How To Use The Law Of Attraction To Achieve Your Wildest Dreams

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate it. If you've been writing with me for a long time, smack yourself upside the head, you are a champion. If you're new here, what I try to do is give the best information possible in the shortest amount of time. And today we are going to talk about the law of attraction.

0:34 What is this law of attraction? Well, a lot of guys who listen to this podcast are learning to attract women. So there may have been a misunderstanding and you may not completely know what the law of attraction is, or maybe you do. But if you don't, it doesn't refer to attracting women. Not necessarily, although it does play into it. But what it refers to is that our thoughts create our reality. So thoughts become things. That which you are thinking about becomes your reality by this law called the law of attraction.

1:09 So we are literally creating our realities by the virtue of the things that we hold in our heads. So if you expect things to go shitty, things are going to go shitty. If you expect things to go good, things are going to go good. So what I want to do today is I want to talk about some of the basics of the law of attraction, outline what it is for those of you who haven't heard about it. And then what I want to do is get deeper into how I think it really works.

1:34 And some things we can do as men to maximize its power so that we can get the life we truly want. And some things that we're missing by the common teachings we do here about the law of attraction that I want to elaborate on. And it actually has to do a lot with masculinity. So I'm looking forward to sharing my thoughts on that. Before I do that, though, I want to thank you guys yet again. Thanks, brother, for all the fucking reviews. Unbelievable, man. They just keep coming.

2:03 It's like the law of attraction. I just keep thinking about reviews and they just keep coming in like a goddamn tidal wave. And I'm just being submerged in the love from you guys, man. And I read every single one. And every time I read one, bro, you know who you are. You know what you did for me. And I just really appreciate it. I read it and I send out a silent thank you. I take a few moments to thank you. And I read every single word, sometimes two or three times just to really, you know, ingest and absorb what it is that you sang.

2:31 And hopefully getting some tidbits from it that I can improve this podcast with. So once again, guys, thanks again. If you want to leave me a review, you can do that. Preferably a five-star review with some words behind it. And then email me at coachmarksingh at gmail.com. And I will send you a bunch of really cool programs. The Conversation Sniper, Guide to the Female Orgasm, Three Texts to Build Massive Attraction in Women, as well as two or three videos because you are a champion. And songs will be written about you that will be sung around campfires for generations to come.

3:03 All right, let's jump into the content. The Law of Attraction. As I explained previously, the Law of Attraction states that what we think about is attracted to us. So if you're focusing on getting a new ATV, which happens to be my case right now, then eventually you're going to attract that ATV into your life. If you focus on getting better with women, becoming a girl magnet, the theory is that eventually you will become that if you use it correctly. So let's review some of the central tenets of how to use it correctly.

3:34 So first and foremost, you have to feel like you already have what you want to get. So if you're in a state of desire and you say, I want this thing, I want this thing, what you're really saying is you don't have this thing. And the universe, let's call it God, energy, source energy, whatever you want to call it, will say, you're right, you don't have that thing. So the way reality works is first you think of the picture, then you paint it, then you step inside of it.

3:59 Now what that means is, is that you are creating your reality by the virtue of your thoughts. Everything around you started with a thought and it was attracted into your life in some way or another. So if you're constantly thinking about what you want and you don't feel like you have it already, then you're pushing it away from you. So people who are poor and say, I want money, I want more money, I'm poor, this sucks, I hate being poor, money is scarce, I want more of it.

4:28 They're in a bad scarcity kind of mentality, so they're never going to get that money. And really, these kinds of mentalities are handed down from our parents to us many times. And NLP, which is one of the things that I do in my coaching, helps to rewrite those kinds of programs. And that's why a lot of times when clients work with me, they start attracting way more money into their life, is because they get rid of that scarcity mentality. They stop thinking that money is scarce.

4:53 They start thinking that it's abundant and they think that they are money. Okay, so that's a big concept right there is when you feel like you are that which you are trying to attract into your life, you're going to attract it that much faster. So if you guys want to be girl magnets, but you feel like you're not a girl magnet, well, you're going to kind of stay not a girl magnet unless you do something to make yourself feel like a girl magnet. Now, you guys may have seen this movie called The Secret, okay?

5:19 I'm not going to bash on it because it actually is the thing that presented this law of attraction thing to me. And it launched me into a multi-year study of the law of attraction, as well as other spiritual truths that I'm excited to share with you guys on this podcast. But The Secret makes it seem like it's very simple, okay? First, you ask, then you feel like you have it, and then you receive it. Something like that, right? You think of what you want, you ask for it, you get appreciative for it, it's in my life already, and then it comes to you.

5:50 So, yeah, that's kind of the way it works, but a lot of people tried it after this movie came out in like the early 2000s, and it didn't work for them. It would work for some people and wouldn't work for others. Well, why is that? It's because your point of attraction is dictated by the mental state that you're currently in. So, you can be poor and sit around thinking about Lamborghinis all day, make a vision board, which is like a board with pictures of Lamborghinis all over it.

6:16 Imagine yourself in the Lamborghini, laying a freaking 200-yard Brody, having hot girls with you, and then after you go through that visualization, you're in your mobile home, and you put on your McDonald's hat to go do your McDonald's job, and then suddenly you just feel poor again. So, the way it works is you have to start feeling like that which you want to attract. Now, I used to be a very angry, poor beta cuck who couldn't get any girls. So, how did I change myself into a girl magnet who is making good money now?

6:48 Well, it's incremental improvement, okay? So, the way I think the law of attraction really works, and the thing that I think the teachers didn't tell us, as well as the secret didn't tell us, is that there's another element of the law of attraction that plays into this. Now, in my opinion, what they left out is hard work and the incremental improvement, okay? So, the way I see law of attraction, the way that I saw it work in my life, and the way I'm continuing to see it work in my life, and by the way, it works.

7:18 It's real. But what they leave out is the element of working hard and giving the universe, let's call it, a reason to give you what you're going after. Okay, so we have the 200-pound nerdy beta cuck who plays video games in his basement, and believe me, I was not far off from that, who hears about the law of attraction, and then he goes to bed at night thinking about, like, a solid nine writing him on his dick, and then he gets pissed when it doesn't happen.

7:48 Well, there's a problem here. Okay, he's visualizing it. He's intending what he wants, but he's not acting in a way that will help him embody that which he's trying to become, okay? So, you have to become that which you're trying to get. So, a lot of the times, I call myself a money magnet, but more than that, I say, I am money. I am a girl magnet. I am sexy. I am all these things. I just feel like it's in the I am-ness of who I am.

8:16 Now, if you're a master, you can just think about it and manifest whatever you want instantaneously. And by the way, that's how I think Jesus was able to manifest bread, and then Buddha was also able to manifest things out of thin airs because they just mastered the law of attraction. Boom, I think about it. It's here already. We're masters, too, in the making, but we're a little bit slower. Now, if we have mastery of our mind, we can get things immediately, but the way most of us are, where we're at in the evolution of our consciousness, we're not able to do that.

8:46 It's an incremental thing. Now, we almost have to prove to our minds that we are that which we're trying to get. And how do we do that? Once again, hard work, and also, I believe the universe is a little bit like a company or like jiu-jitsu, where you get stripes and you build up slowly. You get promotions, and you go slowly towards becoming that vice president, right? You don't just start in the mailroom and then say, I want to become vice president, and you become vice president overnight.

9:14 It's incremental improvement is the nature of all mastery. Now, you start in the mailroom, and then you become, let's say, a copywriter. Well, when you step into a copywriter, you feel in your identity that you're better than what you were in the mailroom. Therefore, you deserve, and you actually are, that which deserves to make more money. Now, when you're feeling like you deserve to make more money, and that's your identity, that's the way you feel, that's your intention, then you're going to make even more money.

9:42 As you're continuing to build up, you're the copywriter, then you're the director of marketing, then you're the CFO, and then you're the vice president. You work up incrementally. Well, the same thing happens with girls. If you're in a tough spot the way I was, we have to incrementally work up into becoming that girl magnet. It just doesn't happen overnight. And your identity, the way you feel about yourself, is the most important thing to bring to you that what you want. So if you want to make a lot of money, you have to feel like you're worth a lot of money.

10:14 But you can't just go from making, you know, four grand a month to 50 grand a month. I mean, some people can. Most people lose it because, again, they don't have that identity. So what I suggest is you incrementally move up in the identity, and the most important thing is to focus on what you want, not what you don't want, okay? The law of attraction is going to give you what you're thinking about. So if you're trying to get more money, you're trying to get more girls, stop thinking about how you don't have it and start focusing on what you can do to start getting it incrementally.

10:46 You want that Lambo? Well, let's first focus on whatever, getting the Toyota, then the BMW, then, I don't know, the Porsche, and then up to Lambo, okay? So it's that step up. Now, in a previous podcast, I talked about masculinity. How masculinity is a towards-thinking element within us men, and that, my friend, is an advantage for the law of attraction. Masculinity goes that towards which it wants. Femininity goes away from what it doesn't want to happen. For example, when you want to go approach a girl, feminine part of you is going to say, don't do it because you might get rejected.

11:24 It's what I don't want to happen. When you're in the masculine part, you say, well, what could go right? What good could happen from this? And then you go approach her because your masculine is stronger than your feminine. Well, the same thing works with the law of attraction. When we're in a very strong masculine state, we focus on what we want. We focus on what we want to become, and then we start to feel like that. And then when we feel like that, it becomes part of our reality.

11:51 So you literally have to feel like a girl magnet before you're going to become a girl magnet. You have to feel like you're wealthy before you can become wealthy. Now, if you're in a bad place, here's how you start. You be appreciative, and you focus on what you have, not what you don't have. Okay, a lot of us are in first world countries. The majority of my listeners are in the United States, United Kingdom, Australia, Canada, etc. English-speaking countries. We have it very fucking good. I think we're in like the top 1% of the world as far as wealth, especially here in the United States.

12:26 So let's focus on what we have. You obviously have a cell phone to be listening to this. You have ears to hear it. You probably have a car. You probably have a job. You probably have a lot of good things going on in your life. But a lot of us ignore that and focus on what we don't have. That's feminine. So what we want to do is focus on what we do have, be thankful for it, and start feeling like we're abundant. Look at the abundance around you.

12:52 I don't know where you're at right now. Some of you in the kitchen. Some of you in the gym. Some of you out on a walk listening to me in your ear. Look around you. Look at the abundance. Look at the life. All the trees are growing. Look at all the leaves, the birds. Look at all the things in your kitchen. Look at that beautiful gym you're in. Wherever you're at, just be like, damn, dude. Like, there is abundance all around me. There is more than enough.

13:14 And if you're trying to go for money, there's money all around you. There's money literally on your back right now in the form of clothes. There's money on your feet in the form of shoes. You're listening to money on the form of a cell phone. There's gold in your cell phone. Money is everywhere. It's abundant. When you start feeling abundant, then what happens? You start getting more abundance. Now, here's an interesting thing. In the Bible, it says, to those who have, more will be given. Now, that sounds like a strange thing to hear from the Bible, from Jesus.

13:46 But that's the law of attraction right there. When you have it, or even when you feel like you have it, you get more. So I noticed with my business, it's like the more freaking reviews I get, the more I get. The more clients I get, the more I get. The more money I get, the more I get. The more girls I get, the more you get. And that's pre-selection, isn't it? When you have girls in your life, more girls come into your life. So the key here is to start feeling abundant.

14:14 Be appreciative for what's around you. Feel the abundance. Keep a towards mentality, towards that which you want to become, and even start feeling that way now. And on top of that, hard work. Because hard work is always rewarded. What's that saying? Success is where opportunity meets luck, or hard work, and luck meets something like that. You know what I mean. Great quote. Unbelievable. I have it totally memorized. But you know what I'm saying. It's like hard work when you put that element into it, and you're trying to become that thing which you want to become.

14:47 And you're really putting an honest work into it, right? Getting girls, listening to this podcast, maybe getting some coaching and doing the assignments that I give you to actually get them done. When you start doing that, then you give your mind a reason to identify with a guy who is a girl magnet, a guy who does the work. When you can identify with it, you're going to attract it, and when you attract it, you're going to attract more of it. It's a goddamn snowball. So with women, man, once they start coming into your life, it's like all hell breaks loose, man.

15:18 Your dick is going to be hurting. You're going to get so much women. With money, it seems to not be there, not be there, not be there. And then it's going to hit when you get your mentality corrected, and then it just comes and comes and comes. And for most people, once you make like $10,000 a month, it's really hard to go back to making less than that. Why? Because it's become your identity, and your point of attraction has changed to attract that kind of money. You feel like a $10,000 dude per month, right?

15:48 So every month, I raise it. I'm like, okay, now I'm this much of a dude per month, okay? I accomplished that. Now I feel, and I just raise it like, you know, a couple thousand a month. Now I'm this much dude a month. Now I'm that much dude a month. Let's say it with girls. You want to get a 10, but so far you've only had sixes. You need to step up into it. You need to go to get sevens. Okay, I can get sevens. Now I've gotten some eights.

16:12 Okay, eights are attracted to me. Let's go for some nines, and you incrementally move up into it until you literally have a harem of 10s, and it's like no big deal to you because that's how you feel in your heart. That's how you feel in your identity. So the law of attraction is definitely real. I have seen it work in my life, I mean, so many times, so many times, and I actually did get my ATV. I know a lot of you guys listen to a lot of these podcasts, and I was looking for an ATV.

16:39 Quick story. I wanted to save this at the end for you loyal listeners. I didn't want to bore those who were just popping in to check out what I'm about, but what happened is I wanted about a 2012 ATV grizzly, and I wanted it to be green. I didn't want any of that yellow, blue, or red bullshit. I wanted it to be green, like military-looking with black wheels. So that's what I really wanted, and that's what I focused on. Well, all of them are selling out because right now it's COVID.

17:07 People are all doing outdoor activities, and the manufacturers aren't getting them in because, you know, all the parts have stopped coming from China. So it's like the dealers are in a great position. While I was negotiating with the dealer, I didn't get him to come down that much. I did use the techniques in the FBI negotiation podcast to some success. I got him to come down several hundred dollars by using those techniques, but I drove away from the dealer like, fuck, dude, I'm going to have to spend like $11,700 on this thing, and I really was hoping to spend more like $6,000.

17:40 Because it's my first ATV, I didn't want to drop like a lot of money into it. I wanted to test it out for a year. Then if I really like it, I'll sell my used ATV and go get a new one. Well, I'm driving home from the dealer, and I'm like, fuck, dude, I cannot find a used one. This is the last ATV in northern Colorado, the Yamaha Grizzly. No dealers have them. This dealer has one left. So I was like, fuck it. I guess I'll just buy it.

18:04 Then my buddy calls me, and he's like, hey, did you get it? And I thought he was talking about the ATV, and I was like, nah, man. Like, I don't know, dude. I'm still kind of tripping on that price tag, $11,700. It's a lot more than I wanted to spend. He's like, no, did you get my text? And I was like, no, what happened? He's like, bro, there is a fucking 2012 Green Grizzly, black tires, gun rack, and a big rack on the back of it. Low miles, perfect condition.

18:28 Call him. So the ad had been up for an hour. So I call him, and I'm like, man, I got to drop tons of charisma bombs on this guy. So I'm like, what's up, Joe? My name's Mark. I've been looking for your ATV. Really interested. Has anyone else called you? And he's like, no, I just put it up. And I was like, cool, could I come check it out? He's like, yeah, for sure. So I grabbed the cash, grabbed the trailer, go down there. He said that from the time I called him until I went down there, he got five other phone calls, and he held it for me because he's a cool-ass guy.

18:59 So it kind of works into this lesson that I was focused on that green ATV 700 at about $6,000 with black tires and green plastics and a gun rack. I was super focused on that, imagined myself riding it, knew I was going to get it, and then it popped up. So one other thing that I believe is that I'm lucky, and this is something I want you guys to consider. When you feel like you're lucky, like you're blessed, we are blessed. I mean, we were born in a day and age where we've had more opportunity, wealth, excitement, and comfort than ever throughout human history.

19:37 We literally won the lottery. And when you feel like you won the lottery, then shit continues to happen. Those who have, more will be given. When you have a feeling in your heart that you're lucky, you won the lottery, you're blessed, then you will be blessed. And that's the law of attraction in a nutshell. All right, guys. I thank you so much for listening. I do appreciate your time. I'm going to come swinging with another one on Friday. It's going to be really good. So please come back if you enjoy my content.

20:06 Once again, I thank you so much for the reviews. If you leave me a review, hit me up at CoachMarkSingh at gmail.com and blow, I will send you some awesome shit because I believe that when you treat people right, you too will be treated right. That too is the law of attraction. Thanks again for listening, guys, and I'll see you in the next episode. Bye. We'll see you in the next episode.

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