The #1 Fastest Way to Get INNER STRENGTH AND POWER!!!

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you listening. Today, we are going to talk about the fastest way to get inner strength and power. This is an awesome podcast that will probably surprise you about what I'm going to talk about, but this is so unbelievably important. And especially for Americans, this is a major sticking point that most people don't do.

0:43 So when you do this, you are going to have an advantage, a leg up to get a level of confidence, inner power, and self-respect that probably 90% of people don't have. Because this is such a rare quality. Before I jump into the content, I want to let you guys know that my free one-on-one consultation, that breakthrough session where you and I meet personally on Zoom and we chatted up like two boys around the campfire, is still available. I still have some spots open. I'm getting tons and tons of applications, but fortunately, my schedule is pretty open, man.

1:17 I can schedule multiple guys per day. So if you're interested in doing that, if you want to chat with me, you're interested in my three-month coaching program where I basically get into that brain of yours and using NLP reprogram you to think like you were born to think. Get you back to your natural self-esteem. Move all those bullshit beliefs like I'll be inconveniencing her. I'm not enough for her. She's too hot for me. You shouldn't approach girls. Sex is wrong. I'm unattractive. I'm not good enough.

1:45 And all these bullshit beliefs that somebody else gave you before you could defend yourself. Come into my program and let me reprogram that completely out of your head. Replace it with self-affirming beliefs. I am a girl magnet. I am a fucking 10. I'm a champion. That girl's lucky to talk to me. I'm going to leave her better from having met me. I am a light onto this world that anybody who interacts with me is lucky to do so. I'm going to give you those belief systems, the belief systems that you're supposed to have, the belief systems that you were born with before other people gave you their poisonous, toxic metaprograms.

2:19 That you've been hinting print on and getting the same result over and over again. That's what this program is specifically designed to do. Reprogram all that bullshit. In addition to that, teach you all my amazing, awesome techniques to get women so irresistibly attracted to you. They will turn into Stalker Texas Ranger. It's actually an upcoming podcast I'm going to do about some of the stories of myself as well as some of my pickup artist friends being stalked by girls. The crazy, insane shit that chicks will do when you get really good and make them completely fall in love with you.

2:52 I've had girls fall in love with me before who I never even kissed. I just talked to them at the bars. Just a couple weeks of talking to them, getting them deep into those emotions, those emotions, which is your job to bring her to, which I spoke about on my last episode. If you didn't hear that, check it out. When you get her in those emotions, boy, holy crap, my friend, Stalker Texas Ranger, you're going to have to be like, yo girl, cool your jets, you are coming unpeeled, drop it down to gear because you're kind of turning into a stalker here.

3:20 Hey, listen, when you stalk me, please promise to put the ladder back in the garage. All the other girls leave it resting on the house and it drives me crazy. It's like every day I got to go out and get that ladder and put it back in my garage. And the girl with the sniper hide, I could see that thing from a mile away. But, you know, I know she likes it. I know she likes her binoculars and her sniper rifle. I just hope she never takes that shot, you know.

3:42 And these are the kinds of funny things that you're going to be saying to girls when you come into my coaching program. So check that out at CoachMarkSingh.com. Click on coaching. If you want to get that one-on-one breakthrough session with me, click the red button, fill out the quick little form there and blah, you'll get on the schedule. And you and I will meet like homies meeting over a beer, talking about what the deal is with these crazy girls. Can't understand these girls, Mark Singh.

4:08 What do I do? And I'll be like, brother, I got you. I'm your big brother who's been up the mountain before and I'm going to show you the shortcut. So go ahead and sign up for that if you are interested. So what is the fastest way to get inner strength and power? This is so unbelievably simple but so unbelievably overlooked and dishonored in today's society. And you know what that is, brother? That's keeping your fucking word. Keeping your word. Let me ask you and I want you to be completely honest with me.

4:37 I'm asking you, bro, the guy listening right now. Yep, you. Nope, not the other guys. You. Do you do what you say you're going to do? Do you do what you say you're going to do? When you say something, is your word bond? Or is it just kind of something you throw out there because it's more convenient to just say it and then wiggle out of it later? Be completely honest. I want you to be as honest as you would have to be in front of God who knows every single thing about you.

5:05 When you say something, do you do what you're going to say? When you say you're going to be there at a certain time, do you show up on time? When you say you're going to do a favor for somebody, do you do it? Do you borrow money from people and not pay them back? Do you say you're going to get this part of your life settled and say, yep, this year is the year for me, baby. I'm going to get girls this year. Nothing's going to stop me.

5:26 And then you procrastinate. Do you say you're going to eat better and you don't do it? You say you're going to go to the gym and you don't do it. Every time you break a promise, both to others as well as to yourself, you are compromising your inner power. You are compromising your inner strength and your confidence. Listen to this. Your confidence is absolutely decimated when you don't keep your word. Your word is the most important thing that you have. It's the one piece of power where you can make a statement to the universe and make it come true by keeping it.

5:57 Let me tell you this, brothers. This is so important. You become a powerful creator when everything you say you do. You say it to the universe like you're in some penitentiary. My word is bond, bro. My word is bond. And everything you say to the universe manifests. What kind of creator would you be if everything you said you did, down to the penny honest, every word you wrote, every word you texted, every word you said was a fucking promise. How do I know it's true, you say?

6:29 Because every word I say by definition is a promise. Every word I say by definition is a guarantee. Have you ever tried to live this way? Have you ever tried to be so unbelievably honest that you won't even utter a word until you're 100,000% sure that you can honor it? When you declare something and it's as good as done, that's the ultimate power of the universe. And it has to start somewhere, doesn't it? It starts with you, bro. And it can start as soon as today. Make the declaration and make it seriously because once you declare it, you have to stick to it.

7:06 Every word I say from this day forward is fucking a promise. Every word I say is bond. I will not lie. I will not cheat. I will not steal. Every word I say, I'm going to do. Marissa, my girlfriend, used to live in Argentina. And I swear to God, it's a beautiful country. I really want to go visit it. But brother, I could not live there because she says that people just say things just to say it to make each other feel better and never do it.

7:32 Oh, yeah, I'll show up at this time. And they don't come. I'm like, how did you live there? And she's like, it was really tough. It was really tough. And the thing I love about Marissa, one of the main reasons she was able to get me is because on our first date, she admitted to me later, she really did not want to go. She didn't feel good. She had a headache. But she made a promise to me. She said, I'm going to go on a date with this guy.

7:55 And she didn't even know me. And she still showed up. Unfortunately for her, it was the best night of her life. And I'm just kidding. But it was a really good night. Like, we hit it off really well. And later, she told me, she's like, I'm so glad I went on that date. And I'm like, of course you are, bro. Is there a mustache in Mexico? Come on. Of course you're stoked you went on that date. But in all seriousness, this is something I really respect about her is that even though she lived in Argentina for four years, and it's sick because she can speak Spanish fluently.

8:22 But even though she lived there, she still sticks to her word. Everything that woman says is bond. If she says she's going to be there at a certain time, she's going to be there. If she says she's going to do a certain thing, she's going to do it. And goddamn right, it's the same with me. I asked her today before I filmed this podcast. I said, listen, I want you to be 100% true with me. Is every word I say a promise? And she's like, oh, yeah.

8:43 And I was like, no, seriously. Like, I want you to be brutally honest with me. Is my word trustworthy? She's like, 100%. Everything I say, I do. Now, I have the memory of an 89-year-old man. So as she pointed out to me, sometimes she needs to put things on my calendar because she'll ask me, hey, we're going to dinner tonight at my sister's house. You coming? And I'll be like, oh, yeah. And then I'll forget about it. And I'll be like in the garage working on my ATV.

9:06 And she'll be like, okay, we're leaving. I'll be like, we're leaving. Where are we going? To my sister's house, you idiot. You're such an idiot. I can't believe what idiot. Nah, she doesn't say that to me. But I forget shit. But still, man, it's like when you make a promise, you got to keep it because that's your word. And then if people can't trust you, if people look at you as a flake, everything you say, I don't know if he's really going to do it. I had a friend like that.

9:28 I'm not going to say his name out of respect for him. This guy would just make claims. He says, I'm going to do this. I'm going to do that. And he would never fucking do it. So none of us trusted him. We'd be like, oh, yeah, right. Yeah, him. Yeah, like he's really going to do that. He would say, I'm going to break this record. I'm going to build an airsoft gun that shoots further than any other airsoft gun. Like he'd just come out with these things out of thin air and say these things.

9:49 And I'd be like, yeah, right. It'll never happen. And guess what? It never happened. So what was his confidence like? Well, I can tell you because I knew him very, very little because he even knew anything he said. He couldn't even trust himself. And that's when you get inner power is when you say something. And you know, you're going to fucking do it. And then you trust yourself. And when you trust yourself, you get more confident because confidence comes from competence. Knowing I can do this, knowing I will do this.

10:15 So, bro, when you say something, you have to fucking do it because then you keep the promises to yourself. You keep the promises to others. In so doing, you get that inner power. You know, your word is as strong as Jesus manifesting bread in his hand. Because, listen, I am going to do this. It's fucking done. There's no question. I will move heaven and earth to make it happen. There's no question whatsoever. Like, bro, when I make an appointment with you to meet on our breakthrough session, that free one-on-one session I'm offering, you can fucking guarantee I'm going to be there.

10:47 The question I ask is, are you going to be there? And I make damn sure that I make you guys promise. Also, when you join my coaching program, I give you an NLP protocol, a custom NLP protocol that I design specifically for you to remove your meta programs, your traumas, your schemas, everything about you. And I make you promise me three times you're going to do it. I actually send a video to my clients and I say, watch this video, answer these three questions. Do you promise to do the NLP processes I'm about to send you?

11:17 Do you guarantee you're going to follow up and do them? Are you intentional to remove the bullshit programs in your head and replace them with positive ones? Three questions. They have to reply back, say, yes, yes, yes. Once I get that from them, you make somebody promise three times, their words fucking bond. They're going to do it. And what happens? All my clients do do it because I make them promise me. But I shouldn't even have to do that, should I? Every single one of you guys from here forward, you have to say to yourself, my word is as good as law.

11:48 What was the movie? I think it was Pulp Fiction. He says, every word I say by definition is a promise. Was it Pulp Fiction or Reservoir Dogs? It was one of the Quentin Tarantino ones. Anyway, I love that. Every word I say by definition is a promise. I will be there. It's going to happen. I will pay you back. It's going to happen. I will keep my breakthrough session with Mark Singh. It's going to happen. And I'll tell you, 99% of guys keep their session. One dude flaked a couple of days ago.

12:13 And honestly, it's like no big deal. But I was just thinking to myself, dude, that guy flaked, he's got serious confidence issues. Serious confidence issues. Because if he can't even keep an appointment with a guy who in his questionnaire, he said he highly admired. He really wanted to meet me. He loves my podcast. And bro, if you're listening, this is for you. And you can change it starting today. That was the old you. But I want to let you know what you did cannot be done from this day forward because it is going to compromise you.

12:44 I don't really care that you flaked on me. Honestly, I have plenty of people waiting. But the thing is, is I worry about you. I was like, oh my hell, this poor guy. This poor guy definitely has confidence issues because he didn't show up. He made a promise. I'm going to show up. I booked my Zoom call. We're good to go. And then he doesn't come. And I gave him the opportunity. Hey, was it an emergency? What happened? He didn't even email me back. This guy has serious confidence issues.

13:08 And brother, I feel sorry for you. I have compassion for you. But for the rest of you guys, even if you don't sign up with me, it's cool. Listen, I have a waiting list. I'm fine. But what I'm saying is keep your fucking promises. Even promises who you make to people who you feel are quote unquote lesser than you. People who you don't care about. Somebody asks you, hey, can you come to my soccer game? You're like, man, it's my little cousin. I don't really give a shit about him.

13:31 Yeah, I'll try to be there. Don't even say that. If you're not going to do it, then don't fucking say. Or you could say, brother, let me think about it and I'll get back to you tomorrow. And you keep that promise. You're going to think about it. You get back to him tomorrow and then you tell him the truth. Listen, I'm really busy. I was really looking forward to my Saturday. I was just going to chill with my girlfriend. I'm going to do that, brother. But I wish you nothing but the best.

13:54 Text me afterwards. Let me know how it went. Why can't you just do that? Why are people making these false promises to one another where they don't intend to keep them? The reason is, and this is a big epiphany that I had and I hope you have too, is because people are afraid of confrontation. What is confrontation? It's social pressure. What is your job to get better at life, to get better at women, to get better at everything? To purposely put yourself under that social pressure.

14:20 So don't be afraid to say no. Don't be afraid to not commit to certain things. If you don't want to go to that dinner party, if you don't want to go to that soccer game, if you don't want to date that girl anymore, don't be afraid to just say no. I don't want to because my word is fucking bond. If I'm going to tell you I'm going to be there, I'm going to be there. And if you go do something you don't want to do, what are you doing to yourself?

14:42 You're compromising your own integrity to yourself because you don't want to fucking be there. So now I want to offer you the suggestion that you make this affirmation a daily thing you say to yourself. My word is law in the universe. Let's say it together three times. Repeat after me. My word is law in the universe. My word is law in the universe. My word is law in the universe. There you go. From this day forward, you will fucking do everything you say you're going to do.

15:13 You will be down to the penny honest. You will have the courage to disagree with someone and say, sorry, brother, I don't want to do that. And be completely truthful with them about what you will do, what you won't do, what you will take, what you won't take, what you will stand for, and what you will not stand for. That is because your word from here forward is fucking law. And what happens, you unlock in yourself a confidence, an inner respect, an inner power that you never had before because you know every word you say is going to come true by definition.

15:46 Just like Buddha manifesting a flower in his hand. You know, the second you say something, it's going to happen. It's going to happen. There's no doubt whatsoever. So what are you going to do with this knowledge? Are you going to be a man of your word? And listen, forgive yourself for everything you've done in the past. I've lied. I've not kept my word. I've done that so many times, especially in my 20s. I was a flake. Not anymore, my brother. Not anymore. Now it's my word is fucking bond.

16:13 My word is as good as done. And you can make this decision from today forward as well. And it's an easy decision, but at the same time, it's also very radical because you will be part of a very few elite that actually do what they say they're going to do. What's going to happen? You're going to respect yourself more. Other people are going to respect you more. Women are going to be more attracted to you. You're going to become stronger because you're not going to do shit you don't want to do, thereby purposely putting social pressure on yourself that you learn to endure and you get stronger frame.

16:44 You get a stronger masculine presence. Everything improves in your life when you decide your word is fucking law. So that's the decision. Let's make it together, man. My word is fucking law. I'm going to be honest. I'm going to be disagreeable. I'm going to do what I want to do. And the second I say something, I'm going to fucking do it. And I'm going to tell you guys something. I am going to deliver that podcast on Friday. I will move heaven and earth. Why? Because I just said it to you.

17:10 That's why, you know, it's funny. Marissa lived in Argentina. I lived in Japan. What I liked about Japan is those motherfuckers, their word is bond, yo. Like they say something, they show up. They're always on time. They always do what they say they're going to do. There's no bullshitting to make you feel better. Hey, I'm going to do this. And that's where I learned this from. It's honor. It's Bushido. It's the Japanese way. And that's your honor, dude. That's your integrity. That's inside you. That's your warrior spirit.

17:35 The warrior does what he says he's going to do because he's integral. He's one with himself. And he knows when he lies to others, he lies to himself. When he says he's going to do something, I'm going to go to the gym. And then he doesn't go, bro. That is a huge hit on your self-esteem. You just got to go. The second you say something, you do it. So that's our challenge from here forward, brother. And I'm with you. Shoulder to shoulder in the trenches. It's not always easy.

17:59 It's not easy. Sometimes you just don't feel like doing something. But feelings are fucking feminine. Fuck feelings. The masculine does what he has to do, not what he wants to do. Remember that. Disculinity does what it has to do, not what it wants to do. And you have to be a man of your word. So brothers, moving forward, our word is bond. We are the unapologetic man army. And whatever we say we're going to do, we're going to do. And if you want to get on with me, a one-on-one coaching call, I'm going to show up, brother.

18:26 I'm going to move heaven and earth. And I'm going to do everything. And I'm telling you right now, this is my word. I am going to help you. I am going to move heaven and earth to be there. I am going to do everything I can to get you success with women. Even if I have to drag your ass across the finish line, kicking and screaming. That's my word to you. It is law. It will never be broken. It will manifest just as sure as Friday's podcast.

18:50 And regarding Friday's podcast, I'm going to talk about, how to manage your money. This is something I'm really excited about. I've been studying a lot lately. I feel like I have a lot of really good information to share with you guys when it comes to this. And if you're one of the guys, you're like, I really don't want to listen to that. You're probably the guy who has to listen to it the most. Because one of the things about money is if you're avoiding it, you probably don't have much of it.

19:11 And this is the way to get more of it. Even if you are just earning a paycheck and you're almost living paycheck to paycheck, this is still the way to increase your money, even if you don't have much of it. So stay tuned for that, guys. I do appreciate you listening. I know your time is extremely valuable and I do honor that. Thank you for giving me your time so you can hear my words. And I give you my word. I will always try to deliver the best content on this podcast.

19:36 I will always honor you guys and thank you guys. I will always be here for you on the breakthrough sessions. And even if you want to email me, send me some love. I will send you some love back. Things are growing so fast. This is a magical thing that's happening here. I know that sounds cheesy, but I really believe it. Sometimes I feel like there's a force in the universe just pushing me along with this podcast, pushing me along with my coaching business. Everything is just working so perfectly.

19:59 It's all falling into place. I get ideas every day. It's just manifesting and it's cruising beautifully. And my job is to do everything I say I'm going to do, to have honor, integrity, to respect both you as well as this business, as well as this podcast. Because I know the second I start neglecting it, the second I start focusing on the greedy things, my ego, things like trying to make money when I'm not helping guys, that's when everything falls apart. My main priority and my word to you is I help you first.

20:28 The money that comes is secondary. It's just a tertiary benefit that I get from staying on my purpose. And my purpose is to help my boys, my brothers, and that includes you, my bro. Hit me up for that one-on-one coaching call. I would love to meet you. All right, guys. That's it for me in this podcast. Please stay tuned on Friday and I will see you in the next episode. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.

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