How Does Mark's NLP Dating Coaching Work?

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you. If you clicked on this link, then you're probably curious, as to a lot of guys are curious, as to what my dating coaching entails. I get emails every day asking me, so how does it work? What is the coaching session like? And I just want to take a quick few minutes to explain to you guys exactly what you can expect if you do choose to hire me to do some one-on-one coaching.

0:45 So first and foremost, I am a dating coach, obviously, which means that I help you become more attractive to women. But what I do, which is unique among dating coaches, is I use NLP. Now, NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming, and the basic premise is that we all have programs running in our brains, many of which are outdated programs given to us before we could defend ourselves. So when we were kids, we were often given these programs that aren't conducive to attracting women. And sometimes they're negative programs, such as I'm not enough, I'm not attracted to women, you shouldn't approach people, you shouldn't talk to strangers, sex is wrong.

1:24 All these kinds of programs that were basically given to you before you could defend yourself. So what NLP does is it goes in and it removes those programs via visualization, guided meditation, embedded commands, all these techniques that we use to basically go in there and remove these programs. So the way it works is this. If you're interested in doing coaching with me, and I'm going to keep this podcast very short because I know you guys just want the answer, move on with your life. If you're interested, cool.

1:54 If not, listen, no hard feelings whatsoever. I do have a 10 week waiting list. So it's like, I'm not that thirsty for clients, but since so many of you guys ask, I just want to point them to this episode and be like, yo, listen to this. This is going to explain everything. So the way it works is first you sign up and then I'm going to send you a questionnaire. And in that questionnaire, we're going to go through some of your challenges, what your self-esteem is like, some traumas you've had in your past, what kind of belief systems you think might be holding you back, or maybe you don't know.

2:23 If you feel like you have one foot on the gas, one foot on the brake, maybe there's some issues with masculinity and femininity. There's probably some limiting belief systems and programming that I basically ask you about and figure out. Now, if you don't know all that, that's fine. You just go through the questions the best you can. And then once I get those, we set up the call. Now, as I said right now at the recording of this podcast, I am out to a 10 week waiting list.

2:50 But as some of you know, if you are a listener of the UMP, I'm going to ask you that. I'm going to be like, yo, where did you find my services? If you say I found you on the podcast, then I'm going to bump you up as much as I can in the waiting list. I do save several spots each week. For guys who come to me from the UMP, I get other clients from other advertising avenues. So if you came for me to this podcast, it's not going to be a 10 week waiting list.

3:15 Right now, I think I'm at about two weeks or sometimes I can get you in even sooner than that. Kind of depends on your schedule too. Okay. So go through the questions. I hit you back, let you know what my availability is. Then we meet. Okay. When we meet, we do it via Zoom call. Now it isn't face to face. You're not going to see me. I'm not going to see you, but we are going to record it so that you have a recording of your session.

3:41 Now the session lasts anywhere from an hour of 15 minutes to an hour and a half. And what we do initially is I really get you to see why you're doing this. In a previous podcast, I explored your purpose. Why? When you have a deep-seated why, you're going to have motivation to persevere through any adversity no matter what comes up. So the beginning of the call, we just talk with each other. We get to know each other. And I try to show to your subconscious mind that getting good with women, fixing your life, becoming the best man you can be, becoming that true essence of yourself, the way you were born before other people fucked up your self-esteem, that's going to be your deep-seated purpose.

4:23 And I help you realize that by asking you a very intentional set of questions. Once we get that established, then we've got the motivation in place to help you persevere through whatever calamities you're going to run into after the call. Then what I do is I explore with you what the biggest limiting belief system is or the biggest program is or the biggest trauma is that's holding you back. And I have a very systematic way I do this to really get down to the nitty-gritty to find the biggest one.

4:56 And I often liken it to a tree in the forest. When there's a big tree in the forest and you pull that fucker out, which is essentially what we do with NLP, we erase it, then other trees come out with it. So if you have a belief, let's say, for example, I'm not enough for an attractive woman, when we pull that out, other issues come out as well. Maybe I'm not enough to make enough money. I'm not worth it enough to be happy. Things like that.

5:22 Those will come out with it. Now, you may be wondering, okay, so how does this work? Like, does everybody have success with this? Does everybody get their belief system removed? I can tell you unequivocally, without any BS whatsoever, that yes, every single client I've ever worked with, and I swear to God, I swear on my father's grave, this is true. Every client I've ever worked with cannot feel what they felt before they came on the phone with me. This stuff really works. I can go on and on about stories.

5:52 And I actually just want to read you a quick testimonial. I didn't even ask for it, but this client literally just emailed me today with this testimonial. And I was like, oh, this is perfect. I want to read this on this podcast. Hey, brother, all I can say about our session is wow, just wow. I felt like a new, but really who I've always known myself to be man today. I've been smiling more than I can ever remember. I treated myself out to sushi and just felt so amazing and confident without worrying about the outcome.

6:22 Just enjoying myself, my dear friends, and my life. All that from one session. I'm so excited to meet the new me as I continue to work on myself. All I can say humbly is thank you. Now, that was a pretty extraordinary experience that he had, but that's a testament to how effective the NLP is. And listen, it's not me. It's just NLP. Like, I really give credit to NLP. Yeah, I give a lot of good information about dating and stuff like that, but the NLP, I really give credit to when it comes to being able to remove these belief systems.

6:56 And a lot of you guys, you just don't feel like yourself. You feel like some incongruent part of your past self or like a shell of who you're really supposed to be. And you just want to get back to freaking feeling like yourself. Believe me, I know exactly what that feels like. And when you remove these bullshit programs that aren't even yours, they were given to yourself before you could defend yourself. When you remove them, you step back into who you were truly supposed to be, who you were tuned to be.

7:23 Like, a carburetor is tuned to take a certain amount of fuel and water and air. Water? I don't know. Water goes into a carburetor, but you know what I mean. A carburetor is tuned a certain way. Like, you're just off. You're getting too much gasoline or too much air or too much water going on my previous mistake, and you're not operating effectively. So what we do is we locate what it is that you're struggling with, we remove that fucker, and then we replace it. So with my client today who I worked with, his belief was I'm not enough.

7:54 We replace that with I am enough. And of course, he's going to be smiling and feeling amazing and going out on cloud nine because for years and years and years of his life, he felt like he wasn't enough. And now we tell him, no, bro, you are enough. And it's literally replacing it as if you're replacing a computer program. Boom, delete that program. Boom, install a new one. Now you're operating with that new program that's completely unfamiliar to you. But yet, it feels completely right. Of course, you're going to be smiling.

8:23 Of course, you're going to be on cloud nine. And that happens literally to every single client. I ask them first before we go through a session, I want you to feel it in your body. Where do you feel this shitty feeling? Like, if you feel I'm not enough and you say that to yourself, you're going to have an associated feeling, a sentient feeling in your body, a tightness in your chest, maybe a feeling in your stomach, or a spinning feeling in your head. And then we go through the process.

8:48 We remove that belief system. And then I say, try to feel that now. Not only can they not feel it, but they can't believe what they used to believe. It's empty. There's space there. Then what we do is we go through and we replace it. Okay. So, that's how it works. Now, you may be wondering, well, how do you do it? It's basically a guided meditation. First, I have you relax. And I don't, like, hypnotize you or anything. But it'll just get you in a relaxed state.

9:12 Don't worry. I'm not going to make you squawk like a chicken. Get you in a relaxed state. And then I guide you through a visualization. Okay. I want you to float out of your body. Now, I want you to float up about 800 feet and look down. I want you to see this. Okay. Now that you see that, what we're going to do is we're going to have you float back to the first time you got this belief. It works like that. And then I take them through the whole process of removing the belief system.

9:34 It's really beautiful. It feels really good. It takes like 10 minutes for one belief system. And then we replace it, which takes another 10, 15 minutes. Boom. Done. And they get off the phone feeling like a new man. So, that's essentially how it works. You order. And you can order, by the way, at marksingcoaching.com. And if you're still not into it, that's fine. Like, I'm not trying to close you on anything. I'm just explaining it. But if you want to read some of my testimonials, you can read a lot of them that are there on that website.

10:05 I think there's 29 of them right now. And I still have about six that I have to put up. I haven't put up in a while. So, I'll put those up soon. But you can read about the testimonials, people's experiences. So, you sign up. It is $95 for a session. And once again, a session lasts anywhere from an hour to an hour and a half. And then you get to remove one of those big belief systems. And a lot of times, for a lot of guys, it just takes one.

10:31 And that's why on my sales page, I'm like, listen, you could be one step away from being that quote-unquote girl magnet. And it's just one freaking belief system, that one thing that keeps preventing you from approaching the girl, the one thing that makes you feel like you're enough, the one thing that makes you attractive to women. Because, again, women are little radar systems. They can see what's going on inside you that's reflected in your body language, your tonality, how you hold yourself, how you talk to them.

11:00 They can see exactly what your self-worth is, the way you talk to them. So, when you up your self-worth with NLP, which I think is the closest thing to a magic fix there is. There is no magic fix. But this is the closest thing, in my opinion. When you up your self-worth, they sense that and everything changes. And, I mean, just check out my testimonials on there. There's guys who got blowjobs literally the next day after they did the NLP session. Guys are getting dates, losing their virginity.

11:29 All matter of shit is happening. That's why I love it. Because, to me, again, it's like the closest thing to a magic fix. There is no magic fix. So, everybody calm down. But, in my opinion, it's the closest thing. And I'll tell you what. It has worked wonders for me. Because I, too, have an NLP coach. I still do NLP on myself. I believe in it. I 100% believe in it. So, I do it to myself. And that's why I've been able to ascend from the depths that I was in.

11:56 You know, you guys may know about me. I was suicidal, agoraphobic, panic attacks. Couldn't look at a girl. Let alone go talk to one. Getting to the point where I have a podcast like this one now. I have champions like you listening to me and taking heed to what I'm saying. I have a line of girls who I could get anytime I want. And I'm not bragging. I'm just showing the power of working on yourself. The power of investing in yourself. For me, I invested all my money into coaching until I was making 100K plus.

12:26 I had a very wise mentor tell me to do that. Until you're making 100,000, don't invest in real estate. Don't invest in stocks. Invest in you because you're the mechanism that dictates the results of your life. And by the way, if you have a belief system that's holding you back with women, I'm going to say this. It's probably also holding you back with money. So, if you're like, fuck, dude, 95 bucks for one session? Yeah. Yeah. And honestly, that's a drop in the bucket, bro. I've spent 1,000 for a one-hour session with some coaches because it's worth it.

12:56 It completely changed my life. Personally, I think I'm worth 1,000 an hour, but I want to be somewhat affordable. For you guys, because I mean, dude, being able to change yourself that quickly, to me, is worth 1,000 bucks. And you don't need to think about the time. It's like, oh, 100 an hour. It's not the time. It's the result that you get. Who cares if it takes an hour or if it takes 10 hours? It's better if it only takes an hour because you get that massive result with other modalities that would take 10, 20, 30, 40 hours.

13:29 So, you know, I personally feel 100 is worth it. But listen, it's up to you. If you want to get coaching with me, once again, go to marksingcoaching.com. Check it out. If you're on the fence, hey, stay on the fence. Because honestly, if you don't trust me, like I had a dude write me and he's probably listening. He's like, hey, you know, I just really don't feel like I trust you. I don't know you. What's your credentials? And I was like, bro, don't hire me. Do not hire me.

13:53 I don't want to work with you. Why? Not a slight against you. I get it. Like, hey, you don't trust me. I feel you. It's fine. But I don't want to work with you because your trust in me is a big part of the process. You need to trust in me and let go and let me take you through this. So if you're listening right now and you're like, ah, I don't really trust this guy. It sounds like snake oil to me. Don't hire me. Seriously, do not hire me.

14:16 But if you're feeling this, if you're like, wow, I see the testimonials. You know, I believe in Mark. I feel he genuinely wants to help me, which I do. That's the thing about me is I fucking genuinely want to help you guys. Like I get choked up sometimes. I want to help you so badly. And you're feeling that, take the plunge, man. You'll be glad you did. And if it doesn't work for you, I'll tell you, you will be the first time in years, in all the years I've been doing this, that it hasn't worked for somebody.

14:43 But your trust in me is important. So I want you to feel it 100%. I want you to feel congruent with it. I want you to feel good about it. Don't just do it because you feel like I'm pushing you into it, which I'm definitely not. But if you feel congruent with it, take the plunge, brother. Pull the trigger. I guarantee you it's worth it. Every guy who gets off the phone with me, you know, hence my testimonials, they're fucking stoked. They're on cloud nine. They're feeling like a new man.

15:08 And the day they do it is the start of their new life. So one last thing, you know, you guys are probably wondering about ongoing coaching. Yes, I do have options for that. And yes, I do work with guys for more than just one session when they fit. So it's really important to me that I jive with the guy that I feel like he's a good fit, that I feel like he's going to get the success that I want to guarantee him. Like, I want to guarantee you, you're going to get these results.

15:37 Unless I feel that fit, then I don't offer it. So I'm not going to talk about it on this episode because I want to meet you first before I offer it. It's like I'm not going to show a girl my dick on the first date. She has to, I first have to meet her, see if we're a good fit, and then we go there. So if you've listened this far, though, you know, I have a feeling you may be a good fit because you're obviously very interested.

15:59 You're very curious. And that's a big part of what I look for is just the enthusiasm to fix yourself. That's really it. I'm not looking for somebody who has an awesome personality and we bro out like two best friends. I'm looking for intention. I'm looking for commitment. I'm looking for a guy who's like, I'm fucking sick of this. And I want to get this done, a growth mindset that I can grow into the very best version of myself. Nothing's going to stop me. My calamities of the past aren't going to hinder me.

16:26 I'm going to get through this. That's the kind of client that I want. So if you're interested, go ahead and sign up for a session. Just remember to tell me you're from the UMP when I do send you the questions. I do take weekends off. So if you order on the weekends, I won't be replying until probably Sunday night or even Monday. So don't think I fell off the map. I have seen your order and as soon as I send you that email, I'm usually pretty damn quick about getting back to you, getting you set up.

16:52 I like to take action. I'm a go-getter. I like to get shit done. So when you order, we're going to get you on the schedule super fast, get you in the door as soon as possible and get those bullshit programs inside your head removed and replaced with ones that are conducive to success, to attracting women, and most importantly, to being a happy, unapologetic man. All right, guys. Thank you so much for listening. If you have further questions about this, feel free to hit me up at coachmarksingh at gmail.com.

17:20 Otherwise, I look forward to meeting you guys who do want to pull the trigger on this. Can't wait to work with you. Can't wait to show you the magic of NLP. Boy, it has changed my life for the better. I just believe in it so much and I genuinely want to help you if you want to help yourself. All right, boys. Thanks for listening. I have an awesome one coming on Friday, so please tune back in, and I will see you in the next episode.

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