Episode 207 · February 3, 2021 · 17 min
NLP PROCESS FOR UNLIMITED MOTIVATION!!!
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In this episode, NLP coach Mark Sing will take you through an NLP process where you'll enter your subconscious mind and flip the switches on your base level motivations when it comes to women, money, and happiness.
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Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast, the only podcast that's all about self-improvement, confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up, guys? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I really do appreciate you joining me today. Today, we are going to do an NLP process. Now, NLP, for those of you who don't know, stands for Neuro Linguistic Programming. The basic premise of NLP is using language to reprogram the programs that are running inside your brain.
Today, we are going to reprogram you for massive motivation. Now, before I jump into the content, I want to urge you to listen to my podcast that hit on Monday. Today, I strongly suggest you listen to that first to understand the concepts as to why we're going to do what we're going to do today. We're going to walk down the staircase into your subconscious mind, open up the panels that run some of your programs, and we are going to get you highly internally motivated. So, as I spoke about in Monday's podcast, if you're too lazy to click over there, if you just need a review, those who are internally motivated are often usually highly confident, and they're not afraid of things like rejection, failing to get money, failing to do whatever it is they want to do, because they're motivated internally rather than externally.
That is to say, they use their self-validation as a means of measuring their success rather than the validation of outside sources such as women, the Joneses, or anybody else like their parents, relatives, and friends to tell them how well they're doing. Now, before we get into that NLP process, I want to let you guys know that I am still accepting applications for a one-on-one free breakthrough session with me to discuss your goals, your desires with women, what you hope to achieve. By listening to things like this podcast, doing programs, and working on yourself in the way that you obviously have been, my program is designed to be a black hole shortcut to basically give you 10 years of advancement in three short months.
So, if you want to jump on the phone with me, go to coachmarksing.com and click on coaching in the upper right-hand corner. You can also click the link in the description below that will explain everything about it. If you're interested, we'll get on the phone and I use NLP in a very systematic way to reprogram your brain over those three months. So, when you first join the three-month coaching program, I send you an NLP intake form to discover your limiting belief systems, your meta programs, your schemas, your archetypes, your traumas that have prevented you from getting women.
Also, things like what we're going to do today, resetting you to be highly internally motivated so that when you're done with the three months or even halfway through the three months, you're an approach machine, you're getting all kinds of girls, you're getting tons of women into your life, you're filling the top of your funnel because from quantity comes quality. And in addition to that NLP protocol that I customized just for you over those three months, I also teach the tactical aspects from A to Z. If you've listened to my podcast for any amount of time, you know I share a lot of good shit where that's concerned, but there's a lot more and I do save my premium, premium stuff for my coaching program.
So, once again, if you're interested in that, then we need to get on the phone together, we need to meet, see if you're a good fit. I always see guys how they could be, not how they are. And if I see you as a different version and I think I can realistically help you, I really believe I can do it, then I'll invite you to the program and we'll get you the results that you've wanted for as long as you can remember, man. I know it, you know it, hell even I know it.
You've wanted these results, you want the ability to attract women at will. Choose or be chosen. I, for one, am not going to be chosen because I can only get a certain kind of girl and I have to wait for her to choose me. Fuck that, fuck that. This is your life, bro. For all we know, we have one chance. I want to give you the power to choose. Where you select that girl, you get tons of girls into your life. And from abundance, you pick your queen just as I did.
And I'll tell you, it's worth it. I had to go through the shit for 10 years and learn this pretty much all myself. You get the black hole shortcut. I'm going to teach you how to get up that mountain in the quickest, easiest way possible so that you reach the summit in just three months. And then you understand everything you have to do to get this abundance of women into your life. Get laid so much, your dick is going to look like a shriveled burn victim hiding in the corner of your underwear.
And then from that, pick the best girl for you. So if you want to check that out, coachmarksing.com. Click on coaching. Click on apply. Answer a few short questions and boom, you and I will get on that Zoom call together. See if I can realistically help you. All right. So today we are going to do that NLP process. And of course, this is a visualization. So naturally, you won't be able to do this while you're driving, working out, shopping, cooking. You'll need to be sitting down, preferably in a quiet place, even better laying down before you go to bed at night.
But listen, if you're doing something else, which I know a lot of you guys do, you like to multitask while listening to a podcast like this one, you can come back to it if you like and believe in what I'm doing here. But for now, for the rest of you who are in a quiet place, let's just go ahead and kind of close your eyes and want you to take a deep breath. And I want you to feel the bottom of your feet. Now, as you focus down there on the bottom of your feet, you feel that there's an aliveness, an energy, perhaps even a pulsating or a tingling feeling down there in the bottom of your feet.
And as you focus on it, you know that you're alive. You know that your energy field extends all the way down to your feet. And you just take a moment to feel that sensation. Now, what I want you to do is I want you to move that energy field up your legs, past your knees, up into your thighs, past your pelvis and into your stomach. Now, I want you to bring that feeling all the way into your heart. And as you focus on your heart, you may feel that energy field beating your heart, beating for you every day, moving your blood, keeping you alive.
And I want you to send your heart a silent thank you. Thank you, heart, for working so hard for me. It's because of you that I stay alive. You work every minute, every second of every day. And I thank you. And it's this heart that is going to give you the courage to do what we're about to do, to go deep into the subconscious mind and change some of the programs that have been hindering you from success with women, hindering you from success with money and happiness and anything else that you want to do better in.
And we're going to do that now. So I want you to look with your eyes closed to your right. You're going to see that there's a door there. And I want you to get up with your imagination and walk over to that door and open it. As you look through the door, you see a staircase. And the staircase goes down into what looks like a dark, cool basement. So I want you to start walking down those stairs. You take one step, two steps, three steps. And as you walk down, you can see the light start to diminish.
You can feel yourself descending into that staircase, trusting that as we go down, we are safe, we are calm, we are comforted, and we are entering deep into the subconscious mind. And now as you arrive down to the bottom step of that staircase, which is about 10 steps down, you see it's a little bit darker. And you look to your left and you see that the staircase continues downwards towards your left. Now I want you to walk down that staircase. Take one step, two steps, three steps, four, five, six.
And as you go down, the light gets a little darker. You can't quite see. So you grab the railing. And as you walk down, you walk down to step number 10. And it's almost too dark to see. But you can make out just to your left that there's another staircase that goes down. And now as you've completed 20 steps into the subconscious mind, it's almost completely black. And now I want you to walk down that other 10 steps. There you go. Grab the railing. Walk all the way down.
And you can feel that you've hit, once again, the bottom of those 10 steps. And now 30 steps down into the subconscious mind. And it turns left again and you grow up and you feel. And you walk down another 10 steps. There you go. Just walk down. Trust it. You can feel it. You can feel it. There's the steps. There you go. And now you're down 40 steps. And it turns left again and there's even more. But you're not scared. You're deep in the subconscious mind. But you're okay. So trust that we're taking you there safely.
You walk down the other 10 steps. There you go. All the way down to where it flattens out again. And now we're 50 steps deep. And one more time. We're just going to go down a little bit further. You're safe. You're calm. It's completely dark. But you're feeling with your hands. And you walk down the other 10 steps to 60. And now is the final staircase. From 60 to 70. And you're going to walk down all the way to step number 68. There you go. Stop. Now if we go any further. We're getting deep into the subconscious mind.
Where we can start controlling our heartbeat. We can start controlling our blood pressure. We can start controlling those involuntary things like breathing. And we don't want to do that. So we're going to back up just a little bit. There you go. Back up. Step back up. 66 step. 65 step. And stop there. Now I'm going to give you a little bit of x-ray vision. And you look to your right. And you see that on the wall there's a bunch of panels. And you look to your left. And you see that on the wall is more panels.
These are the panels that dictate your external versus internal motivations. And right now a lot of those panels are set to incorrect motivations. So first we're going to do the romance panel. That is the panel that deals with women. Go ahead and look to your left. There it is. You see it says romance on it. It's typed out in that old military font. Typed onto a white sticker and stuck onto the panel. I want you to open the panel. And look. There's a big switch there.
It's clicked all the way to the left to externally motivated. And as you look at this switch, you see that on the right of it, it says internally motivated. So here's what you're going to do. You're going to grab the switch on my cue. On the count of three, you're going to grab the switch. And you're going to move it 90% over to internally motivated. Once again, you're going to move it from the left to the right. Go ahead. Grab the switch. Three, two, one. Move it almost all the way over to the right to 90%.
Just leave 10% there to be externally motivated. And there you go. You are 90% internally motivated with the 10% external check just to make sure that the outside world is responding positively to you. And you will adjust accordingly, not because of your emotions, but because you know it will get you the best results. Your emotions are now completely set to internally, which means you validate yourself, you only care what you think, and you follow your own lead. So now that that's been set, I want you to close that panel.
And I want you to look to the right, and you see a panel that says money on it. Go ahead and open that panel. You notice where it's set. For some of you, it's completely to the left, externally motivated. You're the kind of guy who really cares about what other people think of your money. For some of you, it's in the middle, kind of care, you kind of don't. But we're going to get this 90% internally validated, 10% externally. So on the count of three, I want you to move it over to that 90% mark.
Three, two, one. There you go. There it's set. Go ahead and close the panel. And now anything else you'd love to be internally motivated with, perhaps a sport that you play, the job that you're in, your business, whatever it may be, look for that panel. Maybe on the right wall, the left wall, maybe a few steps up. There it is. With your internal vision, your spotlight, you can see it. Go ahead and open up that panel and notice where it's set. On the count of three, we're going to move it over to 90% internally motivated, 10% externally.
Three, two, one. Switch it over. There you go. And go ahead and close that panel. Now, if you need to, take a moment to do anything else you'd like to do. Any other sport, activity, business venture, any other mentality that you'd love to have, there you go. Open up that panel. Switch it over to 90%. There you go. And close that panel. Now, what I want you to do is start walking up the stairs. You're walking quite quickly, not because you're scared, but because you feel great.
You're internally motivated now. And in this case, you're internally motivated with women. You're internally motivated with money. You're internally motivated with anything else that you chose to do so during this exercise. And you're running up the steps incredibly fast, incredibly happy, feeling good. There you go. You're passing step 45. You're running up those steps so fast. It's like you're racing up to the top of a high tower building. And you pass stair 30. And now you're passing stair 20. And you're passing stair 10. And you see the light. And now you're going all the way up.
And you skip a few steps. And you jump all the way to the top. You walk out of that door. And you shut it. And now what I want you to do is walk back into your body as we started this process. And now as we end the process, you are now internally motivated when it comes to women. No longer will their rejection mean anything to you. In fact, you'll find it laughable. You'll find it a good exercise to build your social pressure muscle, your frame.
When you approach a woman, you'll base your feelings of success not on her reaction, but on the fact that you had the balls to approach her. Because you are now internally motivated. It's what you do now that makes the difference. And since your own self is what matters most to you, you're going to do things you were never able to do before. Because you don't care so much about what people think. You care about what you think. Internally motivated. Growth mindset. Highly confident that you can get this part of your life settled.
And now that you are internally motivated, I want you to reach out to me and let you and I talk. I will take that foundational element of internal motivation. I will help you to leverage it. I will help you to build a skyscraper of confidence on top of it. While at the same time giving you all the beliefs, all the meta programs, all the schemas of a guy who is highly, highly attractive and effective with women. I will remove for you past traumas of things that happen with women, of things that happen with your family, things that have traumatized you to prevent you from moving forward with getting this part of your life settled.
I will also teach you all the tactical aspects of attracting women from A to Z. You are going to learn so many attraction building techniques. And you and I will be brothers fighting shoulder to shoulder in the trenches, getting you to the goal that you want so that you can have the ability to choose from abundance, not be chosen from scarcity. All right, boys, that's it for me in this podcast. I hope you enjoyed it. I suggest doing that maybe one or two more times, although one time is all that's really necessary.
But if you really want to hammer that home in your own mind and you enjoyed it, you can go down there anytime and flip over any switches to internally motivated. Think about all the different elements of your life that you'd love to have more control over. Just do that exercise. It's yours anytime you want it. Once again, if you do want to sign up for that coaching call, go ahead and go to coachmarksing.com. Click on coaching. It'll all be there. You can also see testimonials, screenshots, all frequently asked questions, things like that.
And I look forward to meeting you soon. All right, brothers, I got another awesome one dropping on Friday about how to yank the phone number from a bartender, a waitress, a barista, etc. So please stay tuned for that. And I will see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode. We'll see you in the next episode.
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