Sex & Physicality #5: How to Have Sex Like a Champion

0:00 So tonight, I'm going to stick my, inside your, yeah. Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. The only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate it. If you've been writing with us for a long time, I tip my hat to you. And if you're new to this channel, welcome. What we do here is teach you how to attract women with your masculine energy and also how to create a life for yourself that's fulfilling as a man without making any apologies for it.

0:46 I also am an NLP coach and NLP stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming. And I'm going to give you some NLP secrets today about how to have sex with a woman properly, how to put your inside her and make her look like she just got hit with a tornado and a screaming demon that can't even control the sound of her voice echoing through the city. And people are like, what in the hell is going on in that apartment? That's what we want to have happen tonight. So before we get started, I wanted to thank all of you who have left me a review.

1:18 We are up to 96 reviews on iTunes and I'm really shooting for 100. So just four more of you. So if you could please, you right now, the dude listening to this, if you could please just go leave me a review, preferably a five-star review, as well as some text would be appreciated. Of course, you should listen to this podcast first and make sure that it makes the cut for a five-star review, which I certainly intend to do here. I will get your name tattooed on my neck, a poem about you tattooed on my butt, and then a picture of your face slapped on the side of my car with 1-800-CHAMPION underneath it.

1:53 All right. So let's jump right into the content. So this is going to consist of several different parts, first of which will be the mentality that you have to have when you're having sex. Now, a lot of guys that I work with have issues with premature ejaculation, impotence, can't get it up, and NLP, which again is what I do, is able to solve that. So if you have those issues and you're looking for a solution outside of just taking some pill or some other stupid means to do it, you can hit me up at CoachMarkSingh at gmail.com.

2:24 Ask me about that. Or if you just want to sign up for some coaching, we can cure it in one session, one session. NLP is really good for that kind of stuff. That's CoachMarkSingh.com. All right. So your mindset. If you guys have listened to this podcast for any duration, you'll know that getting yourself into a masculine towards mindset is essential when you want to succeed with something. So oftentimes we have impotence because we're afraid of failing. Oftentimes we come quickly because we feel that we're the second wolf, which means we're the beta cuck, and we need to come quickly in order to get the sex over with so that the alpha doesn't catch us.

3:02 And actually, I'm going to be totally honest. I had a little bit of a problem with that too. When I started getting into this game, I started getting really good results. Well, I was boning chicks that were like retardedly hot, right? And I was having a problem with premature ejaculation. Reason being is I didn't feel I was worth enough for these chicks. So I would try to like come quickly to get it over with, really. And I got that fixed up where I could knock it out like a champ.

3:26 One tip where that's concerned is using those condoms that have that like extended cream on it, which basically kind of numbs you up, bro. It like totally makes you numb and you can go forever. I personally feel nowadays that condoms make you numb anyway. I hate condoms. But boys, you never want to let that horse out of the barn without a saddle. Don't let your red-helmeted warrior go into battle without his helmet on. You have to always strap up when you don't know the chick. Please don't raw dog it, dude.

3:54 Like so many of my friends, even fellow seduction coaches have gotten like chlamydia, gonorrhea. A good friend of mine has herpes. So this stuff is real. And I mean, even AIDS and other things can happen. So please strap it up, bro. Wear that Jimmy hat. Super important. So getting in the towards mentality. Really, without us doing a full NLP session on this, I'm going to just give you some basics. You want to get pumped up. You want to listen to music if you can, if you can sneak away and listen to a song.

4:24 I would even sometimes like do push-ups in the bathroom, like before we're going to go have sex. I'm like, all right, dude, it's going to happen. Let's get fired up. Get into that warrior mentality. Listen to my hundredth episode. That'll get you totally fired up, man. That thing will give you a boner the size of the Statue of Liberty and you're going to last all night if you listen to that thing. So you want to get yourself in your masculine energy. You want to picture yourself after you've decimated it, like her hair is messed up.

4:51 She looks like a screaming demon that just got hit with the tornado and you just destroyed it. She's cuddling with you, whispering to you how awesome you were. You want to picture the end result as positive, not negative. Oftentimes, anxiety is caused because we're picturing bad things happening. So you want to take control of the visualizations that are going on in your head and imagine yourself just crushing it. You could even imagine that you're watching a movie. What you do is you look up at the corner of the room because the way your eyes look up when you look up at the corner, that gets you in a mild state of hypnosis and you imagine a movie screen.

5:27 Now, what you want to do is make the scene black and white of you having sex with this girl, but you want to put you in color, her on her back with her legs spread and just like a look on her face like she's getting screwed by a freaking god, a Greek god. Or like imagine like when a fan meets Justin Bieber or like somebody famous like that, like the look in their eyes, put that look on her face and then you're just like crushing it, dude.

5:51 Like you just, you're all ripped and you can make yourself bigger and you can give yourself more color and then you can even imagine yourself glowing like a certain color and you're just crushing it. And then you want to imagine music in the background, like your favorite song going off in the background and you're just crushing it. Guitars in the background, champagne bottles popping, you just being a champion, bro. That's the mindset you want to put yourself in. Once again, my hundredth episode will put you right there.

6:18 So give that a listen when you get a chance. All right, let's dive into some of the tactics, okay? So first and foremost, you want to destroy it with the cunnilingus. If you haven't heard my previous episode of this series, cunnilingus, slide your tongue like this. I strongly suggest you listen to that because honestly, brother, how well you do with the actual penetration part isn't as important as how well you do with head, in my opinion. You could crush the head and then absolutely be just a jackass, you know, with the sex and it really won't matter that much.

6:52 If you can give good head, then what you do with the sex isn't really that important. Now, let me ask you this. How long do you think you should last? Okay, so most guys are going to say 20, 30 minutes is ideal. If I'm anything less than like five minutes, I'm a freaking two pump chomp, a one dip skip. But I'm going to be honest with you. Most sex, when they did a study on this, lasts seven to 13 minutes. Surprisingly, seven to 13 minutes. I guessed about 15 minutes. That seems to be, I mean, I haven't like looked at my watch, but like 15, 20 minutes, you know, and this is just penetration, just coitus as that character on the big bang theory.

7:32 What's his name? Sheldon always says that. Did you guys have coitus? It's so funny. So just coitus is like 15 minutes. Some people say seven to 13 minutes, 20 minutes, you know, with the chick you just met, you, you, you knock it out for like 10 minutes. You're good. You're good. And if you have to wear one of those condoms, that's fine. That extends, you know, the, the amount that you can last. If you can't come, that's something we can work on with NLP as well. That's also a psychological issue.

7:59 So if you, if you can't come the whole visualization that I gave you, where you're like knocking it out, what, like a champ is going to help. And it's also going to help you last longer coincidentally. So, so do that before, before you have sex. Now, when you first put it in, obviously you want to have her be sincerely turned on. And what I usually suggest is you go down on her first, give her the most amazing orgasm she's ever had with the tactics that I share in that episode, and then have sex with her immediately after.

8:29 So like what I would typically do is go down on her, give her a smash and orgasm. And then like you get up and like, you're all ripped, right? Maybe you're not ripped, but it kind of helps if you are. And then like you lick your hand and then you get the head of your dick wet and then you like stick it in. Now, if you have to put a condom on, admittedly that puts a kink in the flow, but it's worth doing it for your safety.

8:49 And it takes like a couple seconds, right? You give her a head and then you come up, put the condom on, get it a little bit wet. It might be lubricated already, but if it's not, get a little bit wet and then, and then stick it in. So what I suggest is you start off in missionary position, comedically called military position. And what you want to do is just kind of hold your weight off of her and then put it in, especially if you have like a body that you're proud of.

9:14 It's kind of gangster to like hold your weight off of her. Cause then you're like, your chest is all flexed up and it looks really sexy. And like, I found that girls kind of like to look at it going in and you just want to stick the, the head of it in first. Then you come out and then you inch it in a little bit more, come out and go slow, dude. This whole porno thing of just like pounding it out immediately, like a jackrabbit. Do not do that.

9:39 In fact, you want to start off slow, shallow, slowly start easing it in. And here's the thing, dude, tempo and pace. Okay. So, so many guys that I talk to just like, first of all, jackrabbit the shit out of it, or they're changing up their tempo and pace. So often I found that when you keep a consistent pace, like, do, do, do, do, do, do, do, right? Like be a drummer, right? Like keep that thing going on and be like, and like build it up, dude, build it up, build it up.

10:11 It needs to be like a seamless buildup into, into going faster and harder. Now, this also totally depends on the mood. Okay. So sometimes you guys just want to smash, you're playing hardcore music in the background. And I've mentioned, I have a playlist on Spotify. It's called Mark's Lift Heavy Ass Weights. And song number two is called The Match Made in Heaven. And when a girl wants to fuck, I put that on. Now, if she wants to make love, you put on Enya or some shit like that.

10:42 Sail away, sail away, sail away. And you're like, make love to this girl. Look her in the eyes. But sometimes you want to fuck. Sometimes you want to make love. And sometimes it's just sex. Kind of got to read her. And as I often say, the woman should be the barometer for your escalations, as well as the vibe between you two, how you're going to have sex with her. But let's just say standard issue, sexual, military position. Blah, you put it in, you start pumping. Now, you can like kiss her, making out with her is super good.

11:15 Kissing on her neck is super good. If you can contort your body enough, you can like lick her tits while you're doing it. But you're pumping it, dude. Like you look to the right and there's a mirror there and your ass is just going. And you're like looking like such a dweeb, bro. But, you know, sex is kind of embarrassing. But at the same time, he gives a shit, man. It's awesome. So keep that pace going, right? How many different positions should you rotate through? Okay.

11:41 First time you have sex. I mean, maybe two, if not just one. You just do military position the whole time. I call it military position, but you guys know what I'm talking about. It's missionary. So I would say like two probably. Like you on top of her for a while. Then she gets on top of you and rides you, which is fucking awesome. While she's doing that, you can like rub on her clit with your thumb. Definitely be feeling her tits. And definitely talk to her.

12:08 Not like a lot, but just be like, God, you're so fucking sexy. Like make her feel sexy, especially when she's in a vulnerable position. Like writing you, you want to be like, God damn, your stomach is so sexy. Your tits are so banging. Like whatever, you know, like throw it out there. Some chicks like to be talk dirty to. And you'll figure out the modus operandi of different women as you're building up into sex. Because like I said, you should have sexual tension going in your conversations before you guys even get physical.

12:38 And that's the best way to do it. So while you guys are talking about this stuff, you know, she's giving you clues into what she likes. I like it when guys do this. I like it when they do that. And you're like, mental note, going to break that out when we're having sex. I'm going to be a champ. Doggy style, I personally think that most chicks are a little bit hesitant to do that. I mean, bro, it totally depends, okay? But maybe not the first go, but hey, sometimes it is.

13:04 Some chicks absolutely love it because it can kind of rub on their G-spot a little bit. So it depends what they're comfortable with and ask them like, hey, are you comfortable if we did doggy style? I've had some chicks say like, no, or like, let's wait on that. Or some chicks are like, hell yeah. And like some chicks are like, dude, like rub my anus with your thumb. And I'm just like, oh God, right? Like, I don't know about you guys. And hey, bro, like what you're into is fine.

13:28 For me, exit only, off-ramp only. I'm not putting my finger or my dick into a place where poop comes out. Please. Not my thing. Hey, like I said, bro, if you're into that, I get it. Like chicks' asses are sexy. But when I look at the ass, I think about like doggy style. I don't think putting it in the Poudre River, as I call it. Poudre River is a river out here in Colorado. I don't stick it in the Poudre, personally. And like chicks will be like, dude, rub my butthole with your thumb.

13:58 And I'm just like, no, I don't want to do that. So, hey, if you're into it, like I said, go for it, bro. Lick that shit out, dude. Like, have at it, right? If a little turd pellet shoots out at you, it's your own fault, man, for going on an off-ramp. Off-ramp only. Exit only. Don't do not enter, right? There needs to be a do not enter sign right there. But up to you. Okay, so keeping the pace through the whole thing. Now, rotating through a bunch of different positions, in my opinion, isn't advisable because it dries out her vagina a little bit, especially if you're wearing a condom.

14:32 Dude, condoms, bro, they're the worst. Haven't they figured out, like, a better solution to that? Like, you'd think, as horny as men are, and as far as technology has advanced, they would have thought of a better thing than condoms. They fucking, they suck, dude. They're horrible. Like, I've had a condom come out in the girl, like, come off inside the woman. And it's like, uh, could you reach in there and grab it, please? And, ah, it's fucking horrible. So, another good reason to have a girlfriend is you get to raw dog all day, dude.

15:03 Just blast it anytime you want to. So, that's another good reason. But, as you're building up your skills, as you're building a harem, as you're getting better with chicks, please, God, in the sky above, don't let the elephant out of the stable without a freaking saddle on its back. Please don't do that, man. You're just going to regret it, dude. One funny thing I was just thinking of is, like, sometimes you could ask her, you could be, like, fucking her and be like, is it like giving birth to a rhinoceros?

15:30 She'll crack up. I don't know. Up to you if you want to say that. So, the most important thing, dude, is, like, pace, right? Building it up, building it up, building it up, keeping the pace going. The worst thing, and you see it sometimes on pornos, is, like, a dude who'll be, like, and then he'll, like, stop for a second, and then, and then stop, and then, and then stop, and it's because he's trying not to cum, but, again, you can take measures to prevent yourself from cumming and just keep the pace up.

15:58 Now, one time I was talking to two of my friends, and they were saying that sometimes girls will say, keep doing exactly what you're doing, and then the guy will, like, change up his pace. Well, the reason he does that, I think, is because it turned him on, and we all know that feeling of, oh, shit, I'm going to fucking cum, and then you got to, like, stop, right? You got to, like, hold for a second, okay? One thing you can do is pull it out and pinch just below the head of your penis, and then, and then underneath, so you, like, pinch it between your two fingers, and, like, pinch it kind of hard, and that'll make the orgasm kind of go away.

16:32 Now, another move, which takes a lot of freaking discipline mentally, but works like a champ, is if you tend to cum prematurely, and as I admitted earlier, I used to do that. I used to, not anymore, but I used to, before I got the NLP training, I used to be a one-pump chomp, dude. Like, I'd go to put it into a hot girl, and accidentally, it would rub on a pillow, and that, just spray everywhere, right? Like, launch it in her eye, and be like, oh, shit.

16:58 Okay, so, if you think you're going to cum fast, you can clue her in to this trick, which is cum, but don't touch it while you're cumming, and let it cum, and then think about anything else other than, like, sex and hot girls. Like, think about ice cream, a grandma, your new motorcycle. You got to control your fucking mind. So, it's like, you cum without cumming. You see what I'm saying? Physically, you cum, but you're not mentally indulging in it. So, dude, you can, you keep your boner and have sex again immediately.

17:29 So, let's say you're having sex with her. You're like, fuck, I'm going to cum. You can just pull it out, let it cum. It'll be like, zut, zut, zut, right? It's going to cum, and whether it shoots on her tummy or in your condom, but you don't touch it. You don't indulge in the orgasm as it were, and you don't think about it. That's the main thing. You're going to want to think about it, bro. It takes a lot of discipline, but you let it cum, and it's almost like a half cum, and then, boom, you can keep going.

17:54 Maybe change your condom, or if you're not wearing a condom, clean it up off of her, and then, boom, you can keep going. And it's amazing how long you can last, and what's interesting is we've all had it where we're trying to fight an orgasm, and it's not enjoyable. When you do this method, it's like you can fully enjoy it without cumming and really get into it. So, that's a huge secret that I suggest you guys try if you struggle with premature ejaculation. But remember, you only got to go like 10 minutes.

18:22 This whole 30-minute shit is bullshit. I think 20 minutes is more accurate. It's kind of like what I rock, but hey, if you do 10 minutes, you're fine. And like I said, if you go down on her correctly, bro, you can do 33 seconds. Really, it's like chicks are chill about it. And then you're laying there, right? She's spooning you, and she's like rubbing your arm. She's like, it's okay. It happens to everybody. And you're like, ugh, like the beta cuck, right? But hey, you know what? It's happened to all of us.

18:50 It's not that big of a deal. It'll just get super good at cunnilingus, which is something you can control and something you can get better at. And then boom, you'll be fine. Another good strategy is to bring a vibrator into the mix. And it's amazing how few women actually do this or have heard of doing this and like what it does to the sex. Now, you may be insecure and not want a little help. But in my opinion, if it makes her get off and you're the one who introduced her to it, so be it.

19:19 So you guys have had sex a couple of times and you're like, hey, have you ever used like a clitoral vibrator while having sex? And she'll, she may say yes or no, but you'd be like, would you be open to that? Dude, this is the way to make her into that screaming demon. So you like, you know, have sex just like we talked about. And then she puts the, you or her put the, uh, the vibrator on her clit. And then dude, she's going to have multiple, multiple orgasms.

19:44 I'm talking three, four, five, even sometimes six orgasms in one sexual session. Talk about blowing her away. Cause again, like the vagina itself actually doesn't have that many nerves in it. It's more like a pressure thing as they've explained it to me. It feels good, but it's not like as amazing as the clit. Now, when you're on top of her, you can kind of rub your, your pelvis or the, the part above your dick on her clit a little bit, but it's like, I don't know.

20:13 It doesn't really do that much. I don't think at least reportedly it's like, yeah, it feels good, but it's not like, like super, super good. And some girls can have vaginal orgasms, but it's pretty rare. Also, when you're on top of her in military position, you can kind of rub the head of your dick on the girl's G spot, which I've found gets them really going to. So you want to use your different positions to rub different parts of her vagina. You can, when you thrust, you can even kind of like rotate your button away, I guess, like side to side a little bit to get different parts of it.

20:48 Use your body to like put pressure on her sometimes and then lift yourself off other times. Girls find it really sexy when you do like a pushup for five minutes straight. And then you're just like, like thrusting it, looking dead in her eyes, telling her how sexy she is that, that kind of shit turns them on. Cause remember sex is, is very mental doggy style. Like I said, it rubs on the G spot a lot. If you can hit it correctly and then you want to, you know, hit it like a champ now slapping her ass.

21:17 I found a lot of girls like that. I've found a lot of girls really like that. So if you can get your slap down, dude, like it kind of takes skill, but you kind of want to like, like hit it and then come right back up. Right? So it's like, if you hit your hand, you can hit your hand and then keep your hands together. But if you hit your hand and then come right back up, right? It is like that slap, dude. Right? So you're fucking, you're getting her from behind.

21:49 You're just being a total drummer, dude, just crushing it like a champ. But yeah, like smacking her a little bit. You, you want to ask her like, dude, are you cool? Or do you like to have your ass smacked? And she'll be like, oh yeah. And then you're just like, what bap, right? She loves that shit. So that's another thing you can do with it. Pull her hair a little bit. And once again, she is the barometer. So you want to see how much she's into this shit.

22:11 If she's like pulling your hair and clawing you and stuff like that, when you guys are making out, you're like, all right, you, you want to go, you want to turn this into an MMA competition? Let's do it. And then you're just like pulling her hair, playing song to a Mark's lift heavy ass weights playlist and just crushing it like an absolute champ. All right. When you come, I suggest you totally indulge in it. You have worked hard for this moment. So go ahead and give it a go.

22:35 And it's funny because they have jokes like on the internet, right? Where you look like a total retard when you come and it's like, you can't look cool coming. So just, just indulge in it. Like I said, in a previous podcast, you probably don't want to come on her face unless she specifically wants you to, or if you're doing her doggy style, you can come on her back and then slap a sheet on her back. And it's called Supermanning a hoe because it looks like she's wearing a cape.

23:00 You could do that one too. But you know, you want to have some paper towels or tissues nearby. So if you launch it on her tummy, you guys can clean that up. And I've found chicks kind of find it sexy when you come, but just, just be mindful of your facial expressions. You know, like you got like one eye half closed and the other eyes like blinking really fast and your lips are doing these weird things. And you're like, it can be like pretty ridiculous looking, but also chicks, dude, like when they come, they get the old face, like, Oh, and like, I don't know.

23:31 Sex is kind of comedic when you really break it down and take away the seriousness of it. So you guys are listening to this podcast. You're getting much better with women and you're going to start to have sex with lots of different girls. And bro, I cannot stress enough. Please God, just buy some condoms, dude. Email me and I'll send you some. I mean, I won't, but I want to, because I want to keep you safe. I've seen some shit go down. And like, if a chick's willing to bang quickly, just remember, bro, she's banging other dudes.

23:58 She's willing to suck your dick in the bathroom. Well, how many dicks did she suck before? And that goes with kissing her too, right? If she's willing to kiss you super fast. I mean, Hey, like, look, a chick who's very sexual. It's fine. I'm not judging it. I'm just not going to stick my tongue or my dick in her mouth. That's personally me. You got to do what you got to do. But the safe way to play it, strap all the time, carry a condom with you, get the Mark Singh condom dispensing belt.

24:24 You'll be good to go anytime you're about to have sex with a chick. All right. So I think I've covered everything. I kind of just winged it tonight, but I think that was pretty much it. If you want to get my book, Guide to the Female Orgasm, I not only talk about cunnilingus, but I also talk about sex as well as other different methods I did not cover on this. So check that out by giving me a review or telling a friend about it or a review on a different platform like Stitcher or any of the other podcast apps.

24:50 Email me, coachmarksingh at gmail.com, and blah, I will reply with a bunch of epic programs trying to get to 104 more, dude. Please help me out. I'd really appreciate it. All right, guys. That's it for me. Thank you so much for listening, and I'll see you in the next episode. So tonight, I'm going to stick my inside your... Yeah. What? Why was it all like, yeah? How do you want it? Like, hella girly. Yeah. Like this, like, yeah. Like, you're thinking about it. Like, you're thinking about how good it's going to feel.

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26:13 Yeah. I can't be retarded. It's just not in me. Just be girly. I'm trying. I don't know what you want from me. Come on, bro. Tell me again how the second one goes. So tonight... Yeah. Like... Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'm literally saying exactly what you're saying. And you don't like it. I know. It just sounds weird when you do it. It sounded different in my head. I know. All right. Try it again. All right. Three. What? That's how you fucking mark. I didn't know that. It was a funny sound.

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