become attracted to you and their hotness, which is stacked on a house of cards, so feeble, so insecure, so precarious that you just go and you blow it over. And you say, how hot do you think you are?

17:05 She's like a nine. You'd be like, huh, that's interesting. So anyway, where'd you guys come from tonight? Wait, wait, wait. What do you mean? That's interesting. Ah, don't worry about it. Just doing a little experiment, asking my friends how hot they think they are. And it's been really interesting, the results. Well, what are the results? Honestly, do you want to know? Yeah, I really want to know. You're not going to get butthurt, are you? You're like secure within yourself, right? Yeah, I am. Well, most girls severely overestimate how hot they are.

17:31 They do? What do you think I am? Like I said, Kelly, it doesn't matter what I think I am. You think you're a nine, so be a nine. Yeah, but now you're in the power position. So don't buy into it, boys. That's the big lesson of this. And buy into instead what you think of yourself. Tell yourself over and over again these five ironclad words. I am a girl magnet. Say that over and over again. You'll begin to believe it. You'll begin to behave that way.

17:59 And now you truly are that hot chick, or I should say that alpha male that every chick wants. Gentlemen, as I talked about in my previous episode, I now have financing for my coaching program. It was insane. When I said that on my last podcast episode, I got more coaching applications in one day than I ever have during the entire history of my business. So I'm glad that I went out, made these deals with the banks. I negotiated with them. And by the way, at great expense to myself, I have to pay a pretty hefty monthly fee to maintain this.

18:31 But it's so that you can come into the program, which of course is several thousand dollars to work with me and only pay 100 to 200, maybe 300, depending on which package you want to go, bucks a month to pay it off until it's paid off. So I said that in my last episode. I'm like, dude, I got financing now, bro. Like the money excuse has now been removed because anybody can come into the program, provided you're employed. That's really important. And we do a soft pull on your credit.

18:59 It literally takes two minutes. Your credit is not affected in any way whatsoever. Then we get to see if you can get a financing option, which is they pay off the whole program for you and you just pay it back at like 150 bucks a month. Can you do that? I think for most guys, you probably can, especially if you're employed. You can come into the program now. So I said that in my last episode and I get, dude, all these applications. I was like, hell yeah, dude.

19:23 I'm glad I found this because my purpose here is to help guys. I've been begging you guys to come work with me for years and certain guys haven't because of money. They're just like, dude, I want to, but I can't afford it. Now you can. I have created this financing option for you where banks compete for your business, giving you the lowest possible interest rate. They loan you the money up front. You come into the program, you start yanking girls. You got to get the bulk pack of condoms because it's like too many chicks and you just pay it off at a couple hundred bucks per month until you're done.

19:54 I think it's pretty fucking awesome. So if you want to work with me, if you want to talk to me, there's no obligation. Come and apply. If you want to go with the financing option, we'll talk about it. We'll apply for it together. It literally takes two minutes. It's a soft pull. So it doesn't affect your credit. We'll see what you could get. It's like, they have different like packages. It's like, you can get this much. You pay it off over this many months. Or some guys, dude, they take out like hella money because they get offered a ton of money.

20:20 I don't really suggest that, but you can. And then use a part of it to pay off the coaching program. And then, I don't know, go get a BMW or some shit. I don't recommend that though. But honestly, if I were in your shoes where I didn't have a lot of money, and I actually did this, the first coach I ever hired, I put it on a credit card. And it was a ridiculously high interest rate, way worse than what I'm offering you here. I have gone to bad for you guys because I want to get as many of you into this program as possible.

20:46 I am here to change lives and prove to you, bro, that you're the hot chick. You're the fucking alpha. Not these chicks who way overestimate their hotness. No, no, no, no. That's not how it works with the unapologetic man army. So, if you want to meet with us, discuss it. There's no obligation. There's no commitment necessary. We just talk to see if you're a good fit for us. And most importantly, if we're a good fit for you. And if it works out, got the financing option.

21:09 So, the money issue has now been removed. I'm so fucking pumped about this. I've got so many applicants, so many champions I'm now meeting and talking to. That's why I'm here, man. And I'm really excited to share this with you, boys. So, gentlemen, I do appreciate you listening. I draw podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays. So, please make sure to stay tuned for the next one. And I will see you in the next episode. So, we'll see you in the next episode.

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