My Exact Thoughts About Women. Love Em? Hate Em? Both?

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, guys? Thank you for joining me on another episode of the UNP. I really do appreciate it. If this is your first time listening, my name is Mark Sing, also known as Captain Save-A-Bro. I heard that from a podcast listener the other day, and I was like, oh, I forgot about that one. I got to pull it out and use it.

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1:01 It will take you over to it. It's absolutely free. And then you also get on my mailing list. I'm going to send you tons of cool stuff in the weeks ahead. So check that out, CoachMarkSingh.com. All right, let's go ahead and jump into the content. So what are my thoughts about women? Do I love them? Do I hate them? Do I have a little mixture of both? Well, I'm going to tell you exactly what I think about women and it might surprise you. But I want to start out with the fact that some of you guys are bitter.

1:30 You are bitter. And that is a gigantic problem when it comes to women. And look, I get it. You've been stabbed in the back. You've been screwed over. You have some ill feelings towards women. But the problem is they can sense that from you. I get a lot of clients and it's an immediate red flag for me. When I see them kind of complain about women, I can feel the bitterness behind what they're saying. And I'm always like, oh, man, we really need to do some NLP on this.

1:56 Because if you don't get over your bitterness, man, they sense that from you. I'm telling you, they can sense it. Even if you hide it with a smile and a laugh, they're still going to sense it from you. And they're going to blow you out even more. And it's a filthy cycle because it just keeps continuing and continuing. And as I've mentioned on a previous podcast, you know, women aren't malevolent, which means they aren't out to get you. They aren't out to screw you over, as a lot of guys believe.

2:22 They just want what they want. They're programmed a certain way. And if you're not clicking off the attraction triggers in their head, they're going to reject you. They're going to blow you out. They're going to use you. They're going to do exactly what we do to them. Now, a lot of guys say, like, women are cold-hearted, have ice in their veins. But look at what guys do. I mean, come on, bro. Like, it's me and you here. We both know that we have hooked up with a girl just to get a little bit of sick duck.

2:47 And we knew full well that we weren't going to have a relationship with her. By the way, sick duck, switch the S and the D, and you'll figure out what I'm talking about. So all we wanted to do was, like, maybe see her tits, have sex with her once. And we knew we were going to blow her out. So it's like, when guys get bitter, I'm like, bro, look at what dudes do to chicks. We all do it to each other. It's just human nature. We want what we want.

3:09 We're going to do what the fuck we want to do. And unless it's good for us, unless we're, like, really into it, we're going to blow it out. We're going to get rid of it. So this bitterness towards women is stupid because everybody does it. It's like when people get bitter at the weather, right? It's like, oh, my God, it's raining today. Really? You're going to complain about the rain? When you complain about something, you're basically saying that things should be a certain way. And you're shooting all over yourself because the simple fact is it isn't.

3:37 It isn't going to be sunny every day. It's going to rain. It's going to be crappy. That's life. Some women are going to fall in love with you. Some aren't. And that's the differentiation between whether or not they're going to blow you out. It's all about what they want, their emotions. So that leads us to a big point of this podcast. And the only way to make a girl loyal to you is to make her fall in love with you. That's literally the only way. Make her catch super hard feelings for you.

4:03 Then you can know she's going to be loyal. And that's really the only way to do it. If you try to make her make promises, you try to make her make a commitment to you, say you shouldn't do that. You know, how dare you? What kind of girl are you? Bro, you would do the same thing. You do the same thing. We're humans. We want the best for us. We're literally designed that way. In fact, it's a survival adaptability that we have developed over a millennium.

4:28 And the reason is, is because when we keep looking for better, when we keep looking for the best, then we have a higher chance of survival. So it's like if you're in a cave and the cave kind of has a leak, you're going to go look for a new one. Well, if she chooses a guy and the guy has some low volume mannerisms, she's not really in love with him, she's going to blow him out because she wants the best for her. And she wants the best for her child really is what it all boils down to.

4:52 So this whole bitterness, you know what? You have to drop that if that's the way that you're feeling. And here's the key. You have to learn game. You have to understand female psychology. Because when you learn game, when you learn female psychology, you suddenly have the power. You can get her attracted to you. You can make her fall in love with you. You can understand why she's doing the things she's doing and not make the stupid mistakes that's going to get yourself blown out. So it's like rather than getting pissed off at the game, just learn the rules of the game and master it.

5:25 That's what I did. Hell, I used to be bitter towards women. I admit it straight up. I used to freaking hate women. So now that begs the question, what do I think about women now? I'm going to be honest with you, man. No sugarcoating this. I'm not saying this for anybody other than myself. I fucking love women. Are you kidding me? To me, femininity is one of the most beautiful things in the world. Now, when I look at a woman, I don't look at her like a piece of steak that I want to devour, which is a big mistake that guys do.

5:54 I look at her like a flower or a beautiful sunset, a piece of art that should be appreciated. Are you kidding me? Fucking femininity? Oh my God. It's like a Valium packet. You know, when you're in the cuddle shuttle with a girl who you really like and you're just feeling that feminine energy come into you, not to mention their soft little voices, their soft skin, the way they smell, the way they feel in your arms. And like, let's not even talk about sex and getting a blowjob, getting a little sick duck.

6:23 Come on. It's like the best thing ever. They're little Valium packets, man. I fucking love women. Every time I go out of my house and I go to the supermarket or wherever I go, I'm like stoked. All these beautiful women everywhere that I get to just appreciate. And once again, I look at them not as a piece of meat that I'm trying to quote unquote fuck, but I just look at them as beautiful. Femininity is beautiful. Your mom was a woman. And it was that femininity that raised you and took care of you.

6:51 Do you know how much work it takes to take care of a damn baby? I'm finding this out firsthand because I'm 11 month old. Man, it takes a shit ton of work, a shit ton of love. And watching my woman, Marissa, with that little baby is like the most beautiful thing in the world. It's femininity in action. And I absolutely love it. So if you're bitter at women, I would strongly suggest contemplating how you can begin appreciating them. One of the best ways to do that, as I mentioned, is to learn game.

7:20 And the reason that is, is because we hate what we don't understand. We hate what we don't understand. This is the big reason that like the Christians and the Muslims have been fighting for millennium is because they don't understand each other. It's a big reason for racism and people who hate somebody who doesn't believe what they believe. The second you start learning about that person, start understanding things from their perspective, you begin to like them. I mean, it happens all the time. Like you take a racist dude, a white guy is racist against blacks, and he meets like a really cool black guy and they become friends.

7:55 Suddenly, it's not so easy to be racist anymore because you see things from his perspective. You're gaining rapport with them, and you're like, oh, we're not so different after all. We just want the best for ourselves and our family and our friends, and that's human nature. So it's the same thing with women. They just want the best for themselves. Yes, I understand. Sometimes they can be a little bit, quote unquote, crazy. But to me, they're not crazy. Like I have a 23-year-old nanny that's in our house every day of the week, and she's really feminine, and I love it, man.

8:27 I just like I kind of smile to myself because I know the things that she says. You know, she's young, and she's really feminine, and the things that she says and the things that she does, it's like cool to me because I understand female psychology. Once again, we hate what we don't understand, and we appreciate what we do understand. Well, I understand female psychology really well. So when she tears up, when she's watching a commercial, right, she cries like all the time because she's really feminine.

8:55 I think it's adorable. I think it's awesome. And like with Marissa, my girlfriend, when she freaks out about certain things or gets emotional about things, I know why it is. So I don't think she's crazy. I think she's feminine, and I love the feminine, and I know as the man how to bring the masculinity into that in order to soothe her and heal her and make her feel better and let her go into her feminine while I move into my masculine, and then the sex is awesome is because we have a good polarity there.

9:25 All right. Also, guys, you know, when you learn game, you can be in the driver's seat and not let yourself catch feelings before she has feelings. So this was always a big part of my success is that I would always kind of hold myself back. Like I would enjoy her. I would really appreciate her, and I wouldn't be like a dick. I wouldn't use girls. Well, I wouldn't use girls like recently. I used to use girls a lot in my early 30s and late 20s, but I learned my lesson.

9:50 But anyway, I would always hold myself back and wait for them to fall in love. And in my coaching, I teach how to make a girl fall in love with you. It's a really important skill to be able to do. There's very key psychological things that you do to her. You be the sanctuary. You show her a good time. You be that leader for her and leader to where she wants to be led. There's all these things that you do. Also, build trust and connection. And when she would fall in love, then I'd let myself go too.

10:18 Because if you catch feeling super fast, as a lot of you guys do, bro, she's not going to be necessarily on the same page as you. And if you try to pull women into the outcome that you hope will manifest, you start talking about relationship stuff too early. You start talking about being boyfriend and girlfriend. You start talking about taking trips together too early. She's going to reject you. And this is why guys get bitter at women, is because the guy gets emotional. He thinks that there's a great future with her.

10:47 She kind of agrees. She may say, yeah, I think so too. And then he does needy shit that gets him blown out. And then he blames women. Just like women get bitter at men. How do you feel about being a man who some women are bitter against just because you have balls in the penis? It's bullshit. You didn't fucking do it. Well, maybe you did some of it. I know I did. But we all do it to each other. So it's just reality. So that's really how it works, you guys, is that, you know, it's reality.

11:14 Okay? We are human beings. We are literally designed to go after the best thing for ourselves. And yes, there's female hypergamy, which means women want to upgrade. But so do we. Dude, do not lie to me, bro. If you're dating an eight, you know you freaking drop her for a nine with the same personality. And how do you think women feel? Like to us, looks are really important, right? And that's, again, an anthropological thing that's based on her health, which will show us how healthy of a baby she can get.

11:44 But we're really, really dependent on looks. So let's say it happened to me a hundred times. You date a girl. You think she's smoking. Everything looks good. And then you take off that underwear and it smells like a homeless man's armpit. You know you're going to blow her out. I did. I blew her out. Or she sucks your dick with her teeth or it's like super dry or it's just she has no rhythm. Man, we almost blow girls out for worse reasons than they blow us out.

12:11 So it's really from both sides. And the simple fact is, is you need to improve yourself to the point where you become so unbelievably attractive to women that they're not going to reject you. Then you have the power to either choose them or not choose them. That's the way I did it. And that's the way I suggest you guys do it too. All right. It was kind of a short podcast. It looks like I'm at about 13 minutes, but I'm going to go ahead and wrap this one up.

12:36 I do appreciate you guys listening. If you are bitter towards women, please God work on that because you know what? That's going to be a huge detriment to you being able to attract them. Once again, how do you start appreciating women? You start learning game. If you want to learn game with me, I am a coach. You can check me out at CoachMarkSingh.com. Click on coaching. See all the awesome testimonials that I have from my loyal clients. I really get amazing results from my guys.

13:03 And part of that is learning female psychology, learning how women are, and how to be the man that all women really want. Do that and your bitterness towards women will dissipate. All right, guys. Thank you again for listening and I'll see you in the next episode. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.

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