How to Yank a Hot Girl's Number SUPER FAST

0:00 Welcome to The Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of The Uniform Mike Papa. My name is Mark Sing, and I am your fearless host today, and I have a great episode for you about how to yank a girl's phone number when you have very little time. When you're in a rush, and you just got to get to work, or you got to get to your next meeting, and you see the hottest girl of the month right there, and you're like, God bless America, I wish I could just have the tools and techniques necessary to pull this girl's number.

0:45 Well, brother, your uncle Mark Sing has your back. Today, we are going to discuss how to do just that. Before I jump into the content, I want to thank you guys yet again for the reviews. I just got an awesome one, and forgive me if I butcher your name, buddy, but it was Retro Cocktail Guy was wondering if I actually read the reviews. Hell yeah, I read the reviews. Is there a mustache in Mexico? Of course I read those reviews, bro, and that one particularly was really long, really thoughtful, so I want to give you a personal shout-out.

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2:11 You'll jump on my schedule, and you and I will get on that phone call to discuss what it's going to take to get you to the point where you can see an ultra hot girl and yank her phone number in the following method. All right, so this is specifically when you have no time, okay? Now, with that premise being laid, sometimes you actually want to pretend you don't have enough time just because this is so damn effective. I have yanked so many damn numbers this way, usually when I don't have a lot of time, but also when I'm really trying to have a good day, get a lot of numbers, really fill the top of my pipeline with as many girls as possible, okay?

2:47 So here's the basic premise, okay? You're going through your day, you turn right, and there's a fucking 10 right there, and you're like, oh my hell, if I do not approach this girl, I am going to regret it for the rest of my life, but I have no time. I'm late for work. I'm late for math class. My parents are going to be home in an hour, and I got to get home real quick so I can draw a porn hub and rub one out real quick.

3:07 You know how that goes. So you're like, fuck, dude, I got to get this over with really quickly. So here's what I suggest, okay? First and foremost, the foundation, and a lot of you guys know what I'm going to say. Bro, you have to be warmed up, man. You have to be in state. All of us know that there's a difference between when you're in the flow, when you're just chopping it up with your friends, you've talked with a lot of people, your voice is warmed up, you're funny, you're charismatic, you're not in your head, you're in the present moment.

3:33 And from that present moment intelligence, that confidence comes out. Those witty things come out, and you're just on it, right? When you're cold, and you haven't approached anybody all day, and then you see a solid 10, bro, the chances of you being able to yank your number, I mean, are decent with the tactic I'm going to show you, especially if you have your inner workings together. But the chances are lower than if you're warmed up. So a lot of you guys don't warm up. You don't go through your day talking to random people.

4:01 You don't open and eject, which is a central tenet of my three-month coaching program. My guys open and eject with 20 women a week, and at the end of their three months, they've opened with 12 times 20 is 240. 240 women plus. And as we go through the program, we do what we call stacking. So you stack things on top of each other, and you build conversations, okay? So in the beginning, when you guys are just getting started, what I suggest is open and eject, like fucking parachute out of the cockpit the second you say you're opening line, and get out of there.

4:36 This shows you that most women are nice. You don't have to fear rejection, and this is a way to sidestep rejection so you get yourself in a positive energy matrix. After you've opened like 100 girls, your subconscious mind is like, okay, you know what? That bullshit I believed about opening women is incorrect. I'm not going to get rejected. Most people are cool when you're cool to them. Strangers are friends I haven't met yet. That becomes your new mentality. So what you do is every day, you're kind of just chopping it up with people, and you don't have to get into long conversations.

5:07 In fact, I don't like to get in long conversations. And this is part of the reason I really like this quick yanking of the phone number, because I honestly don't have a lot of time to sit there yapping with this chick. And some will believe, I don't necessarily know if I agree with this completely. I can see how it's kind of true. Some will tell you that the longer you stay in, the more chance you have of fucking it up, right? You could do some low value mannerism, some unconfident thing.

5:33 You can like milk the conversation, which is a PUA term for just like talking about one thing too long, right? She says she has a dog, or perhaps you open her about her dog, and you just go on and on and on about the damn dog. Guys do this all the time. So with this method, we get in, we get out, we yank the phone number. Now, that's a positive because it's a really good way to get the phone number. It's a negative because you haven't had a chance to build rapport, build attraction.

6:01 There may be some attraction there just because you're so confident to do this. And I'll tell you, the more ballsy you are with approaching a woman, for example, approaching her in a parking lot when she's driving and stopping the car and yanking her phone number, the higher chance she has of texting you back. Why? Because it shows confidence. So when you don't have a lot of time, it's probably not going to stick as well as if you were able to build attraction, you really had her into you.

6:29 Better yet, she's trying to kiss you. She's pushing her number on you. Of course, that's going to give you a better opportunity to date her later. But this is the quick, like, I'm about to miss a train, kind of born identity kind of thing. I got the cops on my ass. Let me grab your number real quick as I'm running by you kind of thing. Okay, so here's what I suggest. There's two different kinds of approaches. And you guys who have been listening for a long time, smack yourself on the ass.

6:53 You are a champion. You should know this. What are the two different kinds of approaches? That's right. There's a direct approach. There's indirect. Indirect is where you just ask for directions. You maybe tell her she has a cute dress on. You just get into an innocuous conversation with her that leads to a phone number. Direct approach, which, by the way, is my preference, is where you straight up tell her, hey, I think you're cute. I want to grab your phone number. What's up? Now, you don't say it that way, but that's the basic premise.

7:22 Okay, so obviously, since we don't have a lot of time, bro, we just got to be direct. You got to be as direct as direct can be. You're going to let her know. I think you're cute. I want to grab your number. Initially, the very first thing I say is what's called a false time constraint. Hey, I got to get out of here in a second, but. Okay, so that's what I always start with. Hey, listen, I got to get out of here in a second.

7:44 Kind of random, but I think you are absolutely gorgeous, and I'd be kinking myself the rest of the day unless I met you. What's up? What's your name? And she's like, hey, I'm Kelly. And then you say, what's up? I'm Mark. Listen, I have to go right now. I'm literally late for a meeting, so I'm going to do the only thing I can do in this situation and ask for your phone number. That way, we can catch up later. Okay, so that's how you do it.

8:04 So first is the false time constraint, which lets her know you're in a hurry. That also kind of puts her guard down a little bit because we know, and I talked about this about the bitch shield episode. If you didn't hear it, I talk about why women have bitch shields because when a stranger approaches you, you have a bitch shield too. You're like, what does this guy want from me? What is he trying to sell me? That's the basic mentality you have when you're approached. So when you start with the, hey, I got to get out of here right now, but her shield goes down immediately because she knows you're not going to try to stick her there.

8:37 She knows why you're approaching, so why not just fucking admit it, right? After all the years of cold approach that I've done, now it's just like, bro, I'm attracted to you. What's up, right? It's like your intentions are on the table. Now, this is really important. I'm not telling her she's won the game with me. As I always say with you guys, she's still the one submitting the application, but I'm letting her know I am physically attracted to you. I think you're cute. I love your style.

9:01 You're beautiful. What's your name, right? So she knows, okay, this is a sexual conversation and she gets to decide if she's attracted to you. And frankly, you get to decide if you're attracted to her too. So a lot of times, particularly in the bars and nightclubs when I'm really killing it, I'd say, hey, listen, I want to come over here and meet you and see if you were interesting. See how that works? Like, I'm like, hey, you're adorable. I had to come meet you and see if you were interesting.

9:26 It's like, yeah, you're hot, but that's just one check mark off 10 different boxes. Are you interesting? Are you fun? Are you smart? Are you cool to talk to? I don't know. That's why I'm standing here. So this is the same communication that sub communicated when you go up in your body language. You say, hey, listen, I got to get out of here in a second, but I saw you standing over here. I got to admit, I think you're absolutely gorgeous. I'd be kicking myself the rest of the day unless I came and spoke to you.

9:53 What's up? What's your name? Hey, Kelly, I'm Mark. Listen, I literally have to go. I'm late right now. So I'm going to do the only thing I can do. And that's ask for your phone number. That way we can catch up somewhere outside the parking lot. And that's usually what I'd say when I literally stop cars. Like I'd stand in front of cars, stop and go up to the window and do this. I get numbers so often that way. Takes balls, dude. Takes like cojones, man.

10:16 I'm talking steel balls clanging behind a fucking freight train kind of cojones. Okay, so let's review because I know a lot of you guys want to write this down. All right. So first you say, hey, I got to get out of here in a second. But then you say something along the lines of, I thought you were absolutely gorgeous. I had to come meet you. I'd be kicking myself the rest of the day unless I did. Now that's a compliment and that's okay. And, you know, we do have rules about compliments, which work into what I call the 80-100 rule.

10:45 You want to give her about 80% of the compliments that she gives you. But initially, specifically in this approach, it's acceptable to let her know that you think she's pretty. You think she has a great style. Hey, I thought you looked really sophisticated. Maybe something like that. What you feel is most appropriate for you. And then the I'd be kicking myself the rest of the day unless I came and met you is super flattering. Like, what if a girl said that to you, bro? With confidence, by the way.

11:12 See, a lot of guys will come up and they'll be all weird and she won't know what he wants from her. And he's, like, creepy and, like, compliments her in the wrong way. And that's really bad because he's just doing it in the wrong way. But a slight deviation from that, kind of creepy, like, hey, baby, I just thought you were so beautiful. My name's Bob. Why don't you hand me your phone number and maybe sometime we'll catch up. What do you say? As he winks.

11:37 Okay? Horrible, dude. Horrible. Don't do that Rico Suave shit. You want to be almost, like, confidently vulnerable in a way. You see what I'm saying? Like, you're putting yourself out there, but you're cool with it. And listen, I'm putting myself out there. If you stomp on me right now, I'll be fine because I'm completely internally validated. You guys who, like, try to do this, like, Rico Suave shit, like, the winking and the, like, try to change your voice. Fuck all that, bro. Like, drop that shit.

12:04 We want you authentic. Your authenticity. You're putting yourself out there. You're being confident in the fact that you're attracted to her is what's going to attract her. A lot of times I'll train guys and, like, I'll see them talking to girls and I'll be like, bro, like, what's up with the Rico Suave shit? Like, where's your comb and your hair wax and your 1970s collared shirt with your chest hair being wrapped around all the gold chains you're wearing around your neck? Come on, bro. Like, drop it down a gear, Mr.

12:30 70s Rico Suave. Nah, just authentic, man. How do you get authentic? First of all, you open and eject with 240 women, like I have my guys do in the coaching program. Once you're, like, at about 100 women, bro, you chill out so much. You talk to girls just like I'm talking to you. It's, like, no big deal. It's just a person, as I talked about in a previous episode as well. So, you let her know, hey, I think you're really cute. I'd be kicking myself the rest of the day if I didn't come meet you.

12:59 You could even say, I wanted to come and see if you're interesting. I usually wouldn't say that. I'd just say I'd be kicking myself the rest of the day. And then I say this, if you want to write this down. I'm going to do the only thing I can do in this situation, which is ask for your phone number so we can catch up some other time when I have a minute to chat. Okay? And it also kind of makes you look good because, like, you're in a hurry.

13:18 You're a go-getter. You're ambitious. You're doing shit. Hey, I got to catch a train. I got to catch a flight to Dubai. Don't say that. But, like, you know what I mean? Like, you're a go-getter. You're getting shit done. And you stopped your day to quickly go approach her. Okay. Now, instead of asking for her phone number, I strongly suggest you guys consider setting up your Instagram profile where it shows a great life. It shows pre-selection. It shows you have lots of hot girls in your life.

13:46 You do cool shit. You're a go-getter. You have an awesome lifestyle. And ask for the Instagram. Okay? So this is what I would do all the time when I would cold approach girls. My Instagram was dial, bro. I had tons of pictures of me with other chicks. Not hooking up. Basically, it looks like they're my friends. We're doing cool things. I have a cool lifestyle. Because here's the deal. Hot girls are in a little society of their own. It's like they have their own little reality.

14:12 Their own little world that they live in. And if you show that you're a part of that world, that you have hot girls in your life as well, she's going to feel more comfortable to talk to you. If you're like a dweeb slave, you're a sea donkey or a douche canoe, and you don't really have that lifestyle that's up to her level, you're not going to pull her. And that's why I've said before, too, is like you have to be a 10 before you can get a 10.

14:34 Because she's looking for a 10, too, bro. And no 10 is going to settle for a guy who isn't a 10. Now, this doesn't mean your looks. This means what's going on inside your head. You could be a 10 and look like a Chicken McNugget with tits, be bald, and have fucking bingo arm, which is when old grandmas say, bingo, and then their tricep flaps in the breeze. That's bingo arm. You could be rocking bingo arm and still pull girls. And you could still be a 10. So it's none of that bullshit.

14:59 It's basically what goes on inside your head, the way you hold yourself, bro, the way you approach her. A guy who's completely secure in himself can look like a goddamn mountain troll and go up to her and talk to her in just that way and say, Hey, listen, I had to come let you know. I think you were so beautiful. I'd be kicking myself the rest of the day unless I came and spoke to you. I'm going to do the only thing I can do here in that task for your number.

15:20 That way we can catch up some other time outside the fruit section in the supermarket. She laughs, boom, gives you your number. Or like I said, better Instagram. Okay, so if you get the Instagram, which I highly suggest, like I would suggest it, bro, like nine out of 10 times. Occasionally you can go for the number. But with women, not only is the number kind of more personal, but the Instagram, like I said, shows who you are and it does all that work for you. If you have a really good Instagram setup, it's like doing the attraction for you.

15:50 It's basically delegated to the Instagram page. It's like a sales funnel. All the emails are automated. All the sales pages are written. Everything is done for you. You just collect payments. That's the best way to do it, right? So with girls, if you can have an Instagram set up to show pre-selection, ambition, confidence, cool lifestyle, cool friends, you're kicking ass in life, taking names, you're a go-getter, a fucking champion of the highest degree, she's going to want to chat with you. So you let her do a couple laps on the Instagram, wait a couple days, make sure that she's seeing something, maybe she likes some things, and then you shoot her a DM.

16:27 Hey, what's up? So I noticed from your pictures, X, Y, Z, and then you go on from there. And by the way, I teach all that stuff in my coaching program. I've talked about it in other podcasts, how to send a girl a first message. I have templates that we use in my coaching program, by the way, which takes you through the whole thing, as well as the land the first date template. That thing fucking kills it, man. It gets such a high conversion rate. So basically, you hit her up on DM via Instagram.

16:54 Then you ask for a phone number. If you have to, you guys could just DM and set it up. But let's say you get the phone number. Now you're texting. Boom, set up the date. Take her out. This is the way to yank a phone number when you have no time. So once again, you go up with the false time constraint. Hey, I got to get out of here in a second. But then you tell her, I thought you were gorgeous. I would be kicking myself the rest of the day unless I came and met you.

17:17 What's up? What's your name? This gives the opportunity to say, oh, I have a boyfriend or I'm sorry, I'm not interested, which is fine. That's her prerogative. That's her right. It's our job as the man to approach women. It's women's job to let us know if they're going to give us their contact details. Okay, most of the time when you show balls, particularly when you do something super fucking ballsy, like stopping a car in a parking lot, doing it in front of a bunch of her guy friends, doing it in front of a crowd that's watching, you know, walking across like in a legal area.

17:47 Like you see a girl in North Korea, bro, and you're like, fuck this. And you go over to the North Korean site. Hey, I just I had to meet you. I'd be kicking myself. Then Kim Jong-un and his constituents come and arrest you. That's the kind of level that you're definitely going to get a girl's phone number. But you just show balls. You show confidence. And how do you stay warmed up? You keep warming up every day. Better yet, do my coaching program. I will give you the belief systems and the confidence of a guy who pulls.

18:13 If you have any doubt, I actually had a guy just hire me. And he's like, you know, on your podcast, it kind of seemed a lot of what you were saying was too good to be true. Like you say, you can reprogram people's brains. You get these guys amazing results. And I was like, you know what? I understand what you're saying. And I can see why you're saying that. But go look at the 40 plus reviews and testimonials that I have on my sales page. Like those aren't contrived.

18:36 They aren't fake. They're all real. I'm not saying it. My clients are. And yeah, I believe wholeheartedly in what I do. And I think that what I do is pretty much the closest thing to a magic fix you're ever going to get. There is no magic fix. Everybody relax. But in my opinion, it's the closest thing. So if you're like, bro, if I see a 10, I'm not going to have the confidence to go up to her and say what you just explained. It's great, Mark. I like the technique.

18:57 I see everything you're saying. But come on, bro. There's no way. Well, then, dude, you need to fucking fix the bullshit in your head because I'm telling you, there is a way that you exist, bro, that you exist. He's in the future. He's inside of you. But he's there. Are you doing what it takes to reveal him? Are you fixing all the layers of bullshit, all the fucking dirt that's packed onto him, keeping him trapped in his little cocoon? Well, if you aren't, then you're right.

19:23 You won't have the balls to do it. But if you are, if you're working on yourself, you know, in my opinion, NLP, which is what I do, is the shit. And that really gets rid of those belief systems quickly. It unveils that true you inside yourself. It cracks the cocoon of your insecurity. So your true championhood can shine forth. That's what I do in the program. And like I said, we're opening tons of girls. We're getting tons of girls into my guys' pipelines. I had a guy write me today, Dominic, what is up, brother?

19:51 He's like, dude, I'm getting too many messages on the dating apps, brother. What do I do here? So this is the kind of results my guys get because my system works and it is very, very effective. If you want to get on a free call with me to discuss what we can do for you, go to CoachMarkSingh.com, click on coaching, fill in the goddamn slap in the biscuit, and you and I will get on that free one-on-one consultation together. You can also click the link in the description below.

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