How to Fill The Top of Your Funnel With 10X More Girls (Sooooo Powerful!)

0:00 Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate it. And today, we are going to talk about how to get higher quality girls and lots more of them into your life with what I call top of funnel ideas. This is in honor of two new clients who recently signed up to my three-month group coaching program.

0:35 Their names are Brent and Nathan. What is up, boys? And they are actually roommates. And I want to do this podcast specifically for them because I want to show you how I'm going to coach them to leverage their roommate situation. And this is something that I did with my roommate, who was also one of my co-coaches when I was doing field coaching for guys. And infield means taking them to the bars and the nightclubs and day game. We live together, me and Eric. And we used to do this all the time.

1:03 And we had absolutely phenomenal success with it. So when you do become a coaching client, I will oftentimes do podcasts in your honor. And this is something I've been excited to show the boys. There's more where this comes from, but I'm going to reserve that for them. And when you do come into the program, it's all about filling the top of your pipeline with as many girls as possible, because from quantity comes quality. So that's a huge thing that we focus on. And this is one thing that I want my boys to do.

1:29 So if you have a roommate, or even if you don't, you know, you can definitely do this with a friend. Even if you live with your parents, you can still do something like this. So pay attention. This is a really good way to fill the top of your funnel with as many girls as possible. Put yourself in the alpha position, which as I've discussed a lot in this podcast is really, really important when it comes to attracting women. So check it out and hopefully learn a thing or two that can benefit you with your pursuit of women.

2:03 Before I get into the content, I want to take a minute to thank those guys who have recently given me a review. The recent reviews have been absolutely phenomenal. I can't remember exactly what was said. But I just read through them this morning. And I was like, damn, bro, these guys really laced me up with some awesome reviews. I really appreciate everything you guys said. You know who you are, if you did leave me a review, and I really, really appreciate it. You know, some of you guys are saying that my teachings are much better than any other pickup artist.

2:28 I'm way on another level helping you live helping you benefit with not only girls, but life in general. And you know what, I really, really appreciate, you know, that recognition. And it means a lot to me, man, you know, I'm not going to lie. I'm not completely dependent on it, because I am internally validated. And I feel good about what I'm doing. And ultimately, that's all that matters. But you know, hearing from you guys in that way, especially knowing that I'm changing guys lives, the way some of you are saying I am, it really means a lot.

2:57 And this morning, I read through them. And I was in the cannonball position on the corner of my bed crying like a schoolgirl, because of all the love that's been shown. So if you want to leave me a review, please do so. Obviously, a five star review and preferably with some writing behind it, lace me up with that and then email me at coachmarksing at gmail.com. And I will send you a bunch of cool shit. And I'm going to get a French artist to chisel out a bust of your countenance so that I can have it in my foyer.

3:25 And below the bust, it will say Les champions par excellence. And that's going to be you and songs will be written about you that will be sung around campfires for generations to come. All right, boys, let's go ahead and jump into the content. So when first getting better with women, ultimately, we want to get better at speaking to them. We want to get better at interacting with them. And in so doing, it's important to fill the top of our pipeline with as many girls as possible.

3:52 We do that by leveraging the online dating apps. And I always suggest you guys get on as many as you possibly can. Actually, one of the services that I do with my three month coaching program is I have my guys take professional pictures and I guide them on how to do that. They send me the pictures and then me and my three hottest girlfriends go through them. So Marissa, Lindsay and Alicia, they all come over, they all look at them and they tell me which ones we should put in which order.

4:20 And then I give my boys templates to use. So when you're on, you know, five, six, seven, eight different apps, and you're messaging these chicks with these templates, you're getting good results. And it's funny about Brent and Nathan, because they both told me they're like, yeah, we'd love to do some of the top of funnel ideas that you're teaching us. But we're so busy with all the dates that we're getting off just online with the templates that you gave us, you know, the method you showed us.

4:45 We don't even really have time yet to do that. So for you, Brent and Nathan, when the online dating platforms start to kind of fizzle out a little bit, which they will in the beginning, it's always a big wave. And then it kind of tempers out just a little bit. I want you guys to implement this specifically because COVID is about to be lifted. So my prediction is COVID is going to go away probably by the summer. I mean, it'll always still be here, but all the restrictions are going to go away probably by summer.

5:12 So you guys can ride that wave of all the girls you're getting off on the online dating as well as the cold approaching. And then once the bars and the nightclubs open up again, once we're allowed to be social, this is what I want you guys to do. All right. So this works off the premise that women are attracted to the leader of men and women like to do things that are generally fun and they're usually pretty social, especially the really hot ones. They like to go out.

5:40 They like to be noticed. They like to dress up and be in a social circle that's worthy of them. So what I did with my roommate is we set up what we called a potluck or a pregame party or even a dinner party that we used to have at our apartment. Okay. So once again, if you're living with a roommate and he's open for this, do that, obviously Brett and Nathan live together so they can do it. Or if you, like I said, live with your parents, but your good friend has an apartment or has a place that's open, you can do it with him.

6:12 But I'm telling you, setting up this top of funnel idea is extremely, extremely powerful to not only get more women attracted to you, but to get even more women attracted to you after you do what I'm going to explain in the minutes ahead. So this is a way to absolutely just flood your pipeline with chicks. Okay. So as you're going out and doing your cold approaches and Nathan and Brent, obviously you have the assignment to approach 20 girls a week per my three month coaching program. So you're approaching those 20 girls a week.

6:41 You're getting some phone numbers, you're getting Instagram, you're getting Snapchats, but a way to leverage this in a better way, and there's different ways to skin a cat, but this is just one way. And this is what I suggest for you guys is to actually tell them, Hey, listen, we have a little pregame party on Saturday nights, Friday nights, whatever it is. Why don't you toss me your number? And if it works out, maybe you and some friends can come. Okay. So instead of trying to get her number with the explicit intent of dating her, you're just getting phone numbers for people to come attend your party.

7:11 Now, obviously, and this shouldn't even be mentioned, but we're trying to get as many girls to come over and few guys. So Brent and Nathan, it's you two guys, right? For each guy, there needs to be at least three girls that needs to be the ratio. So right there between you two guys, there needs to be six girls, preferably eight, even better 10. Another guy comes in, like, let's say you have a good friend who wants to join. He absolutely without argument has to bring three girls.

7:38 So the ratio is good. When you have that kind of ratio, girls get way more attracted to you. Now, check this out from the female's perspective, okay? So cool guy comes up to her, chats her up, just says to her, Hey, we have a little party. Why don't you and your friends come? From her perspective, it's innocent. You're not necessarily trying to get into her underwear yet. But from her perspective, it's a cool pregame party. There's probably going to be free drinks, which I'm going to talk about in a second.

8:07 And it's safe and she can bring friends. You have a much higher chance of seeing that girl again if you set up something like this than if you just get the phone number and try to take her on a date. So for a couple of years there, me and my buddy, Eric, this was our bread and butter. This is pretty much all we did. Even when we went out to the clubs, Hey, we got this pregame thing. Hey, we got this going. Hey, we're having a barbecue.

8:32 Hey, we're having a dinner party. It would always be about all the girls who we collected that week, that month, over the last six months, we would invite them. And it's almost like you're sending out a bulk text, a marketing text. That was just a template that I wrote up. Hey, what's up? We're having this here. Here's the address. Park on the street. Bring something if you want to, but not necessary. We're going to go out after. Okay. So here's another thing about it is the pregame party goes down.

9:00 You could call it a pregame. You could call it a barbecue. You could call it a potluck. If you want people to bring food, you could also call it a dinner party. And then we go out afterwards. But the basic premise is this. We're all gathering at my place and Brent and Nathan, check this out. You clean up your place. You get it dialed in, invite all these chicks that you met. Okay. They all come over. You guys have drinks. You're all talking. You guys are in the alpha position.

9:20 Can you see how important this is? This is your place. You're inviting chicks over and check this out. There's jealousy plot lines that are arranged and built into this. So check this out from a female's perspective. Some cool guy comes up to you, isn't trying to get in your underwear, just wants to invite you to his party because you're cool. You're like, yeah, you know, it sounds okay. He tells you bring some friends. Hopefully she brings girlfriends. That's a whole different podcast to weed out the dudes.

9:47 But most of the time they're going to bring girlfriends. I've had some girls bring dudes sometimes and I pull them aside. And in a very socially intelligent way, I say, yo, next time bring girls. You know what I mean? We're doing this in order to get everybody into the club and it makes it much harder when there's guys there. So next time, could you do that? And they're always like, yeah, yeah, that's cool. And then their dude friends can't come. So as a woman, you go to this pregame party of this cool guy.

10:12 He might be a little bit attracted to, not totally yet, but a little bit. He's setting it up. He's super social. And whoa, there's tons of other hot girls here. Jesus, I have to fight for this guy. He's obviously extremely attractive. Girls are obviously very into him. He's super social. And let's be honest, if hot girls are here, then he's probably super sexy and super in demand. Oh, I'm way more attracted to him. So bro, you could literally, and here's the thing, Brent and Nathan, listen up as well as the rest of you guys.

10:43 You will probably have sex with every single girl who comes. I'm serious. This is so powerful, bro. I can't even tell you how powerful this is because again, you're in the alpha position. Now, obviously there's some dramas that take place. There's other logistical challenges that we're going to figure out as you deploy this. But basically you become so ridiculously attractive through this method, this top of funnel idea that has proven true, not only for myself, not only for my buddy, Eric, but dozens and dozens of my clients who have done this.

11:17 This is fucking magic, how strong it is. So the girl comes over, she's getting attracted to you. You're cool to her. You're like flirting with all the girls, but not necessarily like super flirting with them. Never make out with a girl in front of all the other girls. Never really let it be obvious that you're having sex with them. In fact, I would have sex with none of them on the nights we went out. I would hang out with them individually afterwards. So Saturday nights, which is when we did it, I'm basically nurturing my pipeline.

11:44 I'm not hooking up with any of the girls. I'm not making obvious that I'm hooking up with anybody. I don't shit where I eat. Then I'll hit them up the day after, a couple of days later. Hey, it was fun the other night. What are you up to this week? Oh, this, that, and the third. Then I closed the date and this is how it'd be getting, you know, four or five dates a week. So as I'm approaching girls, inviting them to the potluck, as they come to the potluck, nurturing their attraction.

12:09 After the potluck, I invite them to hang out one-on-one. Boom. That's when you seal the deal. So after the dinner party goes down, potluck, whatever you want to call it, then you guys all go to the nightclub together. Now let me ask you this. If you and your boy roll up with 10 hot girls, what do you think is going to happen? You guys are going to go straight to the front of the line. You're going to get allowed in. You may be even given a table.

12:30 You're going to be the center of attention. You guys are now the pimps in the nightclub. And what happens to the champions in the nightclub? They get more girls. So this is what I call nurturing. I'd bring all my girls in. Usually we get a table, but sometimes not. Whatever it is, we claim a little piece by the bar, just kind of make that our area. And then I'd go hit on other girls, get the phone number. And then what do I do? Hey, you're out here on a Saturday night.

12:55 How about coming to my pregame party next week? Right? And you're constantly getting girls in the door who are just hotter and hotter and harder. And then you're cycling out the ones that don't make the cut. You simply don't text them. And you know, there's some logistical challenges. People get butthurt. There's dramas. Yeah, girls will talk to each other and you can sometimes get a reputation. But if you're very, very methodical, remember guys, this is chest, not checkers. And you're smart about how you do it.

13:24 And you're patient. Most importantly, you got to control that red helmeted warrior in that pants of yours. Control that motherfucker. Discipline him. You are the general. He's the soldier. Don't let him tell you what's going to happen. You tell that motherfucker what's going to happen. Listen, you fucker. You stay down. Stand down. Stand down, Sergeant Ejaculate. I'm the general here. You fall in line, you motherfucker. And he's like, all right, all right, I'm sorry. And then he waits his turn. Okay, remember guys, chest, not checkers.

13:48 This is the long play. So as you control that little bastard, all you're doing is just working your magic. You're getting more numbers. You're getting more girls attracted to you. Never, ever making out with or hooking up with the girl in front of the other girls. I mean, okay, I'm going to admit it happened a couple of times when it was just like, I couldn't control that little bastard in my underwear. But seriously, the best way to do it is to control yourself. So you guys are out at the nightclub.

14:16 You're introducing girls to other girls. You're walking around with like three girls on your arm. Are you kidding me, dude? This is so gangster, bro. Like, oh man, I have so many stories about this of shit that just happened. But usually how it works is, you know, you invite 10 chicks, maybe six or seven will show up. So what we would always do is obviously invite more than we think that we could accommodate. Like usually it's about a 75% show up rate. So you're going to want to put that into your calculations when you invite these chicks.

14:45 I myself don't drink and I've always had like trucks and big cars where I can get a lot of chicks into the back. One other guy would be a designated driver. He gets girls into the back. They all leave their cars at your apartment. So it's kind of like they're dependent on you in a way to come home with you. So other guys can't yank them away. Dude, there's so many bulletproof gangster ass levels to this whole potluck thing, to this whole pregame thing that it can't even be explained until you try it.

15:11 So Brent, Nathan, when you guys first joined, you remember, I told you, I was like, bro, I'm so excited. I've never had two roommates in the coaching program before. We've already talked some shop. We've done some strategies and you guys are absolutely killing it. But I wanted to do this podcast specifically for you because this shit is so powerful. So let's review this. As you guys go through your week cold approaching, bro, you could even do this on the online dating apps just as equally as powerful.

15:35 We did that as well. You're yanking phone numbers. And then a couple of days before say, Hey, we're having that party on Saturday night. It's a pregame. You can even do a potluck where these girls bring some food to contribute, but usually you should be the one who's supplying the liquor, right? You got like Stoli, Jack Daniels, the things that girls typically like to drink. I used to be a bartender coincidentally, uh, just for a couple of years, but I never drink. So I would make like pina coladas and daiquiris and shit like that for all these girls.

16:07 And they loved it, man. And they can get sauced up before they go. They don't have to pay for their drinks. They're a little bit intoxicated, throw them in the car. I drive them to the club, roll in like, dude, do you even understand how good you look when you pull up with 10 girls and it's just you and your boy and maybe one other guy, but it's ridiculous. You roll into the club, you get the VIP treatment, you get all these hot girls with you. And then all the other hot girls get attracted to you.

16:29 Go approach them, chat them up and say, Hey, you know, these are my group of friends. We do this pregame party. Why don't you come bring a friend, preferably a girl? Oh yeah, for sure. I'll do it. Boom. You get more girls. Now, again, these parties can get big. Like dude, sometimes we'd have like 25, 30 people in these things. It's best in my opinion, to have about 10 girls is usually about what's handleable because it's like herding cats. And there's drama, like girls getting fights because they like, they have a crush on you and they saw you flirting with the other girl.

16:59 There's drama, bro. Like you're going to bring tons of girls into your life. You're going to have drama, but you guys want your pick of the litter. All you guys want that. This is what you all want. Let me tell you, bro. I want to just date lots of different girls and then choose my queen from abundance. I know that's what you want. Every single motherfucker right now is listening to this is nodding his head. Yep. Mark Singh is right. Uncle Mark Singh is right. Yet again, of course I'm right.

17:20 I know what you want. And this is the way to do it is to fill the top of your pipeline with tons of girls. Again, there's going to be some drama, but it's worth it. Are you kidding me? Roll into the club. You're getting all kinds of other girls and it's a continuous stream of updating girls who are attracted to you because you're in the alpha position. You're not trying to hook up with anybody. So you look clean. They're super attracted to you. There's jealousy plot lines.

17:46 This makes you hundred times more attractive than just rolling up to a girl in Starbucks and trying to yank her number, take her on a date and have sex with her, which is certainly possible. In fact, pretty easy once you've gone through the program. But this, this is the way to get nines and tens. This is the way to get absolute abundance into your life. So listen, I know a lot of you guys aren't into like the clubs and the bars and all that stuff. You could do this with anything, man.

18:12 You can have, my buddy, Robbie Kramer was talking about it last year when he came on my podcast. He's like, we used to have like dinner parties where people get dressed up. This is a dress up dinner party. We have it twice a month. You dress up however you want, or you have like a toga theme, or you have like a 1970s disco thing or an eighties thing, whatever you can think of. And then you guys have a potluck. There's so many different ways to take this where you don't have to necessarily go to the bars and the nightclubs.

18:40 For me personally, I like really hot girls and usually really hot girls are in their twenties. So for me personally, especially when I was back in Arizona and I was hitting this hard for those couple of years, you know, we were yanking like girls just out of college who are still super hot and they haven't got fat yet. So that was my personal style. But some of you older guys who want to be more sophisticated, quote unquote, with this, there's a myriad of different ways to do this.

19:05 What you do is you approach, you don't try to close the number on the premise of a date. You close the number on, Hey, you seem pretty cool. We have this like dinner party thing on Saturday nights where people get dressed up. It's an awesome thing. You seem really cool. It seems like you'd add value to that. Why don't you toss me your number and I'll tell you about it. You can bring a couple of friends. Oh yeah, for sure. Cool. Boom. Get her number. And then you text her in a certain way for my clients.

19:28 You know, I have certain templates about texting girls, but you guys who won't become my clients, you know, you text them and you build them up, use some marketing strategies, close them on it, send them your address, remind them the day of there's logistical things you need to do. But when you get these girls into your home, it's over, bro. Like they've come to your territory. Other girls are attracted to you. You're surrounded with super hot girls. And if anyone calls you out on it, which happened to me, you know, pretty often like, dude, what's with all these girls?

19:54 Why, why girls all the time? I'm like, I love girls, man. I get along with them better than I do guys. I just jive with them. You girls are so fun. You have such a good energy. I love being around women. That's why. Or I'd flip it on them. You say something along the lines of like, why would you even ask me that question? Girls are awesome. They're so much funner than guys. They can let loose, have a good time. They're hilarious. Why wouldn't I want to be surrounded with girls, right?

20:19 Like just be honestly confused as to why she'd ask you that. But I'm telling you, Brent and Nathan, this is your next step. Once the wave of girls that you're getting off the online dating platforms have subsided, or once you realize how powerful this is, once the bars start opening and the nightclubs start opening, I want you guys to make your apartment into a pregame slash potluck slash dinner party slash whatever you want type environment to continuously pull girls into your life. This is kind of, oh my hell boys, you better prepare yourself.

20:47 As I always say to you guys, buy condoms, make sure you're constantly being careful with STDs. Don't let her sick the duck. If she has a big ass cold sore on her lip, like you got to run a tight battleship, man, because you don't want to get really lump lump, which has happened. I dare say not only to my friends, but a couple of times to myself embarrassingly, but now I'm clean. I'm good to go. Got nothing, but you know, that shit sneaks up on you when you least expect it.

21:11 So don't let the horse out of the stable without a saddle boys. That's the final lesson of this one, because you both are about to get more ass than a toilet seat. All right, gentlemen, that's it for me in this podcast. If you found value, I'd really appreciate it if you left me a review. Obviously, a five-star review with some writing behind it. Tell the boys what you found valuable. As I said previously, those guys who have left reviews over the last several weeks, salute you, man.

21:36 I really do appreciate that. Smack yourself on the ass. You are a goddamn champion. So I release podcasts on Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and I have another awesome one dropping in the next few days. So stay tuned for that, and I will see you in the next episode.

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