How to Talk to Girls With The Jedi Mind Trick of COLD READING

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0:35 What I'm going to teach you today is what's called cold reading. But beyond that, I'm going to teach you how to turn cold reading into even further attraction building material and then into sexual tension where you can make out with a girl. So basically look at it like this. You're talking to her, conversation goes dead. Then you say to her this cold read. Then you do a commonality. Then you turn that into sexual tension. And then you're making out with her all within literally probably two minutes.

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2:53 So cold reading is a series of techniques commonly used by illusionists, fortune tellers, psychics, and mediums to basically determine or express details about another person, often in order to convince them that the reader knows much more about a subject than they actually do. So basically, it's the trick that psychics use, right? And what they say is they'd say something about you that's probably true. And the reason it's called cold is because they don't know anything about you up front. And reading is like they're reading you.

3:22 So that's why it's called cold reading. This concept was created by a guy named Barnum, who I believe started the Barnum and Bailey circus. And it's basically an assumption about you that would prove true for basically everybody. Like if I said to you, yeah, man, sometimes you're a hard worker, but other times, sometimes you're lazy. It's like, yeah, of course that's true. So what we do is we create these statements about girls that would basically apply to anybody. And for some reason, when you say to a girl, she really eats it up.

3:55 Now, if I said it to you, you'd be like, dude, what the hell are you talking about? That's so stupid. But girls absolutely love this stuff. So sometimes when it comes to women, we have to change the way we think. And we have to say things that may not feel congruent with like what we think will work, but it actually works really damn well. In fact, I can't even remember a time that this blew up in my face. And even when it did blow up in my face, there's a way to switch it on her to make it just prove your point, which I'm going to tell you about during this podcast.

4:20 So the best cold read is when you tell a girl that one side of her is one way and the other side of her is the complete opposite. For example, she's got a good girl smile and bad girl eyes. She has a tough outside, but a soft inside. So for example, you could say something like, you know what, Kelly, you have a don't mess with me kind of personality, but I bet once someone earns your trust, I bet you really open up. I would bet that underneath all that tough girl stuff, you're actually sweet and caring.

4:48 Okay. So that that's how it works. You just tell her one side is one way. The other side is the other way. And blow, she gets super attracted to that. For some reason, it's like chick crack. It really works well. Okay. Here's another one. I can tell you're a free spirit because you can let go and have fun, but I bet you weren't always like that. I bet at one time you were really shy, but because that wasn't really working for you, you made the conscious decision to break out of your shy ways and now you're much happier because of it.

5:19 Okay. Something like that. So when speaking to people, you have to realize that everybody's favorite topic is themselves. And if you are able to tell something about them that's true, that they deem as true, they're going to feel a lot more rapport for you. They're going to like you a lot more. They're going to trust you a lot more. She's going to be like, Oh my God, he understands me. And that develops attraction. A good way to start a cold read is to say, I can tell that I can tell that.

5:45 And then you always want to have a reason as to why you think that way. So one of the biggest ones that I use with girls is, Hey Kelly, you know, as I'm sitting here talking to you, you seem really friendly. You're a great conversationalist. You're very easy to talk to and you seem really genuine, but I bet deep inside you're not to be fucked with, huh? And she's like, yeah, totally. And you're like, yeah, like if somebody ever hurt your best friend, like let's say a guy broke your best friend's heart and was just a total douchebag about it.

6:15 You'd show up to his house, knock down the door and just karate kick that guy in the neck, wouldn't you? And just kick his head off. And she's like, Oh yeah, totally. So this applies to everybody. I mean, everybody feels that they're friendly. Everybody feels that they're not to be fucked with. Right. But when you tell it to a girl, for some reason it works and it really builds a lot of attraction. So once again, you can sell it. You say, I can tell that. So I can tell that you're really nice.

6:38 You're really friendly, but you don't mess. You don't, you don't fuck around. And she's going to be like, Oh, totally. And you can be like, yeah, I think that because I'm the same way. So this goes into our second step where you turn a cold read into a commonality. So if you say to her, I'm the same way, then what you're saying is you guys have a commonality. You're both not to be fucked with. And I'm going to give you in a moment, a really good way to turn that into sexual tension.

7:03 But let's finish up some of the standard cold reads that I use to girls. And by the way, if you want, you can email me and I will send you back some of these cold reads. So if you leave me a review, hit me up. I will send you these cold reads. I'll put them in a document for you so you can have them in your back pocket when you go to talk to girls. And these are great to do during the first conversation, even during the first date, or you know what, you could even do it over texting.

7:25 I know a lot of you guys are on the dating apps right now. These totally work over the dating apps. And you're wondering, how can I, what do I talk to girls about? What can I do? This is a great thing to lead them through. So hit me up, leave me a review, and I will send you these cold reads. Okay, here's the next one. I can tell that you're someone who at times doesn't take chances. And sometimes you regret not having the adventure in you to try new things.

7:51 But other times you do have that audacity. You do take the chance. And when you really go for something you want, you're the happiest because that's the real you. Dude, I've written this to a girl in a text and she's like, oh my god, you totally understand me. That's so true. They eat it up. And if you said that to a guy friend, it'd be like, bro, did you like, did you wake up gay or something? Because that's fucking ridiculous. But remember, what works on girls is sometimes a little bit counterintuitive.

8:16 Okay, here's another one. You ask her, so do you have any brothers or sisters? And then she's going to say, yeah. And you'd be like, older or younger? And she'll be like, oh, I have a younger sister. And you'd be like, yeah, I could totally see that in your voice. You kind of have this like nurturing kind of like motherly aspect about you. And that's real, that really comes out about you. So I figured you had a younger sister. And like, she just gave you the information and you say, oh yeah, that confirms what I thought.

8:44 And she's like, oh my god, you can really tell that you could be like, oh yeah, totally. Another thing I do is with like two girls, I always do this. I say, so how long have you guys been friends? And they'll be like, oh, for like 10 years. And I'll be like, you guys are really close, huh? And they'll be like, oh yeah, for sure. And I'll be like, I can totally tell that. And they'll often be like, why? And I'll be like, well, you guys kind of have similar mannerisms.

9:03 So when you laugh, you kind of laugh the same way. And when you look at me, your eyes kind of flip the same way. So I think really you guys are entrained. Do you know what entrained is? And they'll be like, what? And I'll be like, well, do you ever think about her? And she'll call you. And of course, they're going to be like, oh yeah, totally. I'll be like, well, there's like a theory out there that people who are really close get entrained. Like you could even get spiritual with it.

9:23 They're called psychic etheric cords, where when you're thinking about her, she just picks up on it. And when she picks up on it, she may be thinking about you. And then you're going to call her because you guys are entrained. Now, girls eat this up with both hands, man. They love this shit. And it just comes from a cold read. You say, how long have you guys been friends? Yeah, that's what I thought. You guys are very similar. And then you take that into a cold read, tell a little story, and then they eat it up.

9:56 Now, suddenly you're bringing really good conversational topic into the conversation. Another thing I do is I say, how long have you been friends? They'll be like, oh, 10 years. And I'll be like, are you guys like best friends? And they'll be like, yeah. And I'll be like, do you want to take the best friend test? And they'll be like, okay. And I'll say, all right, here's the question. You guys ready? And they're like, yeah. I'm like, what kind of shampoo does she use? Best friends should know that.

10:19 What kind of shampoo does she use? And they're like, um, Pantene. And they'll like look at each other and then they'll like start cracking up and laughing. And look, you just brought a really good vibe into the conversation. So they want to keep you there. The problem with most guys is they approach and they suck the conversational vibe out of the set. They basically bring down the energy of the two girls. You want to bring it up. And once again, everybody's favorite topic is themselves. So when you make it about them too, they fucking eat it up with both hands.

10:50 All right, let's go ahead and dive into what I call step two of this. So first you do a cold read. Now, when you do a cold read, it's going to last 15, 20 seconds. Typically the one that I do is I say one way of her is this way. The other way of her is that way. So this is the one I pretty much always do, which is, Hey, listen, Kelly, as I'm talking to you, you're really friendly. You're easy to talk to. You seem like a really nice person, but I bet deep inside you're not to be fucked with.

11:11 Huh? Okay. Then she says, Oh yeah, totally. And then I tell a story. So if your best friend was broken up with by a guy, you go knock down his door, karate, kick him in the head. You don't take any shit. Do you? And she says, Oh, totally. That's totally me. Everybody's going to agree with that. Everybody. And chicks always do. Now quick little side note. If she says, no, that's not true. Then I say, see, you don't take any shit. You're just validating my point.

11:37 So when you say one way of her is one way, the other way of her is the other way. And she says, no, that's not true. Well, she just proved your point for you. So that's sometimes something that I'll say when they try to like be combative and when they've tried to be combative, it's nothing but a frame check. You overcome it by rationalizing to her that you are indeed right. And boy, you just blasted her frame out of the water. One other thing I'll say is I'll say like, see your halo hides your devil horns.

12:08 And they'll always laugh because of that. Okay. So she agrees that inside she doesn't take any shit. Now I say, I know that because I'm the same way. Okay. Now we have a commonality. We both quote unquote, don't take any shit. And then what I do with commonalities, as you may have heard in previous podcasts is I use commonalities as the reason her and I wouldn't get along. So specifically when it comes to her not taking any shit and me not taking any shit, it's a perfect reason to do a false disqualifier.

12:40 Once again, it's called false disqualifier. And what that is, is you use that as the reason you too wouldn't get along, but it's false. It's like, it's, it's very much obvious that you guys actually wouldn't get along because of this. You're just kind of making a joke of it. Okay. So I'm going to get into false disqualifiers a little bit more in this podcast as well as in future podcasts. But what I say is, yeah, I'm the same way. We both don't take any shit that I tell a little story.

13:07 So if you and I went out to dinner, I'd want to order the appetizer. Like I'd want to get the tortilla chips with the nacho cheese. You'd be like, no, no, no, no. I want to get the dip with the avocado dip. And I'd be like, no, the nacho cheese. You'd be like, no, the avocado dip. Then suddenly we're fighting. I'd spray ketchup in your hair. You'd launch pickles at my forehead and I'd have to walk home with the pickle hanging off my eyebrow. This is definitely not going to work.

13:31 Okay. So what I do is I say from the beginning, what I do is I say, she's a really nice girl, but deep inside, she doesn't take any shit. Either do why I don't take any shit. That's the reason we wouldn't get along. Then I tell a funny story about us fighting. And then I tell a joke about pickles in the forehead and ketchup in the hair. Okay. Then step three, and this is like Jedi level baller shit. You say, but you know what the good thing about fighting is, right?

13:59 And she's like, what? You'd be like, well, afterwards you get to make up, kind of say it sexually. And then she's usually going to say like, make up sex. You'd be like, yeah, you know, after you get in a big fight, there's so much passion there. There's so much anger with each other. You just want to fuck it out. You know what I mean? And like, at this time you can pull her in close. If she's into it, maybe you like put your hand up on her hair and be like, yeah, like sex is like really, really, really intense.

14:26 When you guys are mad at each other, you might just pull your hair like this. And then you look in her eyes and you'd be like, then I just like look deeply at you. I may kiss you. I may kiss you right now. And then you can kiss her. If you're able to build up this sexual tension in this way, you can kiss a girl like that. Now, can you go from zero? Hey, who are you? I'm Kelly. What's up? I'm Mike. Nice to meet you.

14:49 Uh, by the way, on the outside, you seem really nice, but on the inside, you don't take any shit, do you? And then like in a minute kiss her? No, obviously, of course not. You got to build this up. So this usually comes like five minutes into the conversation. And when I say this, I'm saying these three steps. You can do a cold read super early on. Like you can do a cold read like within the first couple of minutes, but to build it into sexual tension, that's when she's already somewhat attracted.

15:14 But dude, this works like hell. Like let's say you go in, tell stories, drop some gambits, do all the things we talk about on this podcast. Then the conversation dies a little bit and you'd be like, you know what, Kelly, I just realized something about you. She says what? And then you do the cold read, the outside, the inside of you is very nice. The inside of you doesn't take any shit. Neither do I. That's why we wouldn't get along. We get in a big fight, but you know what the good thing about fighting is, right?

15:41 What you get to make up. Oh, you mean like sex? Yeah. And then you explain the sex and then wow, you kiss her like a fucking champion. This works really, really well. Now a quick note about false disqualifiers. Once again, a false disqualifier is something that you disqualify her for that can't possibly be true. And these are so powerful. I'm going to do its own dedicated podcast on it. But a couple examples are, I'll be talking to a girl and I'll be like, yo, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

16:11 Do you have, do you have 17s on your car? And she'd be like, what do you mean? I'll be like, what kind of car do you have? She'd be like a Toyota Camry. And I'll be like, all right, you got 17 inch rims on that car. And she'd be like, no. And you'll be like, I cannot talk to you. You have to have 17 inch spinning rims on your car. I'll even accept spinning hubcaps. But because you don't have that, we cannot be friends and they'll crack up, right?

16:32 If you do this in the right way. I also do false disqualifiers based on like their clothing. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. We know what? We're getting along really well right now, but I just realized something and she'll be like, what? And I'll be like, I don't talk to girls who wear black jackets and yellow pants. It's just on my, on my disqualifier list. Can't do it. So it's, it's also works into push pull, which I've talked about before. You push her away half the time, you pull her in the other half.

17:02 And so all these things work together. When you get really good, suddenly you're doing cold reading into false disqualifiers, into sexual tension, into push pull. You're doing all these techniques. And as we go on with this podcast, I know you, a lot of you guys are like loyal listeners. You listen to every single one. That's why I'm doing this is because they, they zip together like a zipper does, right? All these things come together and they fit perfectly when you get really advanced. Now, can you do them individually?

17:28 Hell yeah. So I suggest you guys just take a basic cold read. And the next time you're talking to a girl, be it in person on a first date or even over texting or even on the dating apps throughout a cold read, be like, Hey, I can tell that one way of you this way. One way of you is that way. And that's why your XYZ. And she'll be like, Oh, then it'll suddenly inject life into what could be an otherwise dying conversation. And then if you want to, if you feel it's the right time, you can use that as a false disqualifier.

18:00 And then do, you could even go for sexual tension as I explain. All right, guys. So I hope you benefited from this. And now that you have seen some of my content and if you think it made the cut, I really would appreciate that review. Once again, leave me a review anywhere. Or even if you just want to tell your friends, yo, check out this dude's content. It's pretty decent. I will send you a bunch of content myself. Email me at coachmarksingh at gmail.com, conversation sniper, guide to the female orgasm, three texts to build massive attraction in women.

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