How to Make a Woman Cum With Nothing But Penetration With Susan Bratton

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP today. I have an absolutely spectacular guest for you guys. Her name is Susan Bratton. She's an intimacy expert to millions, basically a sexpert, and she's going to kick some awesome advice for you guys. I told her before the call, I was like, listen, I really want to give my boys some tangible, real-life things they can use.

0:39 I don't like the theory kind of stuff, although theory is good sometimes, and she really delivered. She actually is going to deliver to you guys an awesome sex technique to make a girl orgasm just by sex. She says that every single girl can orgasm with just penetration. You don't even need to technically stimulate her clitoris, such as with the vibrator or anything else like that. You can do it just with penetration, and she's going to give you the method how. Now, guys, this is a long interview.

1:05 We talk about a bunch of different stuff, really valuable stuff, but I want you to stick with it until the end because that's when she reveals that sexual technique. I'm going to drop some links in the description below as well that will lead you to any of the things that we talk about. I'm also being featured on this thing called the Men's Optimization Summit, which is where I met Susan. I was interviewed on that thing, and it's an absolutely phenomenal presentation to better your lives, to add further to your self-development because you're clearly into that kind of stuff.

1:36 So I've got a lot of really good content for you here. So let's go ahead and jump right into it. So gentlemen, as I introduced, we have Susan Bratton with us. How are you today, Susan? Hi, honey. I'm good. It's great to talk to you again. Thanks for being on my Men's Summit. I was glad to be introduced to you. I really felt like you did such a good job, and it's going to help so many men. So thank you. And it's good to be on your show.

2:00 I'm glad we're continuing to connect. Yeah, me too. I was actually introduced to you by Marnie. A lot of you guys are familiar with Marnie. And I went on to the Men's Summit. So let's tell the boys first what the Men's Summit is. I want them to be able to benefit from it. I love giving just tons of content and useful information in this podcast. So let's show the boys how they can benefit from that. Yeah, that sounds great. Well, I interviewed over 30 different people for this Men's Optimization Summit, you being one of them.

2:28 And it's a free summit. It's coming out. It'll probably be out by the time this podcast is out. I'm going to give you the link right now, just so you have it. It's gainswave.com slash men's dash optimization dash summit. It's really simple. Men's Optimization. And it's actually hosted by a company that I am a spokesperson for. I went to them and said, like three or four years ago, Gainswave, I called on them. I flew to Florida with my husband, who's my business partner. And I said to Mark White, the CEO, I am really impressed with Gainswave treatments for penile atrophy, penis enlargement, basically just kind of reversing aging of the penis and reversing erectile dysfunction and Peyronie's and all these kinds of things.

3:15 Because as a sexpert, as someone who helps people with their sex life, I teach passionate lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills. But men, people, not just my men, but my women too, they need help with their genital systems. Stuff goes wrong. I mean, like literally today in my inbox, I have a picture of this guy's balls and he has these almost like varicose veins on them. And he was like, what do you think this is? And I said, I have literally never seen that before, but I'm not a urologist.

3:45 And I sent it to Dr. Judson Brandeis, who is the board certified urologist on the Gainswave summit, on the men's summit. And I'm waiting to hear back what that crazy thing on his balls is. And I have to know a lot about penises. And I'm happy to do it because I love penises. And guys, trust me, because they can, you know, I'm talking to them about a super intimate part of their lives, their sex lives. And I talk a lot about penis stuff. And so they're constantly emailing me and asking me things.

4:18 And when I found out about Gainswave, I was like, this is a treatment that actually works, is really good, is super healthy. It's called a sexual regenerative treatment. And actually what it does is it stimulates new tissue growth in the penis by applying acoustic waves to the tissue. Yesterday, I went to Temecula. I'm down here in my San Diego house. And I went to Temecula and I got a Femiwave treatment, which is basically the same thing they do with Gainswave to the penis. Because at 61, I want to keep my vulval tissue really plump and juicy and good.

4:59 And these treatments are called regenerative treatments. And so they were like, yeah, we would like you to talk about our stuff. And I've done so many great projects with them. With Gainswave, the Men's Optimization Summit was what I did with them this year that was super fun. And I interviewed a wide variety of people. And I wanted to tell you some of the things that we covered because I think they're very like next generation, a lot of the stuff we covered. We covered things like bodybuilding and mindset and the benefits of muscle tissue being like an organ of anti-aging and longevity, like an organ of your immune system.

5:37 Your muscle system is part of your immune organ system. And so we had a lot. We had like Andrew and Nasima from Mark Bell's Power Project. We had the guy who invented the P90X. What the heck is his name? I stayed out till like over midnight. Oh, Tony Horton. I stayed out till over midnight last night because I went to an internet party. And I haven't been... It's like 2022 and we're finally going back to having parties and stuff. And I was having such a good time.

6:10 I stayed till they turned on the lights and sent us home. Good for you. So I talked to Tony Horton. Drew Manning. Have you ever heard of him? No, but I have heard of Cody Rembrandt. And I was pretty pumped when I saw he was on there. Drew Manning is a guy who was a trainer. And when he was 30, he gained like 75 pounds because he couldn't understand why his clients would stay fat after working out with him for years. He was like, there's never really got that better.

6:39 And he said, I gained 75 pounds to see what they were going through. And he was like, Jesus, I had no idea how horrible it was when you have excess weight, how hard it is to get rid of it. And he was a super great guy. I talked to Dr. Mark Burhenney. He's a functional dentist. And basically, and I agree with him, I swear to God, he said, all the stuff that's in your medicine cabinet that you're using, like the floss you're using, the toothpaste you're using, the mouthwash you're using, and the toothbrush you're using are crap.

7:12 And you might as well throw them all away. And this is what you need instead. And luckily, I agreed with him and I was already doing all that. But I talked to Bill Davis. Dr. William Davis is such an amazing guy. He has a new book out called Super Gut. And it's basically about how to fix your gut if you're like farting all the time or you have constipation or restless legs or acid reflux or whatever, which most people running around have one of those things.

7:37 And he was really interesting about talking about basically remodeling your microbiome. I talked to a lot of people about testosterone optimization, how to get the numbers, what tests to get, you know, all of those kinds of things. There was tons of testosterone. We talked about stem cells and exosomes and all this regenerative stuff. We talked about the prostate with a number of people and like basically not waiting until you have problems, but making sure that you're doing the things you need to do to take care of your prostate.

8:19 And we talked about P-spot orgasms. We talked about prostate orgasms. That's one of the orgasms that men are really interested in having now are those kind of P-spot experiences. I talked about hair preservation and restoration with Dr. Alan Baumann. He was really good. Like if you're starting to lose your hair, what should you do? What are your options and how much do they cost? And that one is a good one. And I talked to a lot of sexperts because I'm a sexpert and I wanted to have a lot of people on the event who were going to talk about sexuality.

8:47 I talked to Adam Armstrong. He's a master sex coach about optimizing male sexual performance. I talked about to Jim Benson. He's a men's Tantra teacher. And he talked a lot about how to get in alignment and presence with your woman during love making to really get her super turned on. Oh, we talked about penis enlargement back to the penis. We talked about penis pumping, of course. There couldn't be a summit with Susan Bratton without penis pumping on it. We talked about that. And Kevin Iode, who you introduced me to, we talked about owning your emotions, which I really thought that was very powerful.

9:24 So thank you for that introduction. You're welcome. Yeah. He was good because he nets things down in a really simple way without a lot of woo-woo talk, which I appreciated. Oh, and I talked to Nick Bitts about nootropics, brain vitamins, basically, like cognitive function supplements. And that was very good. He's the naturopath who helps with the formulations over at Qualia. Do you know that brand? Q-U-A-L-I-A? Yeah, I do actually. Yeah. I really like their products. I take that Qualia mind and it helps so much for me because I had long haul COVID and I still have a lot of like tailing, cognitive, I get mentally fatigued.

10:14 And I actually think a lot of people get mentally fatigued. You know, it's very stressful in the world today. We take in a lot of information. We do a lot of stuff. We push ourselves very hard. And I really liked getting into how nootropics work. Like what are they actually doing to our brain? So there are more, there were more, there were 30 people, but that was just like a highlight of a lot of the different stuff that we covered, which I felt was very wide ranging.

10:36 And a guy could go through and watch or listen to those videos and think to himself, okay, number one, I just got a big mind shift. I've just got a big reframe. I feel better about this thing now. I've got a better perspective on it. I feel like there'd be mind shifts. I feel like there'd be like two or three health things that were explained in a way that a guy could take more control of his health. And I thought there were a lot of like penis power types of things because it was a Gainesway webinar or summit.

11:11 And most people don't talk about the dick. You know, it's like, I don't know why, but people are just, I don't know, dick shy. So there was a lot of that, which was good. And generally, I just really found it a joy to speak to so many experts on behalf of men, because there's a ton of summits out there for women, but there are not a ton of summits out there for men. And men deserve to me an equal amount of consideration, thought, support, guidance, insight, as women do.

11:40 So I loved it. And I'm glad you were there. And I thank you again. I appreciate it. I appreciate it. So what I'm going to do, guys, is I'm actually leaving a link in the description below to check it out now. Susan, tell us, how much is it? It's $10,000. Is that right? Yeah, you're so cute. Yeah, you get a special link. So we'll know you sent your guys to us. So if you're listening to this, it's always good to give Mark's link a click because it just shows that he was helping bring people to the opportunity.

12:07 Yeah, it's $10,000. No, it's free. It's just free. It's free because Gainsaway wants to give back to the men's community. They want to be a brand that isn't just about promoting their own treatment through their doctor network, but that they actually care about people and they frigging do. They care about every customer. That's one of the reasons I'm really happy to be associated with them is they go out of their way to do whatever they need to do to help every single person. So I love them for that.

12:37 They're good people. Very good stuff. Well, I appreciate you sharing. And boys, once again, link is in the description below. It's free 99 down from $10,000. And I'm on there too. Susan and I had a great conversation, gave a lot of tips about obviously dating and confidence and masculinity. So that was a great talk. And today, Susan, I would love for you to share some of your wisdom with my guys about relationships and some of the things that we can benefit from your huge scope of knowledge. You've been in this a long time.

13:11 I was just on your website. I mean, you've been interviewed by basically everybody. You're even introduced by the dude who does the UFC introductions. I know. Isn't that cute? Yeah, that was cool. Susan, intimacy expert to millions, brother! I know. Isn't that so funny? I always want to leave the boys with tons of value. And I know you have it. So we're going to speak today about five things we can teach the guys that maybe I've never even brought up. That can help them in their own intimacy, their own dating life to become more attractive to women.

13:44 So I'd love to hear about those things now. Yeah, sure. Well, I guess I want to know where in the arc of the relationship journey you'd like me to focus. Because there's a big difference between the first time that you're with a woman or how you can even get a woman into the bedroom versus when she's there for the first time or the fifth time or the sixth month in. So where on that arc would you like my help? Another thing I could do is I could talk to you about just kind of how women are different than you as a man, things that might not occur to you that you'd be like, oh, okay, that's why she's doing those weird things.

14:31 Yeah. Yeah. Let's do that. I like that. What the hell is she thinking? Why did she do that kind of stuff? Let's go on that trajectory. Yeah. Okay. All right. And sometimes I'm literally telling you things women don't even know about themselves, literally. So I guess there's a couple of things. The first thing is that if you're thinking about a woman, you have to remember that you have testosterone. She has some, but you've got a lot of it. And it makes you really confident. And you're a dude.

14:59 So you're typically not getting hassled by women for sex where women are estrogen dominant instead of testosterone dominant. They're not as confident. They're the skittery little horse that will run away. And you're the mountain lion that will run toward them. And so estrogen makes them nervous. It gives them body image issues. It makes them judgmental. And it keeps them from being horny every single day in a steady state like you are. They're not called to masturbate every day. Most women like men are. Men really are wired to keep their sperm topped off.

15:42 And so they want to masturbate every day to keep it fresh. Women don't watch as much porn. Younger women are doing that now. But I know you help men of all ages. And a lot of women in their 40s, 50s, 60s, and beyond, they really didn't get raised on or often don't turn to pornography. And so they don't think about sex in the same way that guys do because guys are pretty much consuming pornography on a daily basis. Not saying that's good. I don't think it is.

16:20 Honestly, I feel like pornography is kind of a, it's a big media business play to get your eyeballs so they can make money. And then you kind of get addicted to that and think that's what sex is. And it's definitely not what sex is. It's made as a visual stimulation for your masturbation. And so like really keeping a perspective on that is super important because that's not what women want. That thing you're seeing when you masturbate, that's not what women want. And the other thing is that though she has as much erectile tissue in her vulva and the vulva is the word for what you probably call vagina.

16:55 Women don't necessarily like that word anymore because they feel like it's kind of this patriarchal vestige where the only part of our genital system that's cared about is the part you get to stick your dick in. And women don't like that. They prefer to think, they want you to be considerate of the entire genital system. They want you to think about all of their parts, their clitoris, their mons, their outer labia, their inner labia, their G-spot, their vagina, their anus, their legs, their belly. You know, they want you to, really what they want you to do is think about them in their entirety, not just as a clit and a hole.

17:42 And a lot of guys are very wired into the clit and hole thing. And I know you laugh at my silly things, but it's like what a man finds really comforting in sex is when we grab your dick and right away, because then you're like, ah, good. My dick's going to get some attention and it's calming for you. It's like, you feel good about that. And so that's what guys are doing to women a lot. They're grabbing her by the pussy. You know, they're just like, grab, grab, grab.

18:20 And that A, it doesn't really stimulate us the right way. And B, it's too much too soon for us most of the time. Unless we're super, already super turned on by you. It's a lot of new relationship energy. We're already horny and really warmed up. And especially if we've had a lot of foreplay, then of course, yes, there's always that thing where I don't say always or never, or I don't mean to, because you have to have situational focus. You have to be present to her signs and signals.

18:52 Because also women are pretty horrible about telling you how things are and what they need and what they feel. And a lot of times they don't even know what they want. They just sometimes know what they're getting isn't it, but they don't know what they want. And they're afraid to tell you because a lot of guys contract around feedback. You know, like if a woman says, well, I was literally having lunch with a girlfriend and she was complaining about her husband to me. And she said, you know, I said to him, can you just go a little higher and to the left and he got all butt hurt and he shut down and he didn't want to have sex anymore.

19:29 And now I'm afraid to say anything to him. It's like, you know, he can't take any feedback. And I was like, all right, well, I have this technique. You should print it out and read it and then teach it to your husband. It's called the sexual soulmate pact. And it's something that I really wanted to give your guys today because I feel like, I mean, you can come to my website and you can get so many free techniques. I give you more free techniques than you could ever use in a lifetime probably.

19:57 But this thing about making women feel really, really comfortable being able to say anything to you, being like really solid in your own self that her experience on a day-to-day basis is going to be very different. And what her body wants on a day-to-day basis is going to be very different. You know, she's on a 28 day cycle, even after menopause, women are on a moon cycle. Our hormones ebb and flow. You guys are very steady state hormonally and we are not. And so one day we want you to, you know, pet us like a kitty cat and hold us and hug us and stroke our hair and kiss their eyelids and, you know, just wrap us in your embrace.

20:39 And then other days we want to push you down on the bed and use your tool for our pleasure. You know, we're a tigress and you have to show up with a woman just with a woman just with your eyes open, really watching and taking in her signals and listening to her, anything she says to you so that you get a sense of where she is and you can meet her in that moment so that you're not too slow or too fast or whatever it might be.

21:15 And mostly what women like is this idea. I call it my bullseye touch technique. The bullseye touch technique is this notion that she wants you to stroke her from the outside in. She doesn't want you to grab her pussy or grab her boobs or grab her nipples right away. She wants you to work your way up to it. If her pussy is the bullseye, then you want to start on the outside rings of the bullseye. You want to start on her hair and her back and her legs and caress her face and kiss her lips.

21:49 And then you want to move to the center ring, not the middle ring, but the next ring in. And you want to touch her breastbone and her clavicles and her belly and her ass. And you want to stick your tongue in her mouth and French kiss her a little and maybe brush a finger across her nipple. You don't want to just start tuning her in like a radio. And then you can move toward the creamy center. You can play with her breasts, stroke her nipples, suckle her nipples, rub her vulva with your hands and some oil, go down on her long before there's any penetration.

22:29 You need to get her body really warmed up. And though she has the same amount of erectile tissue as you do in your penis, and she needs to have an erection with it, it needs to get all plumped up. Pussy needs to get plumped up with blood flow. It takes 20 or 30 minutes of pretty concentrated effort to get that pussy ready for penetration. You want her begging you to put it in. You want her just like wanting it in there so that when you go in very slowly, not just like, you are, she's like finally getting the things she wants most.

23:11 Yeah. So I think it's this, you know, it was funny. A guy told me recently, he wrote to me and he said, because I answer all my emails, anyone who's on my email newsletter, if they reply to anything I send them and they have a question, I answer it. And I feel like that's how I got so good at what I do. Because a million questions over two decades, you know, you get, you get a good sense of what people's struggles are, what they understand, what they don't understand.

23:36 You give them things to try. And then you see what works. And one of the things that really, really is important is making sure that you take your time with her and making sure that she can say anything she wants to you. And when she does, you thank her for it. It can be okay, baby. It can be thank you. It can be got it. It can be how's this. An acknowledgement and appreciation for the guidance rather than a resistance and contraction to the guidance. Because it's not failure when she asks you to change something or do something.

24:19 It's just feedback. If you can be non-reactive to the feedback. And if there's any reaction, it's the reaction of appreciation and encouragement for more, then she will start talking to you and she will start telling you things. She will start suggesting ideas. And the Sexual Soulmate Pact is how you do that. And you can get that at sexualsoulmatepact, P-A-C-T, like an agreement.com. Download it and read it or just read it online. It's a very simple way where you can establish very early in the relationship.

24:52 The fact that you're a man that doesn't contract from feedback and not only that, but moves in toward it, wants it and uses it and needs it and appreciates and appreciates her for giving it. I think you just caused 100,000 men to go masturbate. Oh, really? How come? Because I was just describing having sex. Yeah. You're like, move in and caress her breasts and then touch her butt and then slowly move towards the vagina. Lick very gently on her clitoris. And guys are like, I got to turn this shit off and go masturbate.

25:26 Come on, boys. Stick with it. You can do this. Yeah. It's our old pleasure, isn't it? Oh, yeah. It's awesome. Absolutely fantastic advice. So your website though, now I understand that there's different websites, but your website is susanbratton.com. Is that correct? Well, that's the website that is like, who is Susan Bratton? That's really a website about me. And the website about you, about your listeners is personallifemedia.com, where I have almost 5,000 articles searchable on any subject from penis enlargement to that weird thing on my dick, to how to lick a pussy, to how to get a girl to give you a blowjob, to how to make love.

26:06 I've got intercourse techniques. I mean, honestly, if you're going to do yourself a favor, probably some of the best content on my website I just recently wrote. It's really about how to use your penis in a vagina so that she gets incredible pleasure and you do too. So my intercourse techniques are really, really good. There was a game show in the 60s called The Newlywed Game. And back in the 1960s, they didn't used to say sex on television. And on this game show, whenever they talked to the newlyweds about bedroom stuff, they called it making whoopee.

26:49 When you make whoopee, do you do A, B, or C? And the couples would have to guess and then the girl would hit the guy over the head with the card because he got it wrong and they weren't going to win the game and it was super cute. But making whoopee is what I called all my intercourse techniques. So if you go to personallifemedia.com and you use the search box and put in making whoopee, W-H-O-O-P-E-E is how they spelled it, it comes up with a bunch of basically fucking techniques.

27:16 And again, going back to that, like what you see on porn isn't how a woman wants to have sex. That's what you want to see. They know what you want to see as a guy. But if you want to know what a woman wants, go read those articles and get those techniques because we don't have time to get into all of them now. But I could give you one if you'd like to. Yeah, let's do it. Let's finish off with one. And boys, I want to let you know I've left that link in the description below.

27:47 So click on that and get coached up, man, because this is important with women. So important. That's so few guys know about. So yeah, let's get that technique to finish off with. Okay. I call it thrust in time. It's like just in time, but it's thrust in time. And it's at thrustintime.com. It's an individual technique and it's an intercourse technique. It's a penetration, penis and vagina fucking technique that essentially solves the two biggest problems that the male and female bodies have. Number one, women struggle to come from intercourse and men struggle not to come from intercourse.

28:24 They have stamina problems, especially one in four men has pronounced stamina issues. Sometimes stamina issues so bad that they shy away from dating because they feel like, okay, well, once I get her, I can't fuck her because I'll come in two seconds. So if you're one of those guys that's kind of closer to that end of things and really, really worried about initiating sex and that's your issue, thrust in time is excellent for you. And if you're just a guy that wants to last so long that you basically fuck her into a puddle, it's also for you.

28:54 Um, thrust in time is, is an ancient Taoist technique that I upgraded for 21st century men. And essentially what it does is it leverages how the female nervous system works so that, and the male nervous system works so that she comes and you don't come till you want to, or she screams and begs you to come inside her. And the, the technique is based on a 10 count of thrusts into the vagina with your penis. And I'll give you the count and how it works, but there's two different thrusts.

29:29 There's a short shallow, you don't go in very deep thrust and there's a long deep, you go in long, you go in deep thrust. And the shallow ones, you want to start out with more shallow than deep because you want to build up the deeps until you give her enough deeps that she comes. But if all you give her is deeps, it doesn't get her where she needs to go. It's too much of the same and too much deep, especially at first. So when you enter her, you enter her very slowly because the opening to the vagina, which is called the introidal sphincter, it's a sphincter muscle, it's a round muscle, like your iris.

30:10 It opens and closes. She can squeeze it and it's sensitive and it doesn't like to be bullied by a big horny cock. It wants to be slowly opened and teased open. And when you do that, you tantalize her even more where you're getting her vagina to the point where it wants your cock so bad, it's like sucking it in. That's where you want her because then it's going to feel so good once you get in there. And when you enter her, you're going to do nine shallow, slow, short, not deep, not fast, slow and not deep, slow and shallow strokes, almost just kind of getting the tip of your cock in down to the corona, down to where the head is, just the head or a little bit more.

31:00 And you want to do those like nine, one, two, three, four, five, like that to nine. And then you want to do one long stroke. You want to take your penis and you want to be like all the way in super nice and long, but you don't want to smash your pelvis against your pussy lips yet because she doesn't have enough blood flow yet for you to be smashing her. You have to wait until more blood flow gets into her pussy lips or it'll hurt her.

31:32 And then you go to eight shallow strokes and then you give her two long, deep strokes. And then you do seven and three, six and four. And by the time you're at five and five or four and six, by the time you get to that fifth or six deep long stroke, especially if you're looking her in the eyes, showing her it feels good to you, telling her how sexy she is, telling her how good she feels, telling her she's safe with you, whispering things in her ear about how much she feels good.

32:13 She smells good. She tastes good. You love being with her. You're doing all of those things. And frankly, you've got to concentrate so much. You're not going to come. And you ultimately become unconsciously competent at it. You don't have to count anymore. You just do it naturally. But in the beginning, it really helps you with your stamina because first of all, you're not getting a lot of those deep strokes that are going to overstimulate you. And secondly, you're kind of going pretty slow. So you're not going to get overstimulated.

32:40 And third, you've got a lot you're juggling. But don't forget to be in your body too and show her your pleasure. Because like Jim Benson on the Gaines Wave Summit, on the Men's Optimization Summit, who talked about the tuning fork technique, when you're resonating with sexual desire and energy and turn on, it's like holding a tuning fork up to her turn on. It amplifies her turn on. She starts to be in alignment with your vibe. You start to harmonize your desire together. You get on the same wavelength, right?

33:10 And so if you're just doing all the work and you're thinking, you're in your head and you're just doing counting and you're not connecting, then she can feel that. She can just totally feel that. So it's really, you know, you've got a lot. Thrust in time is not a technique you do once and you've learned it, mastered it. It is a technique you master over time. But one of the things that's really good about it too, is if you do a little hip drop, a little pelvic drop while you're doing it, it'll slide your dick up across her G spot on those long strokes and the short ones.

33:46 And that feels really good. It gets her really engorged, which is nice. It makes sex feel better for her. Intercourse feel better for her. So that is a really nice technique that thrust in time. I've got positions for it, more details on how to do it at thrustintime.com. But that's the basics. I mean, you could just try that, but I think it's always good to be really prepared and, you know, mentally know the whole process and think it through in your mind before you bring it into the bedroom.

34:17 Cause then when you bring it into the bedroom, you will have, you'll kind of be real comfortable with what you're going for. And then you'll try it and you'll get some feedback on it. You'll be like, okay, I see where I could get better at this, you know, and then you get better and better over time. And then you get to that unconscious competence, which is what you're going for. Yep. Yep. Yeah. I'm going to, I'm doing this tonight, Susan, my girlfriend, Marissa, she thanks you right now.

34:40 She's like, thank you so much. Yeah. I'll try that out. You're welcome. Yeah. Mark, let me know. I love to get feedback. I have to say that thrust in time when people slide into my DMS, the things that I get the most exclamation points on are people's responses to that technique. They fricking love it. She came for the first time, you know, that makes me so happy because so many women don't think they can orgasm from intercourse. It's like, they like it, but they don't come.

35:09 And frankly, I mean, once you start coming from intercourse and all women can come from intercourse, it's just a learned skill. And thrust in time really helps women do that, cross that chasm, chasm, the gap between how easy it is for God and how hard it is for women to come during penetration. If they believe they can, they will. If they believe they can't, they won't, you know? Yep. Yep. So as a man, if you believe for her, then she will begin to believe. You hold the torch for her sexuality and her sexual potential, and you're her partner in expanding her sexual potential.

35:46 And then it's really nice. Quick question on that. So obviously I understand you go like seven, three, six, four, and then down to 10 complete strokes. What do you do after you've knocked out the 10? Do you go back to nine and one? You know, I think there's two things. Number one, it's probably good to have more penetration techniques, like all the making whoopie techniques that I have. There's one called, I can't even remember what, I stayed out too late last night, Mark. I can't remember what all my sex techniques are called.

36:23 I have like, oh God, I'll have to look them up. I'll tell you right now. I'm going to do it. I'm just going to look them up because there's so many. And I want you guys to get a sense of all the stuff that you could. And they can find these, they can find these at personallifemedia.com though, right? Yeah. I'm literally going to personallifemedia.com and I'm writing in making whoopie. So I can tell you a few of them because they're funny names and I think you'll enjoy it.

36:49 Here we go. Making whoopie. Glissando is one of them. The feline grind, squatting tiger, bouncing lion. I give you a dope sex date scenario. There's all kinds of things like that. I like to name my stuff. The heart tongue technique. That's a really good one. That's where you basically connect your dick to your heart. And then you use your dick like a tongue. So you're like, you're like, it's like your heart is licking her pussy with your dick. And when you start saying things like that, you're like, Oh wow, that's interesting.

37:26 I, you know, it's funny. I had a guy, I think he was in person. I saw him somewhere and he was talking to me and he said, you know, sex isn't that satisfying for me. I don't know why. I thought, I feel, I feel like it should be more satisfying. And I looked at him. Oh yeah. I know where I was. I was in Ibiza. I think he was, I think he was rolling on MDMA. I was in Ibiza at a dance party, a day rave.

37:46 And I sat down to wait for my friends to go to the bathroom. And I just started talking to this Indian guy. And he told me, I just, I just, I really am just not satisfied. And I looked at him. He was like 28 years old, rolling on ecstasy. And I said, I just have a hunch it's because you haven't connected your heart to your dick. And he looked at me and he just went, wow, that is it. I have not. I've been holding myself back. And I think a lot of men hold themselves back.

38:16 It's like their dick is this whole separate appendage. It's just like, that's my dick. That's what I come with. I like it stroked. I like to fuck with it. I play with myself. You know what I mean? Like, I'm like, that's about it. Instead of, wow, my dick is connected to my heart. I can use it like a tongue. I can make her feel love. I can connect in a way that I've never connected with another soul through my dick. Things like that are, what I like about him is that when you hear it, you're like, right.

38:49 Yep. I'm going to do that. I got it. I always like sex techniques that are super simple. I just tell you, you get it, you do it and it fricking works. Yeah. You know, that's to me, my favorite thing. Yeah. Well, Susan, this was awesome. Once again, boys, I'm not going to even leave any of my own links. I'm just going to leave links to personallifemedia.com. I'll also leave a link to Thrust in Time and of course the Men's Optimization Summit. Check that out. Susan and I did an excellent job.

39:22 I mean, it's free boys. If you guys are into free content, personal development, there is tons of information there. So check that out. Susan, you're an awesome guest. Looking forward to releasing this. Thank you so much for your time. I do appreciate it. You betcha. Talk to you soon. Okay. See you then. Bye-bye. Bye. All right, gentlemen. So what did you think, man? Pretty awesome, right? I thought she gave some really good information. She really knows her stuff. And like I said, I dropped those links in the description below.

39:49 So check those out when you get a chance, because listen, pleasing a woman sexually is so damn important for her to just stay with you, for her to fall in love with you, and for you to have a good relationship with her. In fact, I recently did an episode where I said, what are the three most important things in a relationship? One of those things was sex, because it's that important to be intimate with your woman, to bond with her, that heart-to-heart connection. It can even be said that sex is synergistic energy exchange.

40:15 And to me, it's a spiritual exchange where you physically enter her like, when you do it with a woman who you love and who you're really connected with, there's just nothing like it. And I think Susan really understands that as well, particularly her heart-to-dick connection technique. I've never thought of that before. And I really resonate a lot with what she said. So guys, check her out when you get a chance. I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays. And as always, I got an awesome one coming up.

40:42 So stay tuned for that. And I will see you in the next episode.

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