The Beta Male Downfall: Cynical Superiority

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0:44 Today, we are talking about cynical superiority, the downfall of the beta male, male, male, male. What the hell does that mean? I mean, you clicked on it. What do you think it means? I don't even know what it means. I just threw it out there and was like, ah, they'll probably click on this piece of shit. And you did, bro. You clicked on it. Lorde bamboree. I have no idea what the hell it means. Actually, I do. Cynical superiority. What does cynical mean? It means being negative.

1:10 It means being hateful towards others. It means being a douche canoe of the highest degree. Superiority, feeling better than others. So, it's basically being a negative guy who feels above others because of it. And today, we are going to talk about why it manifests. And I got a little drama for you, a little drama to share about a family member who said that you and I were creepy for learning how to pick up girls. I'm going to blow a hole in his argument so big that even I could fuck it.

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2:30 So we all have an ego, and an ego is that thing inside of you that wants other people to notice that you're a champion. It wants people to know that you're good at what you do, you're smart, you're good-looking. You have an ego wrapped around those things which you feel you should be appreciated for, and the ego looks for external validation to prove to itself that it is enough, that it exists, that it is worthy. So people's egos latch on to a myriad of different things.

3:02 One way the ego latches on to things is by saying, I am XYZ. I am a surfer. I am a baseball player. I am a skater. I'm a punk rock guy. I'm a wealthy millionaire. I'm a lawyer. I'm a doctor. The ego loves to grab onto things. And it'll even grab onto things that are negative. I'm a victim. I'm ugly. I'm not enough. I've been taken advantage of by others. I'm marginalized. I'm doomed to failure for the rest of my life, and please feel sorry for me because of it.

3:34 Girl, I'm doomed to failure. I just can't succeed in life. Will you please have sex with me? Can my tears be lubricant for sex as I have sex with you? And she's like, hell no. Hell no. And she rejects you. And what happens to guys who are particularly intelligent is this thing called cynical superiority. So here's what happens. You get a really intelligent guy who just doesn't understand how to attract women. He's born with some beta cuck tendencies. He has some nerd mannerisms. He might have a high voice like I have.

4:05 He might not know how to control the frame. Isn't very funny. Maybe super introverted and shy. Doesn't know how to approach girls. Doesn't know how to interact with them. Doesn't know how to take them to where they want to be led. Can't make them laugh. Can't make them have good emotions. Can't get sex with them. But he's really intelligent. So what does he do? What is the ego going to do? The ego is going to say, God, women are idiots. Women are dumb. They can't drive.

4:30 They're overly emotional. They don't make any sense. I hate women. This is what the cynical superior beta male says. And I'll tell you what. This is so rampant with my clients. One of the things that I do before I interview you is I ask you a series of questions. And those questions are to identify a myriad of different beliefs. And one of them is, how do you feel about women? If you, and I want you to be 100% honest with me, as well as honest with yourself.

4:59 You, not the other guy listening. I'm talking to you, bro, right now. Are you bitter against women? Are you angry at women because they've rejected you? Because you don't understand them. And I'll tell you, we always hate what we don't understand. So when you have this particularly intelligent guy who hates women, what's his ego going to do? His ego is going to latch onto the fact that women are irrational. They're stupid. They can't be trusted. And he doesn't want them. Ever hear of this movement, men going their own way?

5:30 This is the premise of that movement. And frankly, I disagree with it. If you decide to go your own way and renunciate women, totally reject them and say, I don't want them anymore because you didn't develop the skill set to be able to get them. All you're doing is leading yourself into loneliness and misery. Because I'll tell you, one of the most fundamental needs of you as a man is a woman. That opposite energy polarity, that femininity that matches your masculinity. We need that. And I'll tell you, being lonely, they did a study.

6:01 Being lonely is as bad for your health as smoking 14 cigarettes a day. Think about that. Being lonely, which means not having a woman or not having women, is the same as smoking 14 cigarettes a day. That's how painful it is. And now we go to my uncle. My uncle has been alone for 20 years. He is the king of cynical superiority. And yes, he is a beta male if I've ever seen one. Part of the reason I worked so hard to become an alpha male is because throughout my entire life, he's just ripped on me.

6:33 Ripped on me, ripped on me, ripped on me, insults me at every turn. Example, one time I was a Spartan for Halloween. It was right after 300 came out. I got super shredded. I was living in Hawaii at the time. I got a Spartan helmet and a shield, which I still have, sitting right next to me right now in my office. Had the sword, had the everything, the whole nine yards. And I was shredded, dude. And I had a super hot girlfriend. We took pictures out in Waikiki.

6:58 Everybody was taking pictures with me. It was like a really great celebration of the year of hard work I did to get ripped. Sent it to all my family members. My brother and my mom was like, dude, you look great, man. You got totally shredded. That's a fucking awesome costume. My uncle wrote back, you look like a fucking fag. Right? Now, what was he? Peanut butter and jealous. Peanut butter and jealous, bro. Jails all up in this piece. And I knew that at the time, but it still hurt.

7:26 It hurts when a family member insults you, even if you have almost no respect for that family member. And a lot of you guys listening know that your father, your uncle, your grandpa, your mom, your sisters and brothers, whoever it may be, are cynically superior to you for whatever reason it may be. A lot of the time, it's because of jealousy. A lot of the time, it's because of jealousy. But with men, men become cynically superior towards women. And he is a prime example of a beta cuck who let that cynical superiority of his ego justify to him his 20 plus years of loneliness.

8:00 That's 20 years of smoking 14 cigarettes a day or the equivalent thereof that he has had going into his body. Now, part of me is very angry at him. But another part of me, as I talked about duality of thought, has massive compassion for him. And I actually send him prayers often. And I've actually thought about offering him to come into my coaching program. Do you think he'd ever do it? Fuck no. Fuck no. He'd say it's the stupidest thing. It's creepy to learn how to attract women.

8:29 But you and I both know, brother, it's creepy not to learn how to attract women, isn't it? It's creepy not to learn this stuff. Because when you get the skill set, what you're doing by listening to podcasts like this one, you're able to attract and entertain and lead women the way a man is supposed to do it. Him, on the other hand, he's the creepy one because he doesn't know what the fuck to do. But, of course, he's cynically superior. He thinks he's superior to us because I'm not going to learn that stuff.

8:57 That's creepy. So he justifies to himself why he's alone. But where does that get you? It gets you alone at night wishing you had a woman in your arms. Alone at night wishing you had a family. A daughter like I have. Who, when I see her every morning and she runs up to me and hugs me, is the best moment of my day. Why? Because I got the skill set to be able to attract an amazing woman. We have an amazing child together. Is that creepy?

9:23 Fuck no. That's being a man. That's going into that which you don't know willingly. Because, again, what you don't understand, you fear, you hate. The secret is to understand it. And that's what we're doing here with the work that you and I are doing, both in my coaching program as well as this podcast. Now, I don't want you guys to think that I'm saying men are the only ones that are cynical. Okay? You know just as well as I do. And images are flashing through your mind of extremely angry women who hate men.

9:53 Why do they hate men? They don't understand them. And we as men can be pretty damn frustrating to women. We don't make sense to them, just as women don't make sense to a lot of us. They make sense to me because I've studied them. I really understand them. But look at women who are angry at men. Look how ugly they look. Like, I want you to picture, and I know which picture you have in your head. Have you guys seen that girl with the glasses and she's like pre-yelling and it's some like super left-wing rally and she's just super pissed off?

10:21 Okay, listen, I don't want to criticize those who have been marginalized. I fully understand and affirm that there are races, genders, etc. that have been marginalized. But I'm saying oftentimes people go way off the fucking deep end and they think it's because they're being marginalized. But oftentimes it's just because they don't understand the opposite sex and they lack the ability to attract them. And you see this all the time at those rallies. Not only left-wing. I'm not attacking the left. Right-wing too. Anybody who's angry and rallying, what's the reason behind it?

10:54 Is it really because of the Second Amendment? Or is it because you were rejected by the hunk in high school and college and at work and the rest of your life and you're ugly and you can't get dudes because you don't understand them? Or for guys, you can't get girls so you go the men going their own way movement and you become bitter at women. It's not women's fault. It's your fault that you don't learn how to attract them. That you don't work on your masculinity.

11:22 That you don't work on yourself. Invest in yourself and become the very best man you can be because I guarantee you, I don't give a shit what you look like. I don't care how bad you've been with women before. Let me get my hands on you. I'll turn you into a fucking Casanova. I absolutely will. I do it all the time and it all starts with understanding women and when you understand them, you love them. And here's my next point. Women can sense when you're bitter at them.

11:49 They can sense when you're cynically superior to them saying, oh, stupid bitch, right? Fucking women, dude. Okay, let's go on a date. And meanwhile, you're thinking, fucking dude, this chick can't drive. She's a fucking woman. Oh, I wonder when her period's going to come. She's going to fly off the handle. She's sensing that from you. Then what happens, she rejects you and it's a sick self-perpetuating cycle that happens to men all over the world. And it's my job to work with you guys and show you, dude, women are beautiful.

12:17 They're amazing. Femininity is absolutely amazing. It's what gave birth to you. It's what gave birth to you, bro. Have you ever had a pussy wrapped around your neck? Yes, you have when you were born. Now, that's a joke to demonstrate that your mom was a woman. Why would men hate women with such severity when their mom was a woman? Their mom gave life to them. And even those of you who were abused by your mom and God bless you, I feel bad for you. I empathize.

12:43 I have compassion with you. But she still kept you where she had birth to you and she gave you life. Yet men are hating women. It makes no sense to me. Brother, you have to love them, the way they smell, the way they look, the way their voices sound, the way they move, and even the seemingly crazy shit they do, which when you understand them, you will understand why they do it. And this leads me to my final point. In order to understand women fully, you have to understand how to attract them.

13:09 Because when you understand how to attract them, you understand their psychology to the deepest possible level. And also, and probably more importantly, you understand your own psychology to the deepest possible level. The reason why I love this niche, the reason why I love to teach men how to attract women, because ultimately it's not even about attracting women. It's about becoming the best version of you in understanding how women work. And yeah, there's tricks and techniques and all kinds of cool shit that I teach. But ultimately, when you become secure with yourself, when you become masculine, self-validated, highly confident, keeping your word, invoking the law of attraction, all the things I talk about, brother, you don't even need those techniques.

13:52 You just walk into a room, every girl looks. How do I know this is true? Because I myself experienced that when I never did before. What was the difference? I invested in myself, I worked on myself, and I understand women to the deepest possible level. And I love them. I absolutely love them. Am I creepy for trying to understand women? Hell no. It's the opposite of creepy. Creepy is not trying to understand them. Living alone for 20 years and being miserable. And uncle, I send you compassion and love and I wish you the best because I really care about you.

14:23 But your inability to admit your faults, your ego latching onto that cynical superiority and holding yourself above others because it's the only way you can justify not succeeding in your life is an illusion. And it's an illusion that so many poor men go down as well as women. So what do we do now? We admit to ourselves, I need to work on this. We admit to ourselves, I need to understand women. I need to understand myself. And when I do feel cynically superior, and I have those thoughts, women are less, oh, they're stupid, fucking bitches, all they care about is XYZ, you need to stop that in your own mind immediately.

15:02 Catch it as if it's a toxic plague entering your brain. Because not only is that going to make women less attracted to you, what you focus on expands. What you focus on expands. So that is going to be your experience. If you believe women are bitches, you're going to slide on every bitch in Tinder that you possibly see. If women believe that men marginalize them, they are going to attract to themselves a situation where men marginalize them. That's why people who believe they have this reality experience that reality.

15:33 It's because they convince themselves and their ego has locked onto that victim mentality that I am victimized. I am marginalized. And the universe says, yes, you are. Here's this dude to do it to you. Here's this guy to do it to you. And for men, here's this woman to reject you. Here's this gorgeous woman you're going to fall in love with. But because you don't understand her, because you don't have the skill set to get her, she's going to reject you. And further consolidate your belief that women are inferior, that they're stupid, that they're irrational, and you'll never be able to get them, not because of you, but because of them.

16:05 This is the beta male downfall, cynical superiority. Look for it in yourself. Be completely honest as if you're standing in front of God and he knows everything about you. Do you have this inside you? Are you bitter towards women? If you are, what's the answer? Come with me and let's learn about women. Let me teach you about women. Or if you're not ready to invest in yourself, you don't like me as a coach, that's totally fine. Listen to Tripp Kramer's podcast. There's another podcast by my friend Melanie called Dear Men.

16:33 Listen to that one. Listen to the Ask Women podcast by Marnie. These are really great podcasts to teach you the psychology of women so you can start loving them because we love what we understand to a deep level. And you guys, women, fuck, man. I just can't believe some of you hate women. What the fuck? It really makes no sense to me emotionally, but rationally, I completely get it because I used to be that guy too. But Jesus H. Christ, Lorde, Bamboree, when you got one of those girls in the cuddle shuttle and you're just holding her tightly and you're smelling her sweet skin and you're kissing her, there's no better feeling in the world.

17:09 There's no better feeling in the world. So this is my suggestion to you. Uncle, if you're listening, which you certainly aren't, please take this under consideration. And even if you don't, man, I love you, brother. And I wish you nothing but the best. Eventually, you'll learn that you really do get the life you choose. All right, gentlemen, I got another awesome one dropping on Wednesday, so please stay tuned for that. And if you could please leave me a review, I'd really appreciate it. I'm really trying to grow this podcast, guys.

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