Get 47% More Attraction From Women | NLP Mind Hack: "The AAI Method"

0:00 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of The Uniform Mike Papa, the UMP. I really do appreciate you. And today, we are going to talk about the NLP process called Act As If. Act As If. This is something that nobody ever talks about, something that I use all the time myself, and it amazes me that I can get this many episodes in and never even mention this to you guys because there's so much content to go over.

0:43 And of course, in my three-month coaching program, I save all the creme de la creme processes, tricks, and techniques for my clients who actually have the cojones to join us. But occasionally, I'll give away some of those breadcrumbs in this podcast, and that's what I'm going to do today, the Act As If method. So here's how this episode is going to go. First, I'm going to tell you about what this is and why you guys are giving yourself too little credit when it comes to your attractiveness to women.

1:10 And then I'm going to show you how to do this in real time so you can become, what did I say, 47% more attractive to women. God, those numbers, guys. You click on them every time, man. All you got to do is just be like, 10x your attractiveness to women, and people are just like, smash, smash, smash. Fucking clickbait every day of the week. But as you know, I always try to over-deliver. So sometimes I got to trick you into listening to something so I can teach you something that's actually going to help you.

1:35 For those of you guys who have been listening for a long time, smack yourself upside the head. You are a goddamn champion. But you know I have to read this review, man. I just got another review from my boy, Charlton. What is up, Charlton? Let's jump into it, and then we're going to go ahead and get into the content. Here we go. And by the way, this is about my three-month coaching program. Charlton says, I wanted to thank you for everything you have done for me.

1:56 Before the three-month program, I had nice guy tendencies and beta ideologies that were embedded in me. And although I knew they were there, they seemed almost impossible to remove. This course not only taught me all the tactical skills that are crucial for pulling girls, but also has benefited me at work and in social situations. After thousands of podcast hours logged, this program was truly responsible for removing these belief systems that I have been suffering from for years. I am now dating four gorgeous girls along with talking to multiple others.

2:30 But more importantly, I have the power in these dynamics now. These girls have been the ones trying to set up dates and pursue me, whereas before, I felt like I was always chasing. I cannot say enough great things about your program from girls to social intelligence and philosophy. I not only appreciate the knowledge you shared, but also the dedication you had for me as a client. I sincerely will forever be grateful, Charlton. Brother, I appreciate you so much. Gentlemen, gentlemen, you are going to get the same results over and over again unless you intercede and revise the files when it comes to your self-worth, when it comes to how you perceive dating women and how you feel your worth in comparison to them, whether or not you have scarcity belief systems like I'm not lovable, hot girls are too good for me, or a myriad of other traumas, belief systems, metaprograms, and archetypes that you were given before you could defend yourself.

3:23 Women's attraction for you is based on how you behave. The way you behave is based on your internal belief systems. If you have any negative internal belief systems, that's going to be reflected in your body language. It's going to be reflected in your mannerisms. It's going to be reflected in your tonality. And it is completely unconscious. You can't help but do this. Now, women are like little radar systems. They look at you, they listen to you, they see you, and they can just tell how congruent you feel with your own self-worth.

3:53 Women are designed to become attracted to a guy who has a high self-worth, who is highly effective in life, who is confident, has self-belief, and who walks around like a fucking champion. Are you that dude? Are you getting the results you really want with women? I have a program here that can intercede and update the files inside your head so that you behave as Charlton now does, who had zero women before he joined me. And now, like you said, he's dating four girls right now, all of whom are pursuing him, all of whom are hot, by the way.

4:25 And he's talking to a bushel of girls on top of that because now he has abundance, simply because we changed his internal belief systems. If you want to get on a free one-on-one call with us to discuss, whether or not we can help you, to discuss whether or not NLP is indeed the right answer for you to finally get the results that you really want with women, click the link in the description below. Fill out the quick application. You and I will email back and forth a little bit, and then you're going to get on a free one-on-one breakthrough session with me and my team.

4:53 Hope to meet you soon. All right, the act as if method. So how many times have you guys been out in like nightclubs or supermarkets or anywhere else, and you just kind of start talking shit to yourself and you start feeling really insecure? I'm willing to bet a lot of you guys have felt that way, if not feel that way pretty consistently when you're out trying to meet women. So we get into social situations that are largely intimidating, right? You go into, for example, a new nightclub, and the place feels intimidating because you're out of your environment.

5:26 You've never been there before. You feel that other guys who are there are higher value than you are, or you don't want to get rejected by girls and you have no idea how to talk to these girls. So you start feeling insecure. Well, with what I just talked about, how do you think that insecure feeling makes your body language behave? You're right, you close up, your head sinks a little bit, your eyes are kind of darting around, you look like you're scared. Do you think looking scared is attractive or unattractive to women?

5:56 Okay, it's obvious. It's unattractive to women. This is why guys who are comfortable in their own skin, comfortable in no matter what environment they go into, get attraction from women. But it all starts, as I mentioned, inside your own head. How do I feel in this moment based on what the outside circumstances are giving me? What is this environment doing to my confidence? How do I feel in comparison to that super banging girl over there who seems to be getting all the attention and who has rejected a bunch of guys in front of me and who I have no idea what I'd say to?

6:31 And would I have the balls to go over there and talk to her? Fuck no. So time after time, guys go into these situations, and not only in nightclubs and bars, but also in a supermarket, you see a super hot girl. What do I say to her? I don't want to bother her. She's probably annoyed. She has resting bitch face. She's on her phone. She's listening to music. You make a myriad of excuses as to why you can't approach her. And guys, this is very fucking normal.

6:56 This is why a very small percentage of guys actually get girls that fine because they have belief systems in their head where when they walk into these situations, they feel insecure automatically. How many of you can relate? Raise your hand. Yes, you there. You are correct. You can relate to this. And I feel you, man, because I can relate to it too. And this is why I feel like I'm a good dating coach is because I've seen both sides of the spectrum. I have been that insecure guy who, when he walks into a nightclub, it just feels fucking terrifying.

7:28 More terrifying than almost any situation I've ever been in. It's crazy how that can happen, right? And I've also been the dude who I am today. When I walk into the nightclub, I feel like this is my house and I'm completely comfortable being here. And I don't care how hot that girl is. She's getting approached. And if she rejects me, her loss because I have a high self-worth. So automatically, when we see girls who we deem as out of our league, we start to take on beta cuck mannerisms.

7:54 We act in ways that we're not proud of, right? We start to shrink a little bit. Our body language gets closed up. Our eyes start darting everywhere. We even get an unconscious dilation of the pupils, which is inevitable when you're scared. Think about somebody who's in combat for the first time. You guys have probably seen videos of this. How is that person behaving? Exactly like a low value dude behaves when he's around women who he's attracted to. And God bless these dudes who actually have the balls to still approach these girls, which I do see from time to time.

8:26 And I give these guys a gigantic smack on the back because it takes cojones to do that. But what they fail to do is act as if, which again, at the end of this episode, we're gonna do a very short NLP guided meditation to show you how to act as if in that moment. So these guys go into the situation, they fail to act as if, and instead they act as is, which basically means they act how they're feeling, which is absolutely terrified, which again, they're justified to act like.

8:59 Okay, so we automatically go into these situations with poor body language, poor tonality, poor deliverables of those things which make women unconsciously attracted to us. If I got my hands on you for one session, one NLP session, and I use some of the shit that I only use on my guys in my three-month coaching program, I will automatically make you twice as attractive as you were before you walked into the session, and it will take me 20 fucking minutes. Why? Because again, the way you behave is dictated by internal belief systems.

9:34 Women's attraction for you is based on how you behave. So if I can go in there and tweak one of the most important internal belief systems, then you will behave differently, walk across the room, and twice the amount of girls will check you out. Yes, it is that simple. In fact, it absolutely blows my mind that somebody hasn't come along yet and tried to copy this from me. Oh, I'm an NLP dating coach too because it's so fucking effective, and believe me, the copycats are coming, man, just the amount of time, just the amount of time.

10:03 But remember, I was the first dude to use this technology, and this is why I have the success rate I do. This is why Charlton can come in in literally three months, not even a season. And what I mean by season is like fall. It's about three months long. You can change from having zero women to dating literally what Bryce is doing four at one time and following up with four others, a constant rotation of chicks simply because you act as if. All right, so we're about 12 minutes in and you're like, okay, what is act as if?

10:32 It's just as it sounds. How would you act if you were a girl magnet? How would you walk? How would you talk? How would you hold yourself? How would your eyes look around? How would you look at that hot girl over there? If you were that girl magnet, that 10, that dude who's like Justin Bieber or Tom Cruise or whatever professional athlete you want to fill in the blank with, level of value, how would you behave? Would you walk differently? You're goddamn right you would. Would you talk differently?

11:02 Of course you would. Would you behave differently? Yes. Your voice would be different. Everything would change. So why don't the vast majority of guys act as if they're that dude? Well, because they feel like they're faking it. Really? Honestly, what's the difference between you being insecure and feeling like you're not enough for that hot chick and you feeling like you are enough for that hot chick and being very secure in yourself? Nothing. It just comes down to your history. And something I've been wanting to say for a long time in this podcast is a lot of you boys are becoming men literally as you continue to listen to my podcast.

11:36 And as men, we have the responsibility to protect, to nourish, provide, and preside over those people who are younger than us. I cannot tell you how much damage you can do to a young boy's mind when you say fucked up shit to him. As probably 99% of you guys have experienced, people have come along in your childhood and have said very cruel things to you that still affect you today. And because you haven't gone into your mind interceding and revising your files, you're getting the same results over and over again.

12:09 So I want to urge you guys to be very careful what you say to children. If you're losing your patience, that's on you and you have to be careful because if you say you're annoying or you're an idiot or you're being loud, shut the fuck up. It affects them. What happens when you tell a young boy, shut up. Children are meant to be seen, not heard. That means that he's going to be stifled. He's probably not going to want to go approach that girl when he's 29 years old and he sees a hot girl at the supermarket because his dad yelled at him when he was four years old, shut the hell up, you idiot.

12:39 Children are meant to be seen, not heard. So you guys have all had these embedded in your mind and I can almost guarantee the vast majority of you guys listening are resonating with this. Otherwise, you wouldn't be listening at this point. But you've had this embedded into your mind by somebody else before you could defend yourself from it. And now you're getting the same results over and over again and you never questioned, why am I buying into this? Just as much as this low value me is an illusion, which it is, and I want to repeat that because I really want you to get this, brother.

13:10 That low value you who doesn't get girls is a fucking illusion that you have bought into. Hook, line, and sinker. You've bought into it and now you're repeating the same performances like an actor on the stage. Why not choose to act as if you're a fucking girl magnet? Have you tried that? Have you walked into the supermarket, the nightclub, the fill-in-the-blank, just feeling like a fucking champion, a girl magnet? How would I behave if I were pulling girls the way Charlton's pulling them? If I had four girls chasing me, four really hot girls, by the way, and four other girls I'm talking to, an absolute abundance of girls, how would I walk into this supermarket, this sports store, the gym, wherever you're going into?

13:54 I'd hold my head up a little bit higher, wouldn't I? My chest would maybe stick out a little bit. My shoulders would be back. I'd have the pop in my giddy-up, the twinkle in my eye, and the glimmer to my smile, wouldn't I? I'd be a fucking champion, that's right. So what I want to urge you to do in this episode is to act as if you're that guy today. I want you to try it on, okay? Here's what we're going to do. Actually, not today.

14:16 Today, tomorrow, Saturday, and Sunday. That's your assignment from me, Uncle Mark Singh. I want you to act as if you are everything you want to become already. How would that feel? How would you behave? How would your energy feel vibrate? What kinds of things would you say? Would you let people walk all over you? And most importantly, brother, if you saw that hot girl standing over there, would you talk yourself out of approaching her? Fuck no, you wouldn't. You'd go do it. So acting as if is something we can do, also known as fake it until you make it, until you make it, right?

14:50 You just act like that dude who you want to become and just say, fuck it. Why am I acting like this dude who somebody else programmed? And literally, boys, somebody else programmed that into you. So why are you following it? Why are you buying into it? Question it. Deny it. Step into a new reality of yourself. All right, we're going to get into the NLP process now. It's very short. I do this literally all the time. Okay, so if you're driving, operating machinery, you can just kind of imagine along with us.

15:20 But if you happen to be in a place where you can close your eyes, I do suggest you do so now. And all I want you to do, it's very fucking simple. And again, you can do this while you're at the gym. You can do this while you're walking into a nightclub is imagine the dude who you would love to be standing right in front of you. That's right. It's you standing in front of you dressed the way you want him to be. His body looks like the way you want him to be.

15:46 His haircut is how you want it to be. The way his face looks, the grin on his face, the way his eyes look. He's confident. He's standing tall. He's feeling good, man. That guy's feeling really good. He's vibrating. Dude, girls want that guy in his pocket. There's like 10 phone numbers that girls have shoved in there. Whoa, whoa, whoa. Look at his neck. There's some lipstick on his neck from some chick that kissed him. You can smell him and he smells like perfume. That's because he just got laid with the girl last night.

16:13 This guy's a fucking girl magnet. It's you, brother. Look at him right now. Start to feel how he feels. How's that guy feeling, man? He's feeling good, right? Now, if you want to, make him twice the size. I want you to make him even bigger. And I want you to make him vibrating and glowing a certain color. What color is he growing? That's right. See that color reverberating like neon lights all through him. The smile on his face grows bigger. His confidence is now doubling, quadrupling, 10X.

16:44 This dude is a fucking lion. And he's standing right there in front of you and it's you. Now, what I want you to do is walk over to him and step inside of him. The second you step inside of him, you feel that same feeling that he feels. 10X the confidence. 10X the self-worth. 10X your ability with women. Your mind is free and agile and you say things that come to you without any thought whatsoever. You walk with confidence in your step. You have a slight smirk on your face, a wry smile, as I like to call it.

17:16 As you walk in and you see the hottest girl of the day and you have zero fear to approach her. You want to go approach her because you know that girl could be the one for you, man. And you are neglecting to approach her because the past you is fearful, but the present you is a fucking 10. And he knows his self-worth. Become that dude. Feel the way he feels. Act the way he acts. Talk the way he talks. Be him. Act as if you are already that guy and do it consistently with our first assignment being today, Thursday, tomorrow, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.

17:49 And if you happen to be listening to this on a Sunday, then you have four days through this, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. Just add four days onto where you're starting. Four days of acting as if and watch how much your confidence changes. Watch how much girls will be attracted to you. I literally guarantee if you stick to this, you will get 47% more attraction from women. But more importantly, you need to get intrusive and revise those files that are going to invariably be nipping at your heels like a bunch of piranhas in a river that you're trying to cross.

18:23 They're going to constantly say, man, stop bullshitting yourself. You're not really that guy. You're fucking this guy. You don't get girls. Those voices are going to constantly try to drag you down. If you want to remove them with my extremely potent NLP protocols, you got to come join us, man, in the three-month coaching program. I don't know what else to tell you, bro. Unless you get intrusive and revise those files, we could do a hundred of these types of very simple NLP processes. But until you get in there and remove that shit like a splinter from your brain, I hate to say, you're largely going to get the same results over and over again.

18:56 That is a small sample, just a tiny nugget of some of the shit that I do for my boys in my program. And you will be invited with open arms if you would just book your appointment. Go to my website, CoachMarkSingh.com. Fill in the quick application, send it in. You and I are going to email back and forth a little bit and then we're going to talk about whether or not you're a good fit for us. But more importantly, if we are a good fit for you, can I 10X your results with this NLP?

19:25 If I can, you too will be writing me a review like Charlton just did where you will say that I have changed your life and it was the best investment you ever made. That is my goal. So act as if, man, what's to lose, right? Faking until you make it. See that dude in front of you the way you want to be and step inside of him and feel that same way and go take that feeling into your life over the next four days and enjoy the results that are about to happen.

19:50 I do appreciate you listening, gentlemen. I drop podcasts on Mondays and Thursdays, so please stay tuned for the next one and I will see you in the next episode. I'll see you in the next episode.

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